i totally agree for the most part. seeing the odd escort here and there is fine.Terminator2000 said:
as for girls with ego, they're no match for a guy who can run game. throw in a solid gameplan and its over.
Man who hasn't had sex in 19 years kills 3 and wounds 9 women
- Thread starter S.C. Joe
- Start date
as for girls with ego, they're no match for a guy who can run game. throw in a solid gameplan and its over.
I Am Sickened By How Many Ppl On This Board Trying To See From His Perspective. He Is A Stupid Lowlife Kills People For His Selfishness. I Do Not Want To Understand Him Or Know What He Is Thinking Let Alone Blaming Women For Being Choosy. I Am A Man Less Good Looking Than This Guy I Have To Admit, Yet I Get Laid And I Have Had Several Girlfriends. Even If I Was So Ugly Or Cripped And Dont Have Girlfriends Or Never Get Laid I Would Still Have A Life To Live For. It Is All About Self Confidence And Purpose Of Life. His Purpose Of Life Is To Get Find A Happiness With Women.
I Blame On Society And Media For That. That Is Pathetic. Dont People Have Bigger Purpose On Life Than Just Finding A Mate? If A Mate Comes Along, That Is Fine, Good, If Not, You Should Still Have Some Bigger Purpose To Live For. If You Cannot Figure That Out, You Are No Better Than Animal, Waste Of Oxygen And Food!
I Blame On Society And Media For That. That Is Pathetic. Dont People Have Bigger Purpose On Life Than Just Finding A Mate? If A Mate Comes Along, That Is Fine, Good, If Not, You Should Still Have Some Bigger Purpose To Live For. If You Cannot Figure That Out, You Are No Better Than Animal, Waste Of Oxygen And Food!
Oh yeah, 50 year old guys are going to get 22 year old hotties with no strings--commitment..a escort would have not gave him any enjoyment.
WTF, it was better he did not "waste" his money on women, just buy guns instead. After all if you have to "pay" a women money its no fun. They should just throw themselves at middle age men
Oh he did bitch about Obama being black, so it did seem he dis-like black people just because they were black. That is too bad, the more people you turn down, the harder it is to meet people.
I bet this guy turn down lots of women, maybe unknowingly.
WTF, it was better he did not "waste" his money on women, just buy guns instead. After all if you have to "pay" a women money its no fun. They should just throw themselves at middle age men
Oh he did bitch about Obama being black, so it did seem he dis-like black people just because they were black. That is too bad, the more people you turn down, the harder it is to meet people.
I bet this guy turn down lots of women, maybe unknowingly.
A quote from
http://www.georgesodini.com/20090804.htm
Every black man should get a young white girl hoe to hone up on. Kinda a reverse indentured servitude thing. Long ago, many a older white male landowner had a young Negro wench girl for his desires. Bout' time tables are turned on that shit. Besides, dem young white hoez dig da bruthrs! LOL. More so than they dig the white dudes! Every daddy know when he sends his little girl to college, she be bangin a bruthr real good. I saw it. "Not my little girl", daddy says! (Yeah right!!) Black dudes have thier choice of best white hoez. You do the math, there are enough young white so all the brothers can each have one for 3 or 6 months or so.
This guy is NUTS
http://www.georgesodini.com/20090804.htm
Every black man should get a young white girl hoe to hone up on. Kinda a reverse indentured servitude thing. Long ago, many a older white male landowner had a young Negro wench girl for his desires. Bout' time tables are turned on that shit. Besides, dem young white hoez dig da bruthrs! LOL. More so than they dig the white dudes! Every daddy know when he sends his little girl to college, she be bangin a bruthr real good. I saw it. "Not my little girl", daddy says! (Yeah right!!) Black dudes have thier choice of best white hoez. You do the math, there are enough young white so all the brothers can each have one for 3 or 6 months or so.
This guy is NUTS
Yeah, interesting Obama-sneering. Plus that last bold thingS.C. Joe said:
Yeah, Usenet. In 2009. Wow.
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Look at it this way: he'd have been high risk even if he went on a regular date.
He'd have been high risk even if he invested in an escort.
None of these would have been solutions. At. All. He was high risk, period. A catastrophe waiting to happen; and, more so with each passing year. And by random chance, this was the catastrophe which took place.
This may sound callous, but: "homicidal losers happen".
Couldn't have said it better myself. I consider myself just slightly above average in the looks department and i really find it odd when overweight ugly chicks give me attitude when i just simply talk to them. They assume i'm trying to pick them up and are very unfriendly. I see my lady friends as well who sport this attitude...they want some guy who looks like a model when they look plain and the they finally end up with an even uglier guy.Terminator2000 said:
Downtown toronto is a very harsh place to pick up girls - so much snobbiness and attitude. Even the douchebag guys in suits with unsual sock/shirt/show combos think they're the shit and thus ladies only expect to be approached by guys in fancy suits who are willing to throw tons of cash their way.
haha///my rant of the day...
