Jealous Guy

[neo anderson]

I would like to conduct a poll.

In sympathy for Spiker I am too going through the same things. I have just separated with what I thought was the love of my life but unfortunately she can't ever offer me the respect of leaving her past be her past.

Whenever we are out she drops sexual inuendo's and then pretends that she didn't know that that's what people were thinking and she always has to bring up sexual experiences that she has shared with guys...some of which I know....now I am feeling jealous and hurt but she wonders why I should feel this way.

Please let me know how you would feel.

regards

Neo

 

[neo anderson]

No she has had a few boyfriends, some of whom she is talking about I already know....I have asked her not to do this and she knows how it makes me, but she says that I am jealous and that she hates it....I think it is disrespectful and have ended the relationship because of it..

Am I over reacting?

 

[Chivas Regal]

Yes.

Chivas

 

[gramage]

my option isn't on there, I'm all for her bringing it up why the hell not? I mean if the relationships over and she's just reminiscing or having a little fun theres no harm, hell she could be dropping hints for something fun to try.

 

[Timberwolf]

no

 

[scubadoo]

Re: bit more....

If you asked her not to, and she didn't respect that, I don't think you over-reacted.

I would have to agree with this assessment! Sorry that it had to come to this for you, but in the end you'll be better off for sure.

Good Luck

Scuba

 

[neo anderson]

I wish to thank everybody for there heartfelt support...I truly value it and it saved me a fortune at either a psyco therapist or a psycic trying to evaluate all of these thought and emotions.

Who would have thought that putting something like this out on a board such as this would bring such wonderful insists.

Again thanks so much to all of you who contributed!

I think that her and I need one hell of a huge discussion on what respect really is..

I keep you posted..

Best Regards,

Neo.
P.S Maybe I 'll see y'all at the Terb party

 

[The Baron]

I sympathize with both you and spiker.It very painfull when you love and respect someone and they dont return your feelings.I went through this earlier this year and it took a long time and even meds to get over it. But if it means anything I have now found a wonderful lady and everything is better than ever. This will happen to you too. And when it does youll look back and wonder how you could have feelings for the other one in the first place. Now come to the terb party have a few drinks meet some new friends and have fun


Baron

 

[Mr. Downtown]

Under certain circumstances, I think you did the right thing and call it off.

But I'm just wondering. Here you are a Terb member, albeit going only to SC's, from the threads you have written, but perhaps she knew about your visits and that, in turn, was hurting her feelings and, as such, talked about her exploits to get back.

 

[neo anderson]

Thanks Northred.

I understand and appreciate that she has had other experiences sexually and so have I but the difference between us is that I automatically visualize the scene and I don't like the imagery...I don't think that it is not abnormal based on some of the responses that I have been reading...what I think is wrong though is the lack of respect to the boundries that are set....so she knows I don't like the stories but tells anyways because she feels she needs to share them....then on the flipside I am wrong for not allowing her to share her needs...which I don't understand the "need" to reveal personal conquests..

hmmm...so where are we then?

 

[neo anderson]

Interesting comment Mr. Downtown...maybe going to SC's does touch off on some unfamiliar territory with her and maybe she doesn't even see it....or maybe it changes me and my interactions with her...how can I go to a SC and get some incredible dances then go home to be intimate with her....I mean it must get in the way somehow and maybe the so-called unknown is known...I don't tell her about the experience or the sometimes connections you get with different people during these encounters but does this stay with you and maybe just maybe it is readable on a different level...

Does this make sense?