I am genuinely interested in finding a wife. Where do I look?

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Celia said:
No, my dear... the problem is not your critieria... You're just trying too hard. And you've got it all backwards!

When you focus on being the best version of yourself, rather than on gaining the attention of others, you will be the highly coveted person. Like moths to a flame. But you must be the flame. If you try to chase it, you will only get burned.
This kind of good advice is lost on someone like him. He's better with a .45 to his head.
 

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No, you're the loser. He's just being picky and very selective, probably just like me. I personally prefer someone who's rated a lot hell higher than me. Say if I were a 5, than I'd prefer someone who is at least a 6 or 7. I even boldy pursued someone who is rate 8 or 9. Yup, you heard that. You can call that cocky or arrogant. I call than self-confident. I've a lot hell other to offer that can compensate my look, and I passionately believe in it. For the Asian gentleman who prefer caucasian women, go to Europe. The European women are not as racist as those living in North America. There you have it, my 2 cents.
Bla, bla, bla...Be a man dude and post under your real handle, Poorboy.
 
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poorboy said:
I've tried lavalife, but I don't get any responses because I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

I have been a member of lifemates for three years, and they have not found me a match. I also took horseback riding lessons for almost two years because of the high female/male ratio, but all that happened was that I got really good at riding a horse.

What can I do?
I will give you mine . No charge, i will even deliver.
 

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Well, I think..

Strongbeau said:
Have you tried church? My mom used to say, you'll find your wife at the communion rail.
You will find a better wife by the confessional. Hang around and wait for a woman that spends 1 or 2 hours in there and exits with a 20 page penance list.
 

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You can't hurry love. No. You just have to wait. She said love don't come easy. It's a game of give and take.
 

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poorboy said:
I've tried lavalife, but I don't get any responses because I am 5'7", 150lbs and asian. The criteria for males seems to be a minimum of 5'10", 160lbs and caucasian.

I have been a member of lifemates for three years, and they have not found me a match. I also took horseback riding lessons for almost two years because of the high female/male ratio, but all that happened was that I got really good at riding a horse.

What can I do?
I think you should pick up golf. Tiger did.

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OP:

Your resume is definitely very attractive but its not posted on your forehead. A girl won't see you and think "Wow this guy has a masters and makes 80k/yr...hes a keeper".

Start hitting the gym and get a tan. If your desperate enough trade your current car in for a BMW.

Let the physical attraction lure in the ladies and then have your resume reel her in.
 

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ABC 20/20 on Freakonomics

Has anyone watched the ABC show "20/20 with John Stossel" this past Friday night? I wonder if it was broadcasted in Canada. Basically, that show spent the whole hour talking about Freakonomics which is based on the book written by 2 well known economists.

One of the topic 20/20 talked about was "money vs. look". It first talked about how an unattractive guy can still get a hot chic if he is making enough money. Then, it went on to talk about the study the authors conducted and discovered even how much more money non-white unattractive guys have to make in order to be able to date attractive white women. (Granted that attractiveness is in the eyes of the beholder.) It even breaks down in term of money. Say you're a non-white guy and want to date a hot white chic. Here are how much more you have to make in order to date (I'm not sure it said "date" or "marry". I don't remember) a hot white chic.
Hispanic : you need to make 150K more than the average (a white guy makes)
Black: you need to make 180K more
Asian: you need to make 240K more.

You probably noticed that Asian is at the bottom of that list. Some women they interviewed on the show said that basically if they're going outside of their race, they just want more security to feel more comfortable. I guess race does matter then. So, if you're an Asian and want to date an attractive white woman, but if you don't make enough money, you're f*cked. (Tiger Woods is good example of how much $$$ you make can get you. Though I wonder if they signed any prenuptal agreement.) It's kind of sad but also fascinating to know about. I guess that's life.

I'd probably buy that book ("Freakonomics") and read about it.

eagle2005,
You're a tall Asian guy. Base on what I saw, tall asian guys don't seem to have problem finding a white chic who is willing to date them. Maybe I'm wrong. I agree with you about hobbying around the world, but sooner or later it will end. Right? On the other hand, society seems to think that if you're successful and not married, something must be wrong with you. I sometimes feels that kind of pressure myself especially most of my friends have already married and have children.
 

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adude said:
Say you're a non-white guy and want to date a hot white chic. Here are how much more you have to make in order to date (I'm not sure it said "date" or "marry". I don't remember) a hot white chic.
What about black, hispanic chicks? Why do you have to go after white chicks?
 

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What happened to dating/marrying girls of your own race?

It seems alot of people nowadays want to have an interracial relationship.

To each their own I suppose. :cool:
 
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