Uhhh... I hate to tell you this friendo,jerk chicken said:
First - You don't know how to write. Please learn.
Second - Reproduction is a purpose/need of all living things. Heck, it is part of the very definition of life, so you can't very well blame the guy for being upset about not being able to reproduce and carry on with mating-like activities. Imagine if you couldn't breath, eat, drink, eliminate. Sure you're die in much shorter order, but you wouldn't be too damned happy about it would you?
Third - No one condones his actions, notwithstanding our understanding of his frustration. We've all been hungry (so to speak, except maybe Cycleguy) so we can sympathize with the guy's hunger. We do not sympathize with his mass murder as a result of his hunger. (I really hope you understand the concept of metaphor or this paragraph will be totally lost on you... I took my chances with this paragraph...)
Anyone disagree with me? Let it be said as I think I've got the rights of it. The guy was an evil pathetic fuck (and I use "fuck" pejoratively here rather than in any colloquial genial fashion) who should have just offed himself rather than taking any innocents with him. Am I not correct?
BTW, the few paragraphs above are an example of mostly properly written English. Follow the example.
wet_suit_one said:
YEs I disagree with you. sorry about my English, but I try to convey the ideas okay here we go..
Your Second point: we all have drive to reproduce / mate, yes true. But there are civiliazed ways to go about this. He is not a stupid person, he has money. Why can't he get a date? maybe he has no social skills. So instead of improving himself, he blames on women. This is what is wrong.
Reproduction is a purpose? okay, I'll let you have that. but aren't there bigger purpose in life than reproduction? He shoud and everyone should find a something else other than mating to fulfil themselves. Media is the fault here, every movie, every song has some romantic element in it, as if "love" is all that matters in a person's life. What about science, art, caring for other people, helping the needy etc...??
If reproduction is the only purpose in life, what about people with medical conditions that can't reproduce? castrated people. do they all kill themselves or even worse mass murder other human beings?
So no I do not understand his hunger. hunger is something you need to survive. mating / reproducing is not a survival need. it is a very strong drive yes, but not a need. he could have found other things to fulfil himself and be happy. so he is fucking stupid low life, hope his genetic flaw ends wit him.
I don't think you know the difference between empathy and sympathy, just because people try to understand this person doesn't mean they support his actions.jerk chicken said:
Empathy: The ability to co-experience and relate to the thoughts, emotions, or experience of another without them being communicated directly by the individual
Sympathy: The ability to understand and support to the emotional situation or experience of another being with compassion and sensitivity
Me, I can't understand a guy who would capitalize the first letter of each word in their post. That's a difficult thing to do, as well as pointless in getting your view across.
Ha, the local paper has a story how the internet is to blame, lol
It does rise a few good points thou...people are less sociable in a way today thanks to sites like even TERB were to interact with other people means posting on-line and not meeting new people in person
http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09218/989033-455.stm
Isolation is the root of the problem, said Carolyn Wolf, senior partner at Abrams Fensterman, a New York law firm that specializes in mental health issues.
In a society where online social networks often replace interpersonal social networks, people become detached.
"The Internet allows for isolation. As a result we have less interpersonal communication and fewer opportunities to identify this behavior and intervene before something as tragic as this happens," Ms. Wolf said.
As people separate themselves from each other, they become less keen to simple human mannerisms -- facial expressions, voice tones, behavioral cues -- that indicate when someone is having a problem. And because dealing with a problem face to face is becoming ever rarer, many do not trust themselves to confront someone who seems distressed, even if they recognize warning signs.
"People probably noticed weird behavior but didn't really know what to do with it," Ms. Wolf said. "People don't trust their gut instincts as much as they used to because they're not interacting as much as they used to. So they second-guess themselves or they decide not to deal with it."
In entries from Nov. 5, 2008, to Aug. 3, 2009, Mr. Sodini chronicles his thoughts as he attempted to gain the courage to enter the gym with a gun.
Among other things, he also vented about his inability to cultivate friendships or relationships, discussed his resentment toward young women and allegedly abusive family members and mentioned that he learned in a church that God forgives mass murderers.
Paul Friday, chief of clinical psychology at UPMC Shadyside, said that, based on the blog, Mr. Sodini fits the mold of someone with antisocial personality disorder.
Criteria for the disorder -- such as failure to conform to social norms, impulsivity, irritability or aggressiveness, reckless disregard for the safety of others, and lack of remorse -- are all evident in his words, Dr. Friday said.
"It is a very difficult thing to treat, and my sense is that there was not treatment, which meant that this thing just festered," he said. "And when these things fester, the dam eventually breaks, and in this case, that meant a shooting such as the one last night."
In his blog, Mr. Sodini, 48, seems confused about why women will not get in relationships with him.
