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NotADcotor said:
Dude, Medical Assistance In Dying and seeing an SP is not a good combination. If you must go that route, I hope you finish with the SP before you kill yourself. No need to put someone through that. Or maybe get a better sex worker that won't have you resorting to MAID afterwords.

Yes I know, he meant a maid, not MAID, thank you but I prefer it my way
Also, MAID is no laughing matter yeah yeah I know, I signed off as a whatever for someone recently but his disease took him before he had a chance. I can assure you, my purposeful misunderstanding of xix's post would have given him the giggles. So if you don't like my morbid joke, [not the OP, anyone in general] blow me.
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I meant the REAL MAID. I liked your post.

Most people I came across are afraid of being sick in their late life. Take Dementia and Alzheimer's is perfect example.
But I rather be jumping in bed in my late life with different SP's. If I succumb to any health mishap I rather go MAID.

Anyone here read the comments in youtube video's? How can you be sure your spouse won't leave you in some downtown city when you get sick?

Family is not going to come to save me if there is no money.

I wouldn't mind the SP dressed as a maid for one session.
 
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Darts said:
Men and those who wish they are men be honest. Would you be ok if she is taller and/or make a higher income than you? Be honest.
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It wouldn't bother me, but it may bother the women.

Can you imagine the company Christmas diner party.
So what do you do? we know what your wife does.

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xix said:
It wouldn't bother me, but it may bother the women.

Can you imagine the company Christmas diner party.
So what do you do? we know what your wife does.

I work at .....
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It bothers most women and that it why it rarely happens.
 
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xix said:
I meant the REAL MAID. I liked your post.

Most people I came across are afraid of being sick in their late life. Take Dementia and Alzheimer's is perfect example.
But I rather be jumping in bed in my late life with different SP's. If I succumb to any health mishap I rather go MAID.

Anyone here read the comments in youtube video's? How can you be sure your spouse won't leave you in some downtown city when you get sick?

Family is not going to come to save me if there is no money.

I wouldn't mind the SP dressed as a maid for one session.
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Ah, all righty then.

I signed some paper work for someone who couldn't move and lived much longer than he was supposed to. I was happy to do it, if not excited for him. I mean he had a good life despite everything but it wasn't going to last, and going out on your own terms is the way to go. Told him we could do his funeral while he was still alive, but alas that never happened. Loads of people who were all, ohh I haven't seen him for a long time, if I knew yadda yadda whatever, shut them pie holes. Ditto when my paternal unit died. Loads of people who never came over when he was alive, except for myself, my jive soul bro and one other person, he got no visitors, although the doctors were blowing smoke up our asses about him getting better and he wasn't the sort to create a fuss. However the other person know all the people who came to the funeral and she kinda knew he was going.
It's a thing for me, I don't see the point of funerals.

But maids are pretty awesome, if I win the lotto I'll get 2, 12 hour shifts 3.5 days a week, cooking, cleaning. I mean I can do it, I just would rather not. But so is the other one.


If you can't get a woman, you can go pretty far with a cat for company and affection, and porn [the kind without cats, duuuude come on] for the ahem other needs. Toss in someone to clean house every two weeks and prep meals for the freezer. You got it all.
 
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Darts said:
My standards for a mate are a little different than my standards for a quick release.

Intelligent, rational, emotionally stable, self-sufficient (not needy and has her own career), reasonable physical beauty, gives me my own space and that is about it.
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Totally understand.

I'm looking for more of a little house on the prairie life minus the cholera for long term, if having kids. I forgot to add that she would need to be early to mid twenties for enough getting time. It's a long shot but if I'm going to chose the direction of my life might as well shape it to my vision.
 
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Darts said:
I don't know your age and/or life experience but your future self might think differently.

I spent years in the wilderness but am now a happy one woman man.
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I'm fifty two, and have a few long term stints with women. Could have been married if I wanted to, that route never appealed to me. Had the options for fatherhood but made it clear that I never wanted kids. Some left because of that and some stayed.

I've had loads of relationship experience. It was good at the beginning and then you really begin to know someone when you live with them. I never lasted longer then 5 years. Just needed to leave since I lost interest and they didn't make the cut.

Now I'm at a point in my life where I'm in a place to choose the life I want to live. It's either hookers and cocaine or little house on the prairie. I could go either way....
 
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NotADcotor said:
But maids are pretty awesome, if I win the lotto I'll get 2, ...
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I'm with you on that one !

but don't forget the cook 😋


As for whether I would care if she made more money ... why ?

If she made a lot of money, the question is would she mind if I stay home and manage the domestic help ?
 
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IM469 said:
Very similar to mine: Not fat, physically fit, no tattoos, not a social media addict, modest, a 5 or 6, below 5' 8", a religious background, soft, feminine, agreeable, family oriented, has skills such as cooking sewing etc.

I'm not into self denial of any of life's gifts for religion. I would never ask about her religion nor do I care.
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Agreed but the teachings do shape us. Religion is hokey to me but the stories provide a framework of some of the values that I think are important.
 
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xix said:
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Don't you think that your hope is that she is not a lesbian, or half, or is going to change later in life to a man.

What I have learned is this ... I go to an AA meeting for women and see what I could end up with. No Thanks. This place is a great reference indicator of the future.

My conclusion would be - why bother with relationship or a mate when women don't really want one. I know I seen, heard, and sensed it.

I am better off with MAID and SP.

You can thank the materialism syndrome for this - Cell and Internet. People cannot handle the high frequency of materialism hence why they are lost.
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I know the stats, and it's like playing Russian roulette.

Maid is an option that I have contemplated as the answer when I am old. So is leaving the west and seeing what is out there. Some countries don't have the same laws which could make for a less hostile legal environment.
 
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Darts said:
Men and those who wish they are men be honest. Would you be ok if she is taller and/or make a higher income than you? Be honest.
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Taller is not attractive just like a chick who is built like a linebacker is not. I don't care about what she makes but I'm not a fan of that boss girl attitude. It's unpleasant behavior to be around long term
 
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IM469 said:
I'm with you on that one !

but don't forget the cook 😋


As for whether I would care if she made more money ... why ?

If she made a lot of money, the question is would she mind if I stay home and manage the domestic help ?
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How about she goes to work and you take care of the kids
 
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angrymime666 said:
Agreed but the teachings do shape us. Religion is hokey to me but the stories provide a framework of some of the values that I think are important.
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You don't need religion to learn good values. My Grandmother was an atheist and she read her kids Aesop's fables. If you are it familiar with these, each one taught a lesson. Many you would recognize - The Tortoise and the Hare, The Ant and the Grasshopper, the bundle of sticks, etc.

As long as my partner has a good character and a level of empathy to the people around her, I am not concerned how she made the journey. I just don't want to be preached to.
 
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