I got a PM recently asking me a few questions.
The author thought that since I was no longer in the business that my answers would hold a little more wieght. I typed out my answer and it was too long, so I figured rather than splitting it up or cutting most of it out that posting it in a thread may interest some other TERB members as well as bringing forth some other questions some of you may also have.
here is his PM
Something that worries me a lot is the moral issues of the hobby. Obviously the flesh is stronger than the spirit in my case. Nonetheless, have me and my like managed to kill your enjoyment of sex? especially when you were working. How about now, are you able to enjoy it?
How about trust when it comes to men?
What did you think of us sods when you were working? Has anything changed your opinion since you stopped working?
What made you go into the business in the first place? Circumstances? Hopefully not forced!
Thanks for taking the time. I look forward to your answers.
My response:
On the contrary it probably made my desire for sex much stronger over the years but you have to understand that I was never the typical 'prostitute'.
I loved the interaction of such a diverse spectrum of personalities, not just the sex but the chit chat and other activities as well.
I love sex just as much now as when I was working but it is in a different way, I am in a secure stable relationship and the sex is quite different. It is like the difference between having good sex with someone you are madly in love with and having good sex with some hot peice of ass you picked up at the bar, it is all good but they are different.
I only distrust men if they give me a reason to. Over the years I became a pretty good judge of character, I had to. I think I can just detect the slimeballs a little easier now. On the same note it has also given me the incentive to get to know people that I would not normally have befriended before I started escorting.
I thought what I would have thought of anyone, if you act like an ass then that is what you will be labelled as. Most of the men I met were upstanding, sincere gentlemen. Some others were dickheads, it didn't alter my perception of someone either way simply because they were using escort services.
I went into the business when I was 21yrs old, I saw an ad in the paper and I was in college and didn't really need money but some extra is always nice.
I called and I figured I would try it, if I didn't like it I wouldn't do it anymore. I worked for that agency for 6 months before I left and went out on my own. I worked on my own for 6yrs before I decided I wanted to do something different, it was a hard decision, and I didn't make it because I didn't like escorting anymore, it was just time for many different reasons.
I met some of the best people I have known in my life while I was escorting and some of them became very good friends, it also enabled me to live a comfortable life and provided me with lots of free time to explore desires and hobbies tht I normally would not have had the chance to do in my life had I not done this. It made me the person I am today, and I would not change a thing.
The author thought that since I was no longer in the business that my answers would hold a little more wieght. I typed out my answer and it was too long, so I figured rather than splitting it up or cutting most of it out that posting it in a thread may interest some other TERB members as well as bringing forth some other questions some of you may also have.
here is his PM
Something that worries me a lot is the moral issues of the hobby. Obviously the flesh is stronger than the spirit in my case. Nonetheless, have me and my like managed to kill your enjoyment of sex? especially when you were working. How about now, are you able to enjoy it?
How about trust when it comes to men?
What did you think of us sods when you were working? Has anything changed your opinion since you stopped working?
What made you go into the business in the first place? Circumstances? Hopefully not forced!
Thanks for taking the time. I look forward to your answers.
My response:
On the contrary it probably made my desire for sex much stronger over the years but you have to understand that I was never the typical 'prostitute'.
I loved the interaction of such a diverse spectrum of personalities, not just the sex but the chit chat and other activities as well.
I love sex just as much now as when I was working but it is in a different way, I am in a secure stable relationship and the sex is quite different. It is like the difference between having good sex with someone you are madly in love with and having good sex with some hot peice of ass you picked up at the bar, it is all good but they are different.
I only distrust men if they give me a reason to. Over the years I became a pretty good judge of character, I had to. I think I can just detect the slimeballs a little easier now. On the same note it has also given me the incentive to get to know people that I would not normally have befriended before I started escorting.
I thought what I would have thought of anyone, if you act like an ass then that is what you will be labelled as. Most of the men I met were upstanding, sincere gentlemen. Some others were dickheads, it didn't alter my perception of someone either way simply because they were using escort services.
I went into the business when I was 21yrs old, I saw an ad in the paper and I was in college and didn't really need money but some extra is always nice.
I called and I figured I would try it, if I didn't like it I wouldn't do it anymore. I worked for that agency for 6 months before I left and went out on my own. I worked on my own for 6yrs before I decided I wanted to do something different, it was a hard decision, and I didn't make it because I didn't like escorting anymore, it was just time for many different reasons.
I met some of the best people I have known in my life while I was escorting and some of them became very good friends, it also enabled me to live a comfortable life and provided me with lots of free time to explore desires and hobbies tht I normally would not have had the chance to do in my life had I not done this. It made me the person I am today, and I would not change a thing.
