Kicked off Ashley Madison????

[LadyTY2Uall]

W.T.F.???? I tried to sign into my A.M. today and was told my account is suspended for soliciting.....!?!?!?!? I go there for strictly personal reasons for crying out loud.....In no way, shape or form have I ever indicated I was looking for clients there. Man I am SO PISSED I was chatting with a few potential dateable men there and now I cannot get online to find them. How can I be kicked out with no real reason? Don't they at least have to verify where I am supposedly soliciting? AAARRRGGGHHH


sigh k rant over.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Really,,,,,,well now, I think I will be making a trip downtown next week.
thank you for the advice hon.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Well, it appears someone on A.M. recognized my pictures and sent me a message asking for the link to my web site.....I gave it to him. THAT is considered soliciting. AAARRRGGGHHH How the bloody hell is it soliciting if THEY are asking ME????? O.M.G. The rep got snarky with me when I asked how they can condone people cheating on their spouses but when a 'pro' comes on their site for personal reasons they have a problem. GEEEEEZ
So I am banned from the site and they seem to know who I am regardless of how many different names I use when trying to open a new account. Dammit, how do they DO that?

 

[Riley.Royal]

Well, it appears someone on A.M. recognized my pictures and sent me a message asking for the link to my web site.....I gave it to him. THAT is considered soliciting. AAARRRGGGHHH How the bloody hell is it soliciting if THEY are asking ME????? O.M.G. The rep got snarky with me when I asked how they can condone people cheating on their spouses but when a 'pro' comes on their site for personal reasons they have a problem. GEEEEEZ
So I am banned from the site and they seem to know who I am regardless of how many different names I use when trying to open a new account. Dammit, how do they DO that?

I use to work in the call centre for ashley madison. so that is why i suggest just go there. Ashley MAdison and quest personals fired me because a coworker was a member of my adult website. so I have a bigger beef with them. that I am undecided if i will take legal action against them.

 

[Damondean]

They know because they have your computer + ISP address. Go to someone else's computer or a web cafe and register.

 

[tboy]

who the heck is ashley madison?

 

[karzaibaba]

They know because you use the same IP address to open a new account.
Use a different computer and IP address.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

Good idea, I am going to use my friends computer and get another account dammit. Have to get a bunch of new pics to use, reword my profile, pick a new name and be very damn careful what I say just in case Big Sister is watching.....just seems wrong to me. They can just go in and 'review' the messages we send back and forth?

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

who the heck is ashley madison?

Ashley Madison is a 'cheaters site', married people can find other married people to have sex with.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

I use to work in the call centre for ashley madison. so that is why i suggest just go there. Ashley MAdison and quest personals fired me because a coworker was a member of my adult website. so I have a bigger beef with them. that I am undecided if i will take legal action against them.

How are they allowed to make those kinds of decisions? As long as you or anyone is not using their site to solicit directly what diff does it make if you have an adult site? I was not there to drum up business for crying out loud, I was there because I want someone on a personal level and I find married men are much more discreet as well as not pushing for a more serious relationship than I am prepared to give. I was really casual about the site till they kicked me off lol, now I am pissed and damned determined to get back on there.

 

[shoeguy]

They know because you use the same IP address to open a new account.
Use a different computer and IP address.

Only problem here is that the block of IP addresses assigned are still going to be black-listed. If she tries to login with her home puter chances are likely that she will continue to be blocked. Even after registering from another computer.

 

[Riley.Royal]

How are they allowed to make those kinds of decisions? As long as you or anyone is not using their site to solicit directly what diff does it make if you have an adult site? I was not there to drum up business for crying out loud, I was there because I want someone on a personal level and I find married men are much more discreet as well as not pushing for a more serious relationship than I am prepared to give. I was really casual about the site till they kicked me off lol, now I am pissed and damned determined to get back on there.

