Babe trust me i have been in situations
I was torn between two fears
Too see her one more time
Or never see her again
I can’t tell which frightens me more
Is it possible for a provider to develop feelings for a client?
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I was torn between two fears
Too see her one more time
Or never see her again
I can’t tell which frightens me more
Bro, can you stop calling me babe?
You talk and argue like a girl(woman) . Soo i will call you babe
I was raised right by a loving mom and 3 sisters. I have respect for women and the providers working this job, what can I say?
If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. I'm not here to be liked and cheered on by fellow men. I get a healthy dose of that in my daily living life off the internet.
Oh, raised right? That explains why you’re hanging out on an escort review board pure class and culture, I see.I was raised right by a loving mom and 3 sisters. I have respect for women and the providers working this job, what can I say?
If you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem. I'm not here to be liked and cheered on by fellow men. I get a healthy dose of that in my daily living life off the internet.
I feel no shame in enjoying terb, and getting different points of view on so many sexual and general subjects.
I love the music threads, the photo threads, the sports & political threads, as well as the massage and escort reviews.
I would be very sad if terb no longer existed.
I feel no shame in seeing sex providers. To paraphrase the old Groucho Marx joke, which I have mentioned before, at my age I wouldn't want to date anyone who would want to date me!
How else would I be able to enjoy the company of beautiful ladies half my age or less?
And I was raised just fine...
Do you really think they are rolling around with a bunch of celebrity clients ?…. In Toronto lol. La la land.
yes you’re a regular guy. Whatever your own definition of regular is. They are a regular woman. Whatever their definition of that is. Then add in this dynamic. Yes both can get feelings. Yet both need to be rooted in the reality of their circumstances and not ruin the time together by trying to impose a goal that the other hasn’t agreed to.
Not everyone likes to be touched. And if they don’t know you well it could feel like being smothered.
I think the reality is that SPs going out with clients on unpaid dates or dating in general happens a lot more then either group would like to admit.
In principle, yes, it is possible.. in the sense that it’s not impossible. It’s also *possible* to win the lottery, but I wouldn’t bank on it.
The odds are very much stacked against you. It’s very highly likely this won’t turn out the way you hope. Sure, there are exceptions to every rule.. but if you think you’re the exception, you’re probably wrong.
First, there’s no guarantee her feelings are genuine. Escorts are professional fantasy creators.. manipulating emotions is part of the job. This could just be another level down the rabbit hole. Her motivation may range from relatively benign (simply giving you what you’re looking for), to generally malicious (some women are sharks.. and you’re just chum in the water). Even if there are times you’re not “on the clock” and explicitly paying her.. she’s playing the long game: you’ll pay (probably handsomely) in the end.
Even if feelings are mutual and genuine.. it’s tough sledding. By virtue of how you met, trust will always be an issue. Because of social stigmas, your relationship will likely be walled off from the rest of your life. You won’t met her friends/family, and vice versa. It’s safer that way. But you’ll always wonder if she’s actually going to visit her sister for the weekend (if she even actually has one), or if she’s juggling another, ahem, set of balls. She’ll wonder if you’re really working late at the office, or if you’re out seeing other providers.
Breaking down those walls is risky. You might think mutual assured destruction would prevent either of you from wrecking the other’s life by spreading info that should never be disclosed. But MAD requires rationality.. which is often in short supply when emotions are involved.
I’ve made the mistake of going down this road once. Never again. Here, there be dragons.
The odds are very much stacked against you. It’s very highly likely this won’t turn out the way you hope. Sure, there are exceptions to every rule.. but if you think you’re the exception, you’re probably wrong.
First, there’s no guarantee her feelings are genuine. Escorts are professional fantasy creators.. manipulating emotions is part of the job. This could just be another level down the rabbit hole. Her motivation may range from relatively benign (simply giving you what you’re looking for), to generally malicious (some women are sharks.. and you’re just chum in the water). Even if there are times you’re not “on the clock” and explicitly paying her.. she’s playing the long game: you’ll pay (probably handsomely) in the end.
Even if feelings are mutual and genuine.. it’s tough sledding. By virtue of how you met, trust will always be an issue. Because of social stigmas, your relationship will likely be walled off from the rest of your life. You won’t met her friends/family, and vice versa. It’s safer that way. But you’ll always wonder if she’s actually going to visit her sister for the weekend (if she even actually has one), or if she’s juggling another, ahem, set of balls. She’ll wonder if you’re really working late at the office, or if you’re out seeing other providers.
Breaking down those walls is risky. You might think mutual assured destruction would prevent either of you from wrecking the other’s life by spreading info that should never be disclosed. But MAD requires rationality.. which is often in short supply when emotions are involved.
I’ve made the mistake of going down this road once. Never again. Here, there be dragons.
Since the dawn of time the patriarchy has made sure that there is a subset of women put aside as hoes so that we can give light and honour to the “pure” ready for marriage…
From the Egyptians to the fall of Rome, every culture on earth had whores, hence this being the oldest known “profession”
Oil and water don’t mix.
There is no light without dark.
need I say more? please don’t ever consider that fact that “you” can do it, when it hasn’t worked for anyone else ever before.
From the Egyptians to the fall of Rome, every culture on earth had whores, hence this being the oldest known “profession”
Oil and water don’t mix.
There is no light without dark.
need I say more? please don’t ever consider that fact that “you” can do it, when it hasn’t worked for anyone else ever before.
Yup. Without really congratulating myself I became off the clock friends with probably 4 or 5 girls. Still friends with most of them even if one or two moved away. Still get texts at Christmas and Valentines etc. It came about by them wanting to hang out on their time off to go shopping or for a meal out somewhere. One wanted to go to Toronto for a week and asked me to take her there as I used to live there. She paid for the air fare and hotel, as I really didn't have much of a burn to go there. However, I paid for some meals and car rental etc. So, I wasn't using her.
Another one used to invite me to go out for a meal and a beer after a session when she was finishing early for the day. One time she said "you need to find a steady girlfriend. Someone like me" I liked her well enough. Just not quite enough.
There are no absolutes in life other than death and taxes which I’m sure you have heard before. Yes, it can happen and I carry the fond memories and baggage of such relationships. The key is communication in a respectful and open manner such that you both can manage your expectations.
My guess is that escorts see a variety of successful men who want a strange piece and move on. I saw a very popular girl years ago who said she missed some of her regulars when they just stopped visiting. Although I'm sure the percentage is quite low.
At some point we all have to recognize how we contribute to the things we both love and hate in society and in each gender and look how it hasn’t even been 100 years since women have been able to have their own bank accounts without a man to sign for them.many of us still want a classic nuclear family yet how do we support that desire. Then we are surprised and surly when they find alternate shocking undesirable for “my woman” ways of making moneyShits on misogyny while pushing misandry.
As a man who dated 2 SPs who even retired for me it is not worth it. Too much of a headache and drama. I even have other SPs wanting to have “more” but never again. Just see SPs for fun. Don’t expect anything except busting your nut and going home.
@Bootysmasher would you say you look like Matt Bommer ? (Just kidding , would you say you’re handsome? )