"No girlfriend since 1984. ... Who knows why. I am not ugly or too weird," he wrote in December 2008. And on another day:
"I dress good, am clean-shaven, bathe, touch of cologne -- yet 30 million women rejected me over an 18- or 25-year period. That is how I see it. Thirty million is my rough guesstimate of how many desirable single women there are."
Ms. Wolf said Mr. Sodini's self-confidence issues may have led him subconsciously to isolate himself from others, but to ultimately blame them.
"Sometimes it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy," she said. "He knew he had trouble getting in a relationship, and he may have sent out those kinds of vibes. So women may have responded to that by not wanting to be in a relationship"
She said the blog could have been a way to identify in a community where he seemingly had no identity.
"In his mind, that was a way of venting, a way of putting it in people's faces, 'This is what society did to me, this is what my family did to me.' " she said.
Although Mr. Sodini obviously had mental health issues, he was not psychotic, Dr. Friday said.
Mr. Sodini may have had social problems, but he writes in the blog that he had a successful job, survived a layoff and received a raise.
"He was obviously bright, which points out that intelligence has nothing to do with emotional stability," Dr. Friday said. "He was not a healthy man. He was functioning, but he certainly wasn't healthy.
Danielle Kucera can be reached at dkucera@post-gazette.com
Read more: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09218/989033-455.stm#ixzz0NSdrCNPA
It does rise a few good points thou...people are less sociable in a way today thanks to sites like even TERB were to interact with other people means posting on-line and not meeting new people in person
http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09218/989033-455.stm
Isolation is the root of the problem, said Carolyn Wolf, senior partner at Abrams Fensterman, a New York law firm that specializes in mental health issues.
In a society where online social networks often replace interpersonal social networks, people become detached.
"The Internet allows for isolation. As a result we have less interpersonal communication and fewer opportunities to identify this behavior and intervene before something as tragic as this happens," Ms. Wolf said.
As people separate themselves from each other, they become less keen to simple human mannerisms -- facial expressions, voice tones, behavioral cues -- that indicate when someone is having a problem. And because dealing with a problem face to face is becoming ever rarer, many do not trust themselves to confront someone who seems distressed, even if they recognize warning signs.
"People probably noticed weird behavior but didn't really know what to do with it," Ms. Wolf said. "People don't trust their gut instincts as much as they used to because they're not interacting as much as they used to. So they second-guess themselves or they decide not to deal with it."
In entries from Nov. 5, 2008, to Aug. 3, 2009, Mr. Sodini chronicles his thoughts as he attempted to gain the courage to enter the gym with a gun.
Among other things, he also vented about his inability to cultivate friendships or relationships, discussed his resentment toward young women and allegedly abusive family members and mentioned that he learned in a church that God forgives mass murderers.
Paul Friday, chief of clinical psychology at UPMC Shadyside, said that, based on the blog, Mr. Sodini fits the mold of someone with antisocial personality disorder.
Criteria for the disorder -- such as failure to conform to social norms, impulsivity, irritability or aggressiveness, reckless disregard for the safety of others, and lack of remorse -- are all evident in his words, Dr. Friday said.
"It is a very difficult thing to treat, and my sense is that there was not treatment, which meant that this thing just festered," he said. "And when these things fester, the dam eventually breaks, and in this case, that meant a shooting such as the one last night."
In his blog, Mr. Sodini, 48, seems confused about why women will not get in relationships with him.
"No girlfriend since 1984. ... Who knows why. I am not ugly or too weird," he wrote in December 2008. And on another day:
"I dress good, am clean-shaven, bathe, touch of cologne -- yet 30 million women rejected me over an 18- or 25-year period. That is how I see it. Thirty million is my rough guesstimate of how many desirable single women there are."
Ms. Wolf said Mr. Sodini's self-confidence issues may have led him subconsciously to isolate himself from others, but to ultimately blame them.
"Sometimes it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy," she said. "He knew he had trouble getting in a relationship, and he may have sent out those kinds of vibes. So women may have responded to that by not wanting to be in a relationship"
She said the blog could have been a way to identify in a community where he seemingly had no identity.
"In his mind, that was a way of venting, a way of putting it in people's faces, 'This is what society did to me, this is what my family did to me.' " she said.
Although Mr. Sodini obviously had mental health issues, he was not psychotic, Dr. Friday said.
Mr. Sodini may have had social problems, but he writes in the blog that he had a successful job, survived a layoff and received a raise.
"He was obviously bright, which points out that intelligence has nothing to do with emotional stability," Dr. Friday said. "He was not a healthy man. He was functioning, but he certainly wasn't healthy.
