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Sultry*Sierra

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I keep recieving the same emails, the same continuous phone calls from one person and I trust my instincts. Some out there isn't happy with me but wants to have a session and every time they call they say they are at a hotel and the number doesn't show up or they will try by email to make appointments but making up fake emails. I always recognize his voice on the phone, however he trys to change it by making it more high pitched. For the first few weeks Ive brushed it off, now its getting scary. The same emails everyday and nonstop voicemails and I think I should go to the police. I dont want to bring the police into this but I know fear for my safety! This has got out of control. I need some advice..


P.S -I didn't know where to post this..sorry
 
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Sorry love. But the only thing you can do is call the police. They'll put a tap on your phone. I believe this crosses over to malicious harassment that is starting to disrupt your life and put you in fear of your safety. It can also be interpreted as a threat of physical bodily harm and a threat towards your very life. I believe the police would understand and take the necessary actions to stop this perp. I do believe this will be recognized as a serious crime. Call them and tell them, and ask them. They will tell you what they can do.

He might be a a prankster adolescent hormone-raging teenager with nothing else to do but fantasize about a session with you.
 
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I think you should call LE...

There is an officer in particular you should call. Its part of her job to take care of all SPs/SWs concerns on matters like this. Darn if I can remember her name though... its Wendy something I think. I'm sure someone here has her contact info... could someone please post or PM her. I have been away from the adult biz now for past 5 or 6 months or else I would have info at my finger tips. If I remember or find it I will post.
 
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Dash said:
Sorry love. But the only thing you can do is call the police. They'll put a tap on your phone. I believe this crosses over to malicious harassment that is starting to disrupt your life and put you in fear of your safety. It can also be interpreted as a threat of physical bodily harm and a threat towards your very life. I believe the police would understand and take the necessary actions to stop this perp. I do believe this will be recognized as a serious crime. Call them and tell them, and ask them. They will tell you what they can do.

He might be a a prankster adolescent hormone-raging teenager with nothing else to do but fantasize about a session with you.
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I agree. Except I don't think they will put a tap on her phone... unless she asks them to. And I doubt that is needed... they can often trace the e-mails via ISP.

It might be a good idea though S*S to start to tape record his calls.
 
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I believe the police will be more concerned with your safety than your profession. Save your emails and document the phone calls as they may be needed at a future time. Your stalker may be targeting more than just you so the police will want him. Contact Fred Zed the administrator and he can put you in touch with sex workers alliance ? or similar groups that may be of help to you. He can also help you contact the best police officer who is assigned to help YOU in this bad situation.

Be careful , take care and good luck

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Thanks for the feedback. I know that he isn't a young boy becase Ive spoke with him on the phone before and he sounds like a grown man. He never wants incall either, he always requests outcall which makes it even more alarming. Anyways I will contact the police about it.
 
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Some hotels don't display their phone number; ie Royal York Hotel. In your ad it says you don't answer blocked numbers, so how can somebody stalk you if you don't answer? Does he leave a message? Is it threatening, does he say he is going to cause you harm?

Tough questions, but if you are going to the police with this, be prepared to answer lots of tough questions. Instinct unfortunatelly is not good enough for the police to go on. Lots of guys sound the same. Some guy trying to repeatedly book an appointment doesn't really go to stalking. He may just think you are busy and just keeps trying.

And whats the difference between him wanting to book an incall or outcall? If he was really stalking you, he'd want to come over to your place, rather than him inviting you over to his hotel, where he is a registered guest (id check).

Emails are easily ignored.

Police will not put any taps on your phone for this.
 
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Robynn Quinn said:
Sierra - I went through a stalking experience in my civilian life (non-client) and it was scary. He would call constantly, show up anywhere and everywhere, and managed to find my parents place. At first it seemed harmless and I thought he would get bored - it was very niave on my part - it only escalated to more aggressive and violent encounters. The only thing that stopped him was eventually having him charged.

Absolutely trust your instincts and talk to the police. Document absolutely everything and anything related to this. Save emails, write down conversations (or tape them if you can), keep track of the number of times he calls and his requests.

I wish you the absolute best in this...I can only imagine what a tough time you're going through.

Robynn
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Robin shed some light on the outcome of your charges
 
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Robynn Quinn said:
Sierra - I went through a stalking experience in my civilian life (non-client) and it was scary. He would call constantly, show up anywhere and everywhere, and managed to find my parents place. At first it seemed harmless and I thought he would get bored - it was very niave on my part - it only escalated to more aggressive and violent encounters. The only thing that stopped him was eventually having him charged.

Absolutely trust your instincts and talk to the police. Document absolutely everything and anything related to this. Save emails, write down conversations (or tape them if you can), keep track of the number of times he calls and his requests.

I wish you the absolute best in this...I can only imagine what a tough time you're going through.

Robynn
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My experience is similar to yours except I have never met him. I have spoke to him on the phone and he has left violent messages that I have saved and I will take your advice. Yeah can you explain what happened when you charged him?
 
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Too bad the easiest solution is not possible - just have me and the boys in the band visit him, sit him down and explain how what he is doing is wrong often all it takes is someone opening his eyes to the gravity of the situation.
 
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I hope your situation, occurring now when these things are taken much more seriously, is handled by the authorities quickly and professionally. Robynn Quinn is giving you great advice.

Best of luck.

Buck Cherry said:
Too bad the easiest solution is not possible - just have me and the boys in the band visit him, sit him down and explain how what he is doing is wrong often all it takes is someone opening his eyes to the gravity of the situation.
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I was afraid, when my situation happened way back in civilian days, that my friends, who certainly offered, would end up with charges. I ended up taking care of his sorry ass by myself. Wasn't pleasant, but highly effective. Sucker followed down the street one night at about three in the morning; I suddenly realized just exactly how much I disliked feeling somebody else was in charge of my life and turned around and walked right up to him. I took out a box cutter I'd had to start carrying for just such a situation and explained two things. One, I said that if he ever came near me again I'd go for his face, and two, he'd still be pretty enough and short enough he'd have a really tough time in the joint.

That took the wind out of his sails.

I DO NOT recommend anybody else do such a thing. This particular situation had many details that made that an option, but it was an extremely dangerous thing to do.

BTW, Buck Cherry, you a Vancity boy, no?
 
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Adopt a booking policy that protects you. He may change his MO and trap you.
1st rule -- No blocked numbers. Period.
2nd rule -- Home phones or registered hotel rooms only. In other words if he is calling from a hotel make sure you can contact him by his name and room number from the dront desk.
Rule 3. - always give your booking information to a trusted friend who checks in by phone at the beginning and end of each booking.

That way you aren't sacrificing bookings in the case of paranoia. And you aren't in any imminent danger by an anonymous stranger in the event you are right.
 
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Thanks for all the advice. I think for now , im going to screen more heavily and I want him to know that if hes reading this , he better just give it up!! Because every time he calls I know its him. I also have spoke with an officer and he told me to document all the evidence as Robyn has stated and to record conversations. I mean , he could be some obbsessed serial killer or rapist for all I know. I realize I am working in a high risk enviroment but if we work together , we can put these losers away.

I also want to add that I can tell the difference between a stalker and a guy who just wants to get ahold of me to book an appointment.
 
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Girl, use your gut/instinct...it won't fail you...if something doesn't feel right, move on. Remember that YOU choose who you want to be with.


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