Oasis is a little east of Yonge & Carlton, so easily TTC-able, and there is paid parking nearby.
I'm going to organize a Terb party for Hobbyist and SPs. Where should the venue be?
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Don't know anything at Oasis.
Went to that Terb party at this sex club on Queen, right across the street from that Queen Street Mental Hospital. Sorry not impressed at all. More like sausage gathering hardly saw any women mingling. Women did their drinking and men did their own drinking, separately.
No entertainment, either on stage or off. Drinking, drinking and more drinking that was it.
Boring. Needed strippers to mingle for better party atmosphere MHO.
Oasis? Are they going to do a better job to entertain us boring guys?
NDid this party happen yet ?
I read somewhere in another post there was a party....
What did I miss?
I read somewhere in another post there was a party....
What did I miss?
No didn't happen. Got too busy with work really to quarterback this anymore
But looks like Chloe organised another party a few weeks ago much better than I probably could have organized
I was travelling that week, so hopefully she will organise another
But looks like Chloe organised another party a few weeks ago much better than I probably could have organized
I was travelling that week, so hopefully she will organise another
Thank you!No didn't happen. Got too busy with work really to quarterback this anymore
But looks like Chloe organised another party a few weeks ago much better than I probably could have organized
I was travelling that week, so hopefully she will organise another
I agree with Chloe that the possibility of running into people at non-private venues may be simply too costly for too many of us here (I have had numerous run-ins with friends or co-workers at restaurants or bars, who know nothing about my "hobbying" activities).
Personally, I'm not too crazy about booking a party at a strip club -- many strip clubs are simply too far out of the way for me to make it, and the music is blaring out so loudly that it's tough to have a conversation with anyone. I love the idea of booking a private party at Oasis -- it seems to me to be the perfect venue for organizing a TERB event. I'm also open to a private venue at a hotel as well.
Personally, I'm not too crazy about booking a party at a strip club -- many strip clubs are simply too far out of the way for me to make it, and the music is blaring out so loudly that it's tough to have a conversation with anyone. I love the idea of booking a private party at Oasis -- it seems to me to be the perfect venue for organizing a TERB event. I'm also open to a private venue at a hotel as well.
If you'd like I can speak with the owner of Oasis, I know her personally and see what dates I can secure and a cost associated with a private party. This would be way more coin being private.
Or the other way would be to have it on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday as that's when they will allow single guys into the club. We would probably have to get the old smoking area sectioned off for space but still have access to the whole place up to the second floor, the third floor is reserved for couples only and invited single men by those couples.
Just PM me some details and I'll see what I can do
Or the other way would be to have it on a Sunday, Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday as that's when they will allow single guys into the club. We would probably have to get the old smoking area sectioned off for space but still have access to the whole place up to the second floor, the third floor is reserved for couples only and invited single men by those couples.
Just PM me some details and I'll see what I can do
Been thinking about this a bit more. My main concern is that this would be a "competitive" party to the one hosted recently by PussyLover and Chloe — and that event was so well organized, so pleasant, so friendly — reinventing the wheel with different organizers seems unnecessary. Hopefully the organizers of the last event (held in a friendly downtown bar) will organize another — in, say, about two or three months. Quarterly parties would be ideal. especially if they're as well organized. One thought: A cover charge to pay expenses, and modestly reward the folk who put the event together, would seem to be fair...
No competition, that isn't my nature or goal.
We should be able to get together as many times as we want to. The people who organize it shouldn't make a difference. My personal goal is class and comfort for all, but especially for the women in attendance because I speak for them first and foremost. There were many concerns that were addressed which helped make the previous event a success.
I was thinking about throwing a simple but exceptionally classy (and creative) themed one in a few months, that both men and women can participate in and enjoy without feeling weird or uncomfortable. Stay tuned. :wink:
I think PussyLuver & I make a great team! He is honestly someone who has the best ideas about some things.
Fun times!