Danielle Kucera can be reached at dkucera@post-gazette.com
Read more: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/09218/989033-455.stm#ixzz0NSdrCNPA
Wow. You have got SERIOUS issues. And so do the guys who agree'd with you in later posts.Terminator2000 said:
Here is reality: men are in charge of relationships. Women are the desperate ones who CRAVE and YEARN for our company. That is not a blank cheque to treat ladies poorly - quite the opposite. But, us guys are the ones who rule the roost, relationship wise. Your acceptance of rejection by women, is an indication of a personality flaw that causes women to reject you. They don't want un-confident losers - they want men. Stop feeling like YOU are the one trying to get a woman, and start feeling like a woman should be happy to be with YOU, and you will find relationship success. Seriously. You clearly lack confidence in your own manhood and ability to obtain then keep a woman. I am NOT trying to insult you here, mon ami. I am trying to let you see that your attitude towards yourself, determines how women view you and whether they want to go out with you. You don't have to be good looking to get a great woman. You don't have to be rich to get a good woman. You do have to be confident to get a good woman. So, get out there and ask one out. Ya ya ya, you have been shot down in the past. So what? Ask another one out. They need us more than we need them. Believe that, and you will be fine.
Then, see hot young escorts to provide variety to your sex life.
That is very true...even the "experts" said....Ms. Wolf said Mr. Sodini's self-confidence issues may have led him subconsciously to isolate himself from others, but to ultimately blame them.
"Sometimes it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy," she said. "He knew he had trouble getting in a relationship, and he may have sent out those kinds of vibes. So women may have responded to that by not wanting to be in a relationship".........................
He may have been way too picky also. He was looking at 20's somethings and tick off they were with some young guy. He was 48 years old
Which is why I thought the escort hobby may have done him some good. He seemed fit, clean, etc...he may have found some fun with some escorts.
I rather hop in the sack with a hot young lady---who may not give a shit about me---than a 45 year old women who isn't too sexy but maybe "loves me".
Guess I may have some "issues" too but I don't hate the world or happy people. I have other hobbies to enjoy life.
"Sometimes it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy," she said. "He knew he had trouble getting in a relationship, and he may have sent out those kinds of vibes. So women may have responded to that by not wanting to be in a relationship".........................
He may have been way too picky also. He was looking at 20's somethings and tick off they were with some young guy. He was 48 years old
Which is why I thought the escort hobby may have done him some good. He seemed fit, clean, etc...he may have found some fun with some escorts.
I rather hop in the sack with a hot young lady---who may not give a shit about me---than a 45 year old women who isn't too sexy but maybe "loves me".
Guess I may have some "issues" too but I don't hate the world or happy people. I have other hobbies to enjoy life.
The bastard was a whack job pure and simple.
You can tell from how he talks in his videos.
People who sound like him scare me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1ZQHrKQo5Q&eurl=http://bitsandpieces.us/&feature=player_embedded
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5tgVx5E5x8&eurl=http://bitsandpieces.us/&feature=player_embedded
You can tell from how he talks in his videos.
People who sound like him scare me.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1ZQHrKQo5Q&eurl=http://bitsandpieces.us/&feature=player_embedded
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5tgVx5E5x8&eurl=http://bitsandpieces.us/&feature=player_embedded
CapitalGuy said:
There is a BIG misunderstanding of which sex is in charge of what.. okay I clarify for you once for all... MEN are in charge of relationship, but WOMEN are in charge of fucking.
A well known fact: 20% men fucks 80% women... but these 20% men dont necessarily want "relationship" they just want sex. but almost EVERY woman 99% of them want some kind of relationship after fucking... okay... so that is why it seems that most of time women crave relationship while men they just had sex with want to move on to the next woman.
now what about the other 80% men deprived of sex? they only have access to 20% women, so they try everything to get a chance to fuck! including being in a relationship with a woman. but women have more choice than men in this category, so it seems women are in charge of relationship in this category as well. If a man offers relationship before sex, he is a LOSER. period, no debate here... anyone disagree?
I know what you mean--but he does have a point when it comes to why the guy might not have chosen to use escorts. For those who haven't done so, it is a psychological divide to traverse--and whether said escort gives a s**t about you or not, she'll never feel "real" the way a civilian would. And given his state of mind, it isn't like it would have helped any in the end, either--for all one knows, he could have wound up a serial escort killer instead.CapitalGuy said:
And as for that Post-Gazette article
I think in this case it was compounded by his isolation from how the Internet has evolved. Whether through his website format or his name-dropping of Usenet, it's like he suffered from a certain pre-Y2K arrested Web development, culturally speaking.
it say in his blog that a woman have his baby.jerk chicken said:
What is scary is that there are men like this who frequent escort. I once meet this young guy who use to post weird shit on internet and had hate-on for prostitute. he seem like a loner and from what he tell me he never been in relationship or have any friend. is this someone who anti-social? sometime i would feel bad for him. i know he use to like my company but i find him weird. can guy like this overcome this stuff or you think they are destin to live a life of lonley and bitter?
