I was wondering if this makes me less of a man?

[TittyMan4You]

I'm a lonely man in his late 20s I've lived quite the lonely existence throughout life since my childhood days. So as the days passed by I learned that SPs are my only option if I want to live healthily so I could avoid damaging my sexual health, which in turn can ruin a man's whole body, and mind quite badly.

I called one late last night because I really really felt I needed some before sleeping. She looked a LOT older than the mentioned age on her ad and said she was a grandma. Not sure if she was joking.. but she even asked me if she should remove her dentures!!

I wasn't surprised at the same time seeing as I went off a classified e-advertisement. I figured I have trouble getting laid and still went for it.

As you can tell I'm pretty new to this and sex itself... I just want some feedback from experienced people.

I only lasted about 10 minutes or maybe just under is that too little? The last time I had vaginal intercourse with a girl was about 3 weeks ago

Did I do something wrong and am I less of a man?

and I'd really appreciate ladies who answer too

 

[Mr Bret]

I'm a lonely man in his late 20s I've lived quite the lonely existence throughout life since my childhood days. So as the days passed by I learned that SPs are my only option if I want to live healthily so I could avoid damaging my sexual health, which in turn can ruin a man's whole body, and mind quite badly.

Did I do something wrong and am I less of a man?

and I'd really appreciate ladies who answer too

The only thing I see "wrong" with your post is the use of the word "only" early in your post.
IMHO, the word should be "best".

All the rest about how you choose to hobby varies greatly from person to person.
Different strokes for different folks.

 

[taranis]

I'm a lonely man in his late 20s I've lived quite the lonely existence throughout life since my childhood days. So as the days passed by I learned that SPs are my only option if I want to live healthily so I could avoid damaging my sexual health, which in turn can ruin a man's whole body, and mind quite badly.

I called one late last night because I really really felt I needed some before sleeping. She looked a LOT older than the mentioned age on her ad and said she was a grandma. Not sure if she was joking.. but she even asked me if she should remove her dentures!!

I wasn't surprised at the same time seeing as I went off a classified e-advertisement. I figured I have trouble getting laid and still went for it.

As you can tell I'm pretty new to this and sex itself... I just want some feedback from experienced people.

I only lasted about 10 minutes or maybe just under is that too little? The last time I had vaginal intercourse with a girl was about 3 weeks ago

Did I do something wrong and am I less of a man?

and I'd really appreciate ladies who answer too

You're fine and don't get to wound up before you meet the SP. Relax. Less than 10mins is too fast. Did you try again? Did you pay for half hour or a full hour?

 

[thumper18474]

I only lasted about 10 minutes or maybe just under is that too little? The last time I had vaginal intercourse with a girl was about 3 weeks ago

As opposed to WHAT???!!!!

 

[las venganza]

I'm a lonely man in his late 20s I've lived quite the lonely existence throughout life since my childhood days. So as the days passed by I learned that SPs are my only option if I want to live healthily so I could avoid damaging my sexual health, which in turn can ruin a man's whole body, and mind quite badly.

I called one late last night because I really really felt I needed some before sleeping. She looked a LOT older than the mentioned age on her ad and said she was a grandma. Not sure if she was joking.. but she even asked me if she should remove her dentures!!

I wasn't surprised at the same time seeing as I went off a classified e-advertisement. I figured I have trouble getting laid and still went for it.

As you can tell I'm pretty new to this and sex itself... I just want some feedback from experienced people.

I only lasted about 10 minutes or maybe just under is that too little? The last time I had vaginal intercourse with a girl was about 3 weeks ago

Did I do something wrong and am I less of a man?

and I'd really appreciate ladies who answer too

If I was you I would stick to the well reviewed escorts in the incall section. Removed her dentures?? MANNNNN!! that's not for me!!

 

[TittyMan4You]

You're fine and don't get to wound up before you meet the SP. Relax. Less than 10mins is too fast. Did you try again? Did you pay for half hour or a full hour?

well it's been 3 weeks since I actually had intercourse, and about 10 minutes after the actual act began is when I came. Is it too quick?

 

[TittyMan4You]

The only thing I see "wrong" with your post is the use of the word "only" early in your post.
IMHO, the word should be "best".

All the rest about how you choose to hobby varies greatly from person to person.
Different strokes for different folks.

is it the best? I wouldn't know since I've been single my whole life, I do admit that it has helped my sexual health and mind a great deal though!

 

[las venganza]

^^^ Your there for your own personal sexual gratification, notthing else. It happens to the best of us. Don't worry about it.

 

[rhuarc29]

well it's been 3 weeks since I actually had intercourse, and about 10 minutes after the actual act began is when I came. Is it too quick?

