Wow, I stayed out of this thread because I felt bad for hijacking it in the first place. Now, I come back to find that its turned into a discussion about strap-on play, role reversals and the dangers of wandering away from the SC forum. Way to go terbites!
I can't say that I've had any dreams of being female or had any desires to play the role. I have given some thought to the whole prostate massage thing though and I'm not sure how far that would go.
One of my long time fantasies has been to participate in a fmf 3some with one of the girls wearing a strap-on but, so far, the strap-on is only used on the other girl.
I have also considered dressing as a woman for halloween parties, but only because I think I could give some of the real ladies a run for their money. I'm not sure I would get any other pleasure from it.
I have no idea what all this means, just thought I'd share.