We will not be hosting ours at a sex club just due to too many factors (cost, location/venue, mindset and/or discretion), as well as personally knowing not very many women will attend. Already had that discussion/tally for the last one.
Some of you men maybe feel quite comfortable at sex clubs but you have to keep in mind the ladies you wish to attend. Not all ladies are comfortable being in an environment which suggests certain behaviour when they are trying to just network and meet clients. Factoring in "private rooms" and upstairs for fun may seem like a good idea, but in reality a lot of us need more than a couple minutes to talk shop and suss out if we want to have fun with you later. It's not a good idea with respect to how many people's first time it may be, and you will want them to be in a comfortable setting, not one where they feel they have to be on their game from the get-go. Not everyone is that confident. You gotta treat guests like baby sheep (respectfully of course) so to speak and gently ease them into things.
Think about the decline in numbers JUST due to feeling uncomfortable. I really doubt many curious attendees have ever even stepped foot there.
Not knocking Oasis, as we all know it is a great, sex-positive space, but you have to keep in mind the connotations that go with it. It is a similar idea with having it in a strip club. I attended one last year that was at one and there were only two other women who were in attendance. Despite it being a nice event and meeting respectful gentlemen, many did not attend due to the logistics in play.
Oasis is a great idea for other events and themes, but for a simple meet/greet and get together? It will be messy.
Been talking to my partner in crime about another, so we shall see.
Have fun planning yours Sal though!
Feel free to contact me if you need any advice. Schedule permitting, I'll come out and support.
Xo
We should be able to get together as many times as we want to. The people who organize it shouldn't make a difference. My personal goal is class and comfort for all, but especially for the women in attendance because I speak for them first and foremost. There were many concerns that were addressed which helped make the previous event a success.
I was thinking about throwing a simple but exceptionally classy (and creative) themed one in a few months, that both men and women can participate in and enjoy without feeling weird or uncomfortable. Stay tuned. :wink:
I think PussyLuver & I make a great team! He is honestly someone who has the best ideas about some things.
Fun times!
We will not be hosting ours at a sex club just due to too many factors (cost, location/venue, mindset and/or discretion), as well as personally knowing not very many women will attend. Already had that discussion/tally for the last one.
Some of you men maybe feel quite comfortable at sex clubs but you have to keep in mind the ladies you wish to attend. Not all ladies are comfortable being in an environment which suggests certain behaviour when they are trying to just network and meet clients. Factoring in "private rooms" and upstairs for fun may seem like a good idea, but in reality a lot of us need more than a couple minutes to talk shop and suss out if we want to have fun with you later. It's not a good idea with respect to how many people's first time it may be, and you will want them to be in a comfortable setting, not one where they feel they have to be on their game from the get-go. Not everyone is that confident. You gotta treat guests like baby sheep (respectfully of course) so to speak and gently ease them into things.
Think about the decline in numbers JUST due to feeling uncomfortable. I really doubt many curious attendees have ever even stepped foot there.
Not knocking Oasis, as we all know it is a great, sex-positive space, but you have to keep in mind the connotations that go with it. It is a similar idea with having it in a strip club. I attended one last year that was at one and there were only two other women who were in attendance. Despite it being a nice event and meeting respectful gentlemen, many did not attend due to the logistics in play.
Oasis is a great idea for other events and themes, but for a simple meet/greet and get together? It will be messy.
Been talking to my partner in crime about another, so we shall see.
Have fun planning yours Sal though!
Feel free to contact me if you need any advice. Schedule permitting, I'll come out and support.
Xo
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I think Chloe nailed it with respect to venue, expectations, etc. Holding a social and meet and greet where the wonderful ladies that are attending are "off the clock" is fine, but in an environment where there is a mix of pressure and expectation is kind of, well, not kosher. I don't call my lawyer friends to hang out at a free legal advice clinic just to socialize..
The last industry party worked because the "industry" was well in the background. Anyone wandering in without a context for it would have thought that it was just a cool scene in a bar. Speaking for myself, had it been in a sexualized venue, I would never have gone.
Yes it did.
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