Who cares?! You're paying money for your own enjoyment. If she's a professional, she's not going to care. And she'll be up for round two. Besides, you can show her your appreciation between round 1 & 2 by pleasuring her orally. :eyebrows:

In all honesty, it's your own enjoyment that matters in these encounters. Frankly, you sound a lot younger than late 20's, but that may just be inexperience shining through. If you can afford this hobby and use it in moderation, there's nothing wrong with it for your purposes. There are plenty of lonely people out there who wouldn't have had the balls to do what you did by taking the plunge.

 

[Funny321]

Honestly, why do you care what a bunch of strangers on a review board think about you? I think you need an injection of confidence. If you don't feel better about yourself by seeing a sp, is it really for you?

 

[eatthepink]

Average coitus last between 3 to 7 minutes. You lasting till almost 10 minutes puts you above average or maybe the pussy was below average. Who cares you got laid, congrats.

 

[TittyMan4You]

Who cares?! You're paying money for your own enjoyment. If she's a professional, she's not going to care. And she'll be up for round two. Besides, you can show her your appreciation between round 1 & 2 by pleasuring her orally. :eyebrows:

In all honesty, it's your own enjoyment that matters in these encounters. Frankly, you sound a lot younger than late 20's, but that may just be inexperience shining through. If you can afford this hobby and use it in moderation, there's nothing wrong with it for your purposes. There are plenty of lonely people out there who wouldn't have had the balls to do what you did by taking the plunge.

Sound younger than in my 20s? I don't see how, or even know why you say that.......but okay.

No Second shot was offered unfortunately, but the feeling was good.......as always, the feeling I missed out on in teen years for not being like others even though I always had balls! So it was well enjoyed nonetheless.

Thanks to all for their sincere and genuine responses. This Forum is on point when it comes to Maturity!!

 

[punter]

If you did not make her cum before you did, then you are a selfish man.

 

[rhuarc29]

Sound younger than in my 20s? I don't see how, or even know why you say that.......but okay.

I mean you sound like you're very early twenties or even late teens. You're asking if cumming early makes you less of a man. That's a question I wouldn't expect to hear from anyone past 25. As for being less of a man, if your manhood is tied up around how early you pop, I think you need to refocus on your personal identity.

No Second shot was offered unfortunately....

Sounds like you need to find better SPs. If it was a half hour session, then 1 shot is standard. But if you popped 10 minutes into an 1hr+ session, she should have went for #2.

 

[las venganza]

I mean you sound like your very early twenties or even late teens. You're asking if cumming early makes you less of a man. That's a question I wouldn't expect to hear from anyone past 25. As for being less of a man, if your manhood is tied up around how early you pop, I think you need to refocus on your personal identity.



Sounds like you need to find better SPs. If it was a half hour session, then 1 shot is standard. But if you popped 10 minutes into an 1hr+ session, she should have went for #2.

To be fair, I think that his posts/questions are due to his lack of experience with Women..not necessarily his maturity. No offense intended towards the OP.

 

[IM469]

A lonely guy who calls an SP because he hasn't had vaginal sex in 3 weeks... not exactly my definition of lonely.

 

[peter4025]

Hey, how was the bj or better the gum job?

 

[TittyMan4You]

Tittyman4you, for those who are not accustomed to sex, ie, those who have it infrequently, its normal to com very soon. The sheer novelty of the act puts your brain into overdrive. Hell, I still com ridiculously fast during sex, but can hold out forever during bj and hj. That's the main reason I've gone back to MPs. No knock to any of the great SPs I've met over the years, its a 'me' thing. The more you have sex, the more desensitized your brain will become, and your endurance will go up. However, first time encounters with a hot woman will make you regress. If you're in a long term relationship, you'll find that the sex gets better over time, not just because you learn each others buttons, but also because your brain is not in novelty overdrive anymore. Hell, the last SP I was with, was so close to one of my fantasy images... spinner Japanese... well, I won't go into details and just say that I WISH I lasted 10 min!

Personally, I get a lot of pleasure from daty. Its not a physical pleasure but a deeper emotional satisfaction at giving pleasure to someone else. I'd say to refine your daty skills as best as you can. Get your partner off first, and everything else will fall into place. As a tip for daty, remember always that good daty does NOT start at the nether regions!

I also suggest trying MPs as an alternate. Some MPAs can make a session more intense than sex, but it will require a mature outlook. For example, never go into a session with expectations of service levels or anything. Just go in, relax, try to click with your attendant, and have fun.

you know what this is good advice. I agree massages are more sensual, higher level of intimacy with the frictions and such..

 

[TittyMan4You]

A lonely guy who calls an SP because he hasn't had vaginal sex in 3 weeks... not exactly my definition of lonely.

I had vaginal sex maybe about 7 times in the last 4 months. I consider it lonely since it is not 7 times a week but as they say we're all different..

 

[TittyMan4You]

Hey, how was the bj or better the gum job?

bj wasn't bad actually, but I enjoyed the Titty Grabbing and the slow strokes from the back. I couldn't stop cumming for a good minute or so.