We have a similar beef with these companies, I was there as an employee my past or my current career as a sex worker was no where in place on my resume and never asked in my interview. I met thier job criteria and was their top sales agent on thier floor. and just because some idiot couldn't keep his mouth shut i lost my chance of a promotion and also to prove I could keep a "real job"

So after that I quickly said fuck it and went back in escorting and porn full time again. if they can't respect me for who I am as a person and a respectable employee then I can be some where else where I am valued and honored for my work.

I was there for about 6 months working for both companies. and they really put me through hell because of what they have discovered. and nothing in thier employee agreements mentions some type of morality clause as some "real jobs" offer.

 

[jerk chicken]

i wonder how they found out? client leak? why would any client wants to do that? ads on the website and paper usually do not use real name, and photos dont have face.. so how could they find out?

 

[shoeguy]

i wonder how they found out? client leak? why would any client wants to do that? ads on the website and paper usually do not use real name, and photos dont have face.. so how could they find out?

This can be achieved in many ways. The simplest, much like how google spiders index webpages. Keywords are flagged, once a message is flagged, an alert is usually sent to someone's inbox to determine if that offending message or string of messages, including external URLs passed are in violation of the company's TOS. Of course, a lot is left to interpretation.

Additionally, you'd be VERY surprised how much privacy you give up by not reading the fine print and privacy policies. And trust me AM most likely has this covered very well. Quite similar to Facebook allowing 3rd party advertisers to use YOUR personal photos for THIER advertisements.

 

[GDLLover]

LadyTY2Uall, Your reason for being there is for dateable men. Isn't the men on the site already attached, their just looking for a little on the side at no cost. You probably could do better elsewhere and get paid for it. Just a thought.

PS. When you open that new account make sure your using a new email address as well because your other email addy if probably flagged. As the others said also the IP address should be different for registering and confirming your email address. Hope it works out for you.

 

[jerk chicken]

Clear your cookies, browse history, delete all cached stuff from browser. go to a WIFI location like starbucks will get you a new IP address for sure. use a different browser (firefox if you usually use IE, and vice versa). a new email address. Also use a different password when registering. if all else fails, try using TOR

 

[Riley.Royal]

Lady maybe me and you can try out speed dating I find it easier to find someone that I do not want a serious relationship with.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

We have a similar beef with these companies, I was there as an employee my past or my current career as a sex worker was no where in place on my resume and never asked in my interview. I met thier job criteria and was their top sales agent on thier floor. and just because some idiot couldn't keep his mouth shut i lost my chance of a promotion and also to prove I could keep a "real job"

So after that I quickly said fuck it and went back in escorting and porn full time again. if they can't respect me for who I am as a person and a respectable employee then I can be some where else where I am valued and honored for my work.

I was there for about 6 months working for both companies. and they really put me through hell because of what they have discovered. and nothing in thier employee agreements mentions some type of morality clause as some "real jobs" offer.

Is that not grounds for a charge of discrimination? Escorting is not illegal in Canada,,,,Having a porn site is not illegal and neither is doing porn. What are their legal grounds for firing you?

 

[Riley.Royal]

Is that not grounds for a charge of discrimination? Escorting is not illegal in Canada,,,,Having a porn site is not illegal and neither is doing porn. What are their legal grounds for firing you?

There was none, they use the bull shit conflict of interest. I thought about taking it to the media but then again the media might side for the company and not me. The whole being fired and the drama behind it set me into a depression.

The whole get a normal job bull shit those people can kiss my ass.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

i wonder how they found out? client leak? why would any client wants to do that? ads on the website and paper usually do not use real name, and photos dont have face.. so how could they find out?

I am not certain but I have been getting some unpleasant texts and messages left on my phone lately,,,,,it seems I have upset someone and they are determined to express their displeasure in any way they can think of. I did use a couple of pictures that I have on my website so that might be how I was recognized. I had a few men ask about my Domination services so I directed them to my website,,,,apparently that was a mistake.
There are pictures on A.M. that are explicitly sexual in nature but they object to my website? sheesh I wish I had a better understanding of the law cause I would raise a ruckus.....then again, it is difficult to remain 'incognito' that way lol