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Most intellectual SP and best conversationalist?
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This! I thought it taboo to try to have actual conversations with SPs you're interested in. I'm sure I've read in multiple places that girls hate "time monopolizers". I'm not that by any means, I have a family and other hobbies...but in the weeks leading up to when I intend to play, I intensely research who I will be seeing and it would be amazing to be able to have some pre-meet conversations through any medium. I've sent a few msgs here and there to certain girls I'm interested in seeing but am never sure what's appropriate. I can talk a lot too but never push it past a handful of exchanges, but would like more than that. I'm sure this will be highly individualized but as a sub part of this thread, who have you seen that doesn't mind having conversations outside of the session, that pertain to the next session? I'm not trying to tell her how my day is, just present my ideas for us and our next session and have active feedback. Girls, if this is you, by all means comment or PM me
. @BuxomBabeTO I see you
Lol there's a beautiful maxim I came across during my education. "The most incompetent people are the least competent at noticing their own incompetence." He was likely an idiot, no need to concern yourself with his opinion, imho.
The most intelligent conversations on the widest variety of topics I’ve had with an SP are with @Charlotte.Edwards
In almost 3 years since we met, we’ve had some long dates including dinners, movies, a concert, Cavalia and Cirque. I love her stories of traveling the globe and she has views on politics, human rights, and the sex industry. As some of you know her from here, she’s great at debates, and we’ve disagreed at times. She’s also fiercely loyal to her friends and stands up for herself as well as the downtrodden and abused. Plus she loves animals. I love our time together and it’s not all about sex, but I gotta say, that’s really good too.
In almost 3 years since we met, we’ve had some long dates including dinners, movies, a concert, Cavalia and Cirque. I love her stories of traveling the globe and she has views on politics, human rights, and the sex industry. As some of you know her from here, she’s great at debates, and we’ve disagreed at times. She’s also fiercely loyal to her friends and stands up for herself as well as the downtrodden and abused. Plus she loves animals. I love our time together and it’s not all about sex, but I gotta say, that’s really good too.
For me it's simple. I'm attracted to intelligent women. For those that I find interesting I certainly do my research and reach out to those that I feel I would have a good/great connection with. So far so good. I think every SP I've met thus far have their own common sense evaluator which enables them to discern between time wasters and clients that they wouldn't mind spending time with. I do appreciate when we do have contact outside the context of the time I'm paying and let them know that I'm appreciative. So far so good wth that too. I've yet to be told that I'm wasting their time.
Besides it's just good business to maintain great relations with your clients.
Look for @BuxomBabeTO. We had tons of great conversations on Twitter. We have similar passions and interests so we really have no shortage of things to talk about. Oh and if you get to meet her in real life then it only gets better!
Rigel
Besides it's just good business to maintain great relations with your clients.
Look for @BuxomBabeTO. We had tons of great conversations on Twitter. We have similar passions and interests so we really have no shortage of things to talk about. Oh and if you get to meet her in real life then it only gets better!
Rigel
Havent seen her, but based on online presence, I think she fits the description above
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You look and sound great but I'm somewhat impatient and 5 yrs is a long time to wait (age restriction)....can't win 'em all right lolWow thank you so much, this means a lot. I really enjoy having the opportunity to spend time with gents inside and outside of the bedroom, and love finding the common ground we have to discuss various things. I try to be pretty worldly and up to date on world news and it's actually something I didn't put much stock into until I got into the industry and needed to converse with people of all backgrounds and experiences. I had to laugh pretty hard once, a new client asked me if I was a law student just because we had a long talk about politics and I said sorry no, but I don't know anything about law or have a degree. I do have a passion for travel and love gaining new perspectives and experiences as the years go by. We've had a fabulous time at Cavalia and Cirque Du Soleil too, thank you so much for bringing me, I've always felt very special with you
I am not confusing intellect with experience. I think you need to read my post again. If you can evaluate a 20 year old's intelligence, the first time you meet her, in 5 minutes while you are getting dressed, then you should be working admissions at MIT.
This thread reminds me of the short story titled 'The Whore of Mensa' contained in the book titled Without Feathers by Woody Allen. It's about a poor sap who's willing to pay for deep, meaningful conversations.
Haha, thanks, I am sure getting some flack for that post, but it's true. Honestly, I have met some wonderfully bright and educated women over my 20 years of hobbying...but I do have to laugh when I read some of the reviews some guys write. All good.
Thank you PinotNoir! You comprehend that it's about the journey as much as the destination.
Not that I'm some expert, I've seen maybe 50 ladies in my entire life - but Sari comes to mind. I was able to have great conversation with her the few times I've met her.
One of the most articulate and intelligent people (SP or 'normal' person) I've ever met. Cute body & pretty face as well.
One of the most articulate and intelligent people (SP or 'normal' person) I've ever met. Cute body & pretty face as well.
we are definitely confusing here intellect, experience, wisdom and... vibes.
and some are screaming like their time is 300 dollars per hour, when the lady they just met this week makes more than them as an hourly rate. this is what can be called infatuated ignorance.
some questions:
why do we hobby ?
would you hook up with the beggar from Yonge and Bay corner ?
or the CEO of a big bank ?
why connect with stressed educated or relaxed unread uncultivated people (read: they have almost no relevant culture oriented hobby of any sort) ? where is your border ?
let's answer these questions and maybe change the intellectual discussion with another word (in the thread title ... i definitely believe that we are not hobbying for intellect ... Uni courses are much cheaper than hobbying).
fun fact: we have so much intellect that now we are over using it towards an overkill.
relax, i know, we are all smart. no doubt !
(some being more equal than the rest, saw that too)Completely understandable. I have a bunch of friends around my age that I would never vouch for if the occasion arose, just cause they seem to still possess the mentality of a young teen boy in a locker room when it comes to women so I can only imagine what you've dealt with. Perhaps once I have a reference or two I will contact you and see what happens. I don't believe the 2 girls I've been with offer references and it was a first meet for both so. But thanks for offering a glimmer of hopeAh! I understand, yes with terb members we don't know any ages at all unless they say so. I occasionally make exceptions if we're on the same page and you have a reference or personal screening. I do love connecting with gents intellectually as well, I just had some bad experiences with a lot of guys who are 30 and younger pushing boundaries or having bad behaviour.
What?we are definitely confusing here intellect, experience, wisdom and... vibes.
and some are screaming like their time is 300 dollars per hour, when the lady they just met this week makes more than them as an hourly rate. this is what can be called infatuated ignorance.
some questions:
why do we hobby ?
would you hook up with the beggar from Yonge and Bay corner ?
or the CEO of a big bank ?
why connect with stressed educated or relaxed unread uncultivated people (read: they have almost no relevant culture oriented hobby of any sort) ? where is your border ?
let's answer these questions and maybe change the intellectual discussion with another word (in the thread title ... i definitely believe that we are not hobbying for intellect ... Uni courses are much cheaper than hobbying).
fun fact: we have so much intellect that now we are over using it towards an overkill.
relax, i know, we are all smart. no doubt !
