Is this my Future

[smylee52]

Good reality check thread

Speaking as a fish in the"lower standard " "fill in " pool this thread reinforces my conviction to not have a regular SP . It just opens the door for emotional attachment and then it becomes complicated . It is a trade-off because a little familiarity enhances a session but then you need to start determining when familiarity becomes dependancy . I see SP's to relieve stress not increase it .

 

[luv4lust]

you can call in love I've been there

i met a wonderful man a few years ago he was a client who turned in to my bf we were seeing each other for about 3 years and at one point i quit escorting for a bit. at beginning when he came to spend the weekend i would find money in my coat pocket which upset me. i told him i didn't want him to pay me to be his gf. unfortunately our lives got in the way and we parted. i still consider him a good friend and i love him to death. he is doing well and i have some contact with him here and there. like i always say you can't pick who you fall in love with but you can minimize the hurt by being straight forward and honest, instead of thinking what if or asking strangers for advice. it's better to know up front then to spend your day wondering if she or he feels the same way.
it's always better to hurt a little at the start then to wait and get a broken heart.

 

[2wheeljunkie]

You might be right I just got texted and she said we need to talk. She's on her way over now which means she just left work. Also another SP I've know for years just E:mailed me to say she's reading this thread and I should check it out. It sounds alot like me. Go figure.

So did you get your answers from her about how she feels about the situation?

2WJ

 

[roland51]

She loves the thread as long as I don't mention her name. We talked alot and I feel things are fine. She didn't go home that day so something went right. We will see where things go. Someone also said I shouldn't have mentioned I had money but now she knows and how much. If I die today I will die happy.

 

[elmo]

This whole thread reads like a tree-hugging chick flick...wake up people. Don't confuse sex with love or friendship with money. If there is something more, take the risk if you both want to. Be prepared however that it may not pan out...regardless of the circumstances surrounding the way you met.

 

[fuji]

At least until the guy finds out she used to be a hooker. Then she goes right back down to the minors.

Only half way down. An ex-SP still has a bigger field to play than an SP, even if not quite as big as a non-SP.

There are a lot of guys who would never want to be with a woman who had ever been an SP. There are also a lot of guys whose only main concern is that their GF/wife doesn't have any other current partners and doesn't care about the past. There are only a few who are OK with their GF/wife banging other guys for any reason.

 

[CALLMEBOND]

Roland, best of luck I think you did the right thing and just talked it out with her. Because if she is really worth keeping any kind of friendship with she will have legitimate feelings for you and a job change should not have any bearing. If the whole thing was an act all along I think you will know within yourself already and you don't need to ask anyone on here what to do.

I guess in the world in general nowdays its just getting harder to pick the really genuine people out from all the fakes.

 

[roland51]

Thanks Strongbeau I read most of it and makes sense. Even my Horoscope says "A headache goes away when a talker is expelled" What does this shit mean. I'm not a real follower of the stars but with all this happening so close to Christmas ( which is my lonely time, no family ) I really feel this season.