Married men who got into this hobby any regrets?

[WantToSee]

I'm just about ready to get into this, been happily married for 11 years have 3 kids, have lots of sex at home as wife is willing.

My reason for wanting to do this is because I never had the experience of sleeping with a lot of women and I really have the desire to do it. Given the opportunity I would cheat on her and have before
but I'm thinking it's smarter to do it this way as there are no strings attached.

 

[frankcastle]

I don't know. Do it if you want but I won't be the one to tell you it is okay.

I guess the thing I would say is be at peace with the consequences if you get caught. If the idea of divorce and the effects on your kid are okay then have at it.

Also keep in mind there will be effects. How much will you want to fuck your wife if she isn't as good looking or wild as your paid sessions?

 

[WantToSee]

Thank you for that Frank. I needed that. I'm going to leave it before I get into something I can't take back.

 

[Butler1000]

Thank you for that Frank. I needed that. I'm going to leave it before I get into something I can't take back.

Make sure you cover yourself. Beware of phone, text, email and browser history. Invest in a hobby phone(search on here for threads).

Don't change your routines. Always have your story straight. And don't have put the hobby before family commitments. Treat it as a hobby, not a need.

 

[WantToSee]

I am 100% sure that I can keep the hobby a secret, I am not the type that likes to brag to others so it can't leak that way and I have many resources to ensure that what I do on my computer never get's out.

What would kill me is how I feel about my wife & the point that Frank made. "Also keep in mind there will be effects. How much will you want to fuck your wife if she isn't as good looking or wild as your paid sessions?"

 

[frankcastle]

I have a tough time when people ask me that question because here I am hobbying my head off and I'm going to tell you not to do it.

I think because you are asking it means you are on the fence and that part of your conscience is not at peace with the whole thing. We could tell you go and do it or no don't do it but it really has to be your decision.

If you choose to do it think of all consequences and use the discretion advised by the other poster.

 

[anon1]

[h=2]any regrets?[/h]

lots

 

[shakenbake]

I'm just about ready to get into this, been happily married for 11 years have 3 kids, have lots of sex at home as wife is willing.

My reason for wanting to do this is because I never had the experience of sleeping with a lot of women and I really have the desire to do it. Given the opportunity I would cheat on her and have before
but I'm thinking it's smarter to do it this way as there are no strings attached.

If you are happy with your wife, sex and all, as you have described, then DON'T DO IT! You will regret it, and it will change you in many ways, some for the worse, especially with how you relate to your wife. Many of us, if not most, in the hobby, are looking for something that is lacking in our lives.

 

[WantToSee]

Any guys out there who have sex on a regular basis @ home bust still choose to be involved with this hobby? What kind of effect has it had on your life @ home?

 

[Conil]

I don't know. Do it if you want but I won't be the one to tell you it is okay.

I guess the thing I would say is be at peace with the consequences if you get caught. If the idea of divorce and the effects on your kid are okay then have at it.

Also keep in mind there will be effects. How much will you want to fuck your wife if she isn't as good looking or wild as your paid sessions?

I agree +1

 

[Butler1000]

Any guys out there who have sex on a regular basis @ home bust still choose to be involved with this hobby? What kind of effect has it had on your life @ home?

None for me. But I consider this recreation. It's an occasional want. Certainly not a need.

 

[MindJohn]

I'm just about ready to get into this, been happily married for 11 years have 3 kids, have lots of sex at home as wife is willing.

My reason for wanting to do this is because I never had the experience of sleeping with a lot of women and I really have the desire to do it. Given the opportunity I would cheat on her and have before
but I'm thinking it's smarter to do it this way as there are no strings attached.

I can appreciate your interest, but you (don't have the same sob stories known to the vast majority in this hobby as married customers)...


It is also true that you just don't neeeeeeeeed the experience of sleeping with lots of women.


Of course there is lots of (feeling of belonging) to a far-out subset of society, here on these boards and in the surrounding business... BUT any upside to it proooooooooooooooobably isn't there when viewed FROM the perspective of someone who is "happily married for 11 years (with) 3 kids (and) lots of sex at home (with a willing wife)".


Of course there are some hot, young female forms in this business who make for a great hour or two, but the equation is just... different for you.


I hope that I wouldn't do it (either)... (if in your shoes)

 

[Bostonmass]

Happily married, but no sex at home due to SO's health issues.

Due to my high sex drive, hobbying has kept me sane and happy at home.

Had tried the affair route but emotional needs ruined it.

 

[spaman]

plenty of sex at home, but not enough variety for my drive. This hobby has served me well and made me a better husband.

 

[afterhours]

How much will you want to fuck your wife if she isn't as good looking or wild as your paid sessions?

+1, not to mention that your paid sessions are forever young

 

[happydog]

Also think of the money you will save by staying away. Invest it, or the 3 kids may want/need something. Think of the joy you could bring them or early retirement.
Maybe compromise and go to strip clubs get a few dances from a hot girl and nothing more. You get to be close to a variety of women without out going too far.

 

[ChrisJunck]

+1, not to mention that your paid sessions are forever young

Agreed, this hobby is potentially addictive and fund draining. There is also something to be said about the negative long term effect of getting instant gratification of one's sexual desires, with putting in zero effort to impress, seduce and attract women or becoming a better man.

 

[glamphotographer]

regret getting married. lol

 

[tazdude]

Also think of the money you will save by staying away. Invest it, or the 3 kids may want/need something. Think of the joy you could bring them or early retirement.
Maybe compromise and go to strip clubs get a few dances from a hot girl and nothing more. You get to be close to a variety of women without out going too far.

+1. Another thought you might should consider... What if you found out your spouse has been hobbying and sleeping with other people. How would you react?

 

[afterhours]

regret getting married. lol

Friends meet John who just got married.
-Hey, Johnny, wanna have some beers?
-Drinking is not allowed
-Wanna go play cards?
-playing cards is not allowed
-Wanna go to a strip joint?
- Going to strip jpoints is not allowed
- Listen, do you sometimes regret being married?
- Regretting is not allowed