Ladies, where should a client take you?

[LordLoki]

Well here is what I learned so far from my surveys. Some men like variety, some men like familiarity. Men who like familiarity find, if they are lucky, women who satisfy their needs and spend most of their time with them.

Ok I like bold, cute, bright, playful, with a strong personality.

Also found out that wanting to travel with a SP is not that rare. Found that most men would like to pay $500 a day, and some would be happy with $1,000 a day.

So now the next step in my exploration needs help from the ladies. Where should a newbie Terbite take his perfect SP for that ever so important first trip?

Suggestions please?

 

[Mcluhan]

Well here is what I learned so far from my surveys. Some men like variety, some men like familiarity. Men who like familiarity find, if they are lucky, women who satisfy their needs and spend most of their time with them.

Ok I like bold, cute, bright, playful, with a strong personality.

Also found out that wanting to travel with a SP is not that rare. Found that most men would like to pay $500 a day, and some would be happy with $1,000 a day.

So now the next step in my exploration needs help from the ladies. Where should a newbie Terbite take his perfect SP for that ever so important first trip?

Suggestions please?

Geeze...i feel well traveled looking at your list...the only place i've never taken a date professionally is Scotland (and London Ont)... Personally, (my choice) of all...old Montreal (i.e. Not Quebec City). Yes...of all. Keeping in mind this trip is about you.. lol.

London Ont? ...last place in the world..

 

[Mcluhan]

I'm going to stick my nose in here...(again)... sounds like you need romance. You are barking up the wrong tree. A word of advice...NEVER fly into Paris with a woman on your arm, unless you at least think you could be falling in love...and she as well. London, and all else..OK...but not Paris. You will live to regret the experience, and it will bias Paris forever in your mind. Tsk...

 

[Mcluhan]

And...furthering the demonstrative in less abstract terms this is why...

http://www.flickr.com/photos/abstractnoise/466634427/

Paris is the city of love...you will be crushed if you try to imitate it...and you yourself will do the crushing...

 

[Mcluhan]

My suggestion is to find an SP you visit regularily if you haven't already and then decide if she is someone you want to take. Chemistry is a big part of it and if that isn't there, then it could become a nightmare. Las Vegas would be a good place to take an SP since the SPs there are very costly and might not be what you're looking in terms of services.

If you take an escort that you like as a person in general and enjoy her company besides just "doing it" and she feels the same, offer here say $500-$1000/day. This way she is not compromising her time as an SP where she could be taking other appts and making money. The way I think of it is, I'd rather make $500-$1000/day with a client I know and not have to see multiple clients in a day and still have fun while being away. Set certain times for activities and then time in the bedroom. If you expect an SP to perform all the time and not do anything else, then this won't be good. Also, she may want some time in the day to spend alone.

As an SP myself, when you get to know a regular that you like spending time with, it is not considered "work" as opposed to some Joe Blow you just met who is a yawner. It's even worse if you're stuck with them away from home thousands of miles away. Been there, done that. LOL. I'd rather be with someone I've known for at least a few months and still making some $$ while having a good time.

Now that is remarkably truthful and sage advise. From the man's point of view you have to enjoy being 'what you are', who you are...if you can find a lady to enjoy time together in this state of mind, collectively...communally.. you are ahead of 99% of the pack. This is what we strive for, most times unknowingly. Very few of us achieve it...meaning mankind...so look for that in yourself first, then a match-up will easily follow. the city is irrelevant.

lol..advice is so easy to give...

 

[LordLoki]

Who the fuck wants to go to Edinburgh?

Hey I like going to Edinburgh. Get a nice room at the Hilton overlooking the park and the castle. Wake up to coffee and breakfast ala room service. Take a cab up to the castle, tour it, see the crown jewels, perhaps the Scotch tour next door, maybe the historic thing on how they make woollens, then wander down the Royal Mike, order a micro kilt, turn off into a close and see rooms and living quarters that were used in medieval times, take her shopping on Thistle Street, if she likes books you can wander into places that have old text you could never afford in North America.

I am fond of ghost tours, Edinburgh has a great one. Just hard to find a woman who shares my interest in them.

And of course in August Edinburgh is one huge festival, it vibrates with life and colour. If I recall it is the biggest festival in the world. Probably to late to set it up for 2007, but I can see lots of reasons to bring a woman there for a few days.

Besides, I have to go there for work.

 

[LordLoki]

I'm going to stick my nose in here...(again)... sounds like you need romance. You are barking up the wrong tree. A word of advice...NEVER fly into Paris with a woman on your arm, unless you at least think you could be falling in love...and she as well. London, and all else..OK...but not Paris. You will live to regret the experience, and it will bias Paris forever in your mind. Tsk...

Perhaps you are right. I have to spend a week there in the spring, and if you have been in love in Paris being there alone 30 years later can be a tiny bit depressing. So being there with someone you are in lust with seemed to be a good idea. But thank you for the advice. I shall have to think about this one a little, I know it would be fine for me, but would I be ruining Paris for a sweet young lady?

 

[LordLoki]

My suggestion is to find an SP you visit regularily if you haven't already and then decide if she is someone you want to take. Chemistry is a big part of it and if that isn't there, then it could become a nightmare. Las Vegas would be a good place to take an SP since the SPs there are very costly and might not be what you're looking in terms of services.

Great advice and I appreciate it enormously. I spent a lot of time reading reviews and posts here before I started setting up appointments. After a few fun distractions I sort of narrowed down my search and thought I had found the perfect person to enjoy time with. After meeting her I believe I was right, but in the process of setting it up etc I sort of was exposed to another provider who seems to be exactly what I like in a woman. So after several appointments I think the next step is to expose her to my worse side, I snore.

So my plan is:

1) Take her out to dinner and shopping to see if we annoy each other after a few hours. Did that and I was delighted. I love watching her try on clothing.

2) Set up a mini trip for one or two nights, to see if my suspicions are correct. To be candid, being a man, I admit that there are many women I could enjoy going to bed with; but a woman you would enjoy waking up to is much harder to find.

3) Try a 3 or 4 night trip to a slightly more remote exotic destination.

4) Go for a real trip.


Your chemistry question is a bit harder. The lady in question is a brilliant actress and incredible at role playing. I suspect she can be exactly what any given man wants when she wants to be. So I can attest that I am feeling chemistry, and so far she has not dozed off, but how can I tell given I know she can be anything she wants to be?

Well I suppose if she goes along with this trip, does not just tie me to the bed in my sleep and go shopping it would be a very good sign.

Thanks again for all your help

 

[Stoo]

You might want to chat with PinkQuack too. He and Sloane recently took a vacation together to Cancun and by all accounts it was a ripping success...

Mind you, I could have Sloane perform a root canal on me and it would be fun...

 

[LordLoki]

Mind you, I could have Sloane perform a root canal on me and it would be fun...

Sloane is a dentist in her other job?

 

[Mcluhan]

Perhaps you are right. I have to spend a week there in the spring, and if you have been in love in Paris being there alone 30 years later can be a tiny bit depressing. So being there with someone you are in lust with seemed to be a good idea. But thank you for the advice. I shall have to think about this one a little, I know it would be fine for me, but would I be ruining Paris for a sweet young lady?

Ahh well, if you have had romance in Paris, then by all means...

I think my point was, Paris is such a romantic city, I can't imagine experiencing it for the first time in a professional date senario.. buts that's just the romantic in me. I live in a faerytale world

 

[LordLoki]

Thank you

Thank you all for your input. Since someone selected London Ontario I have to assume there are some very odd people on TERB. On the other hand, I now have a good handle on preferred destinations. So we shall see what will happen.