Need help deciding in Ottawa

antlerman

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always amazed....

Miss C
You are always a constant source of usefull information......
I thinks I will have to fill my little piggy bank and meet you soon......you really have my mind buzzing.
 

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antlerman said:
Miss C
You are always a constant source of usefull information......
I thinks I will have to fill my little piggy bank and meet you soon......you really have my mind buzzing.
Never wrote a review of Joyful. It was before Terb, but when I see her next time I will ask permission. I can pass on a recommendation without reservation.
 

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onlyicit

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lost contact for late night Ottawa

I have been reading this site for sometime in the event I had the opportunity to be in Ottawa/Toronto. So, I am now in Ottawa for a few days. I am not one to plan a meeting too far in advance, I prefer something more spontaneous if possible and in that regard found a site for an agency that was open until something like 3 or 4AM... now have lost that site name. I was thinking that it would come in handy if I happened to end up up spending an evening in one of your strip clubs here and needed something to finish off the night.
Can anyone assist in a recommendation? Almost all sites I have found are not open that late or you must make an appointment for a specific time. And just to complicate things a little, I would prefer a more mature lady for an outcall.
Yes, I am aware of the Joyful-Spirit and Katie Johnson ladies that you have in Ottawa.
I enjoy the reading of this site guys... only wish I had the experiences where I could contribute something meaningful.
 

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Maybe not for everyone, but I can say I was very happy seeing JoyfulC. If your looking for a complacent young spinner, look elsewhere.

Now that Ric is gone you should post more.
 

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onlyicit said:
I have been reading this site for sometime in the event I had the opportunity to be in Ottawa/Toronto. So, I am now in Ottawa for a few days. I am not one to plan a meeting too far in advance, I prefer something more spontaneous if possible and in that regard found a site for an agency that was open until something like 3 or 4AM... now have lost that site name. I was thinking that it would come in handy if I happened to end up up spending an evening in one of your strip clubs here and needed something to finish off the night.
Can anyone assist in a recommendation? Almost all sites I have found are not open that late or you must make an appointment for a specific time. And just to complicate things a little, I would prefer a more mature lady for an outcall.
Yes, I am aware of the Joyful-Spirit and Katie Johnson ladies that you have in Ottawa.
I enjoy the reading of this site guys... only wish I had the experiences where I could contribute something meaningful.

Oh and your thinking of OPG...
 
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onlyicit

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Barbarella's did the thing

thanks for the info on the OPG. I put the number in my cell phone for use on Friday. However, I did check out Barbarella's on Thur just for a late night drink and to see if it was worth returning to. After a few drinks, I was approached by a dancer for a private dance. I had heard about the new Ottawa laws about wanting to keep 4 feet between the dancer and client so asked about that. I was told that it just depended on the girl. After a chat I did decide on a dance and went behind the curtains with her. The signs for $20 per dance and NO CONTACT plainly visable. A song or 2 later I pressed my luck and asked about the "rules of the house". I was told "there are no rules". I tested this a little by running my hand up between her thighs. I must have been too slow because the girl just took my hand and forced it over her pussy and directly asked if I wanted a HJ or BJ. I was more than a little shocked and replied something to the effect that I was 'saving myself' for something back at my room tomorrow night. She said that she would not be working tomorrow night but normally that wouldn't be a problem. I was a little concerned about the privacy here but since her hands were busy, this was becoming less of an issue with each passing moment. Bottom line, this was the first HJ/BJ I have had in a strip club. Certainly not the best in my life but under the circumstances, it was exciting and certainly not what I expected when I walked in there. It probably would have been cheaper for an outcall. Not sure what I really dropped there in the heat of the moment but I do know that there were 5 dances at $20 each and more for the tip.
Next time in Ottawa I will stay away from the extras at the clubs and do the JoyFulC or Katie Johnson arrangements. They are more in my age group and I am constantly impressed by their opinions.
Anyway, thanks guys for the interesting reading you provide, I know I can't come close to most of your adventures but just wanted to let you know that Ottawa did give me a "first"... first time satisfaction at a strip club and first time able to post an experience.
 

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Sounds like Barb's is on the slide again. There were a few like that when I was stopped going. SPs are definately cheaper and safer. Your right about JoyfulC though, much nicer times to be had with her.
 

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Please don't bother to tell him that -- we aren't interested in that business. Guys like this select the quality they deserve -- there's a reason they don't pick us. I know that may sound weird to those who think we try to get whatever business we can, but really, there are just guys like this. we don't worry about them -- we don't take them into consideration.

They get what they deserve, and they make their choices.

We escorts get a lot of inquiries -- and some of them are from guys like this. We don't worry that much about them. Sure, we know what's going to happen with them, but it's not our problem. They are not our customers.

..c..
 

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"guys like this"

Forgive me Joyful but that sounds a little harsh and judgemental. The guy went to a SC and in the heat of the moment got a HJ from a dancer. In this regard, he gets called a "guy like this" 3 times, and somehow not worthy of a visiting a SP on his next visit? I'm sure he now regrets his comment that he "is constantly impressed by [your] opinions".

Men visit SPs for various reasons, but IMHO it's usually to receive affection in an understanding and non-judgemental way. You of course have the right to choose and refuse any client for any reason, but I'm not sure why you are viewing his visit to a SC so harshly.

Also, your opinion of women who work as dancers came through loud and clear when you say that guys like this (that phrase again) "select the quality they deserve". Ouch. I don't frequent SCs often, but on the odd time that I have I've chatted with some very nice ladies, who (like SPs) are from varying backgrounds and have their own reasons for doing what they do.

We all are what we are, we're all human in the end, so let's try to keep things in perspective and respect people's feelings.

Just my 2 cents.
Thanks.
 

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Well talk to some of the Dancers at Barb's and you may find they share JoyfulC's opinion. Be careful of which though, some will be quite forceful in their opinions.
 

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I hear you. The SC's definitely push the boundaries now, and I'm sure a lot of the dancers who don't offer extras don't appreciate having to compete with those who do.

I'm not a big fan of SCs for that reason. I don't like the hustle (sometimes it is relentless), it doesn't make for a very relaxing or enjoyable experience. But to each his own I guess.
 

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I believe I said "the quality they deserve" -- what makes you think I meant that he didn't view quality as being that he could get from a dancer? I think this is a subjective decision on the part of various customers. Some might prefer a massage. Some an escort, Some a dancer. It's up to them, and I respect that. I don't think anyone should try to tell someone which way to go -- especially if they're here and they're aware of their options.

I can't speak for all escorts, but for myself (and maybe a few others), we aren't trying to compete with the strippers. We appreciate that there are guys who get a kick out of that whole venue -- just as there are guys who prefer the environment to be found with an incall escort.

My point wasn't that some people's interests are better than others -- but simply that everybody's interests are unique. And we shouldn't try to "convert" them. If a guy is into the strip club thing, that's neither good nor bad, in my book -- but I won't try to sell him on escorts. He's -- in my view -- a "guy like that." I respect it, and I wish him all the very best.

..c..
 

antlerman

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Hey "C"

You ever thought of writting a book on theories, philosophy........of an escort.
You could charge $200 a book......

Just kidding...you know my sense of humor........I love your insights and words of wisdom!

Kepp up the good work!
 
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