Need help with secret lingo

[NoLagJustMidlife]

Hey guys. I’ve recently learned there are some (not so) secret lingo in this hobby. I’m not talking about acronyms, but more sentences.

Examples:
- Open Minded often means the girl is open to unprotected full service.
- Trip to Greece islands is… you guessed it, a 5 days boat cruise, all included.

Are there any other sentences that I should be looking for? I tried searching but came up with bunch of random posts.

 

[ShootNScoot]

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/consolidated-newbies-guide.117478/

 

[NoLagJustMidlife]

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/consolidated-newbies-guide.117478/

Of course it’s in the sticky topics! Thank you so much!

 

[massman]

Hey guys. I’ve recently learned there are some (not so) secret lingo in this hobby. I’m not talking about acronyms, but more sentences.

Examples:
- Open Minded often means the girl is open to unprotected full service.
- Trip to Greece islands is… you guessed it, a 5 days boat cruise, all included.

Are there any other sentences that I should be looking for? I tried searching but came up with bunch of random posts.

Open minded means…… absolutely nothing. Like nothing at all. It’s a complete throwaway statement. Definitely does not mean girl does BBFS tho.

 

[silentkisser]

Open minded means…… absolutely nothing. Like nothing at all. It’s a complete throwaway statement. Definitely does not mean girl does BBFS tho.

In all seriousness, who the fuck wants BBFS???? I wouldn't want to go to an SP that offered it, even if I wore a dome....

 

[massman]

In all seriousness, who the fuck wants BBFS???? I wouldn't want to go to an SP that offered it, even if I wore a dome....

Agree 100%. Unfortunately it’s becoming more prevalent tho. People have forgotten the old days of the HIV epidemic where bare sex could be a death sentence.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

- Open Minded often means the girl is open to unprotected full service.

It's NOT what it means, it's important you understand that. And I hope it's not something you are looking for.

 

[Insidious Von]

Now I'm confused, I thought open minded meant she likes tzatziki.

 

[The Options Menu]

Open minded means…… absolutely nothing. Like nothing at all. It’s a complete throwaway statement.

At worst anyway.

At best it means that a provider views themselves as willing to consider a broad range of client desires that fall within her safety and service parameters. (Possibly for additional $.) As a client, hopefully it means a provider who is some combination of experienced, and / or game to try things.

At least that was always my understanding. It also helps save a provider from writing out a long list of YMMV things that go beyond the 'basics'. Though, this is the internet, so I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong.

 

[massman]

At worst anyway.

At best it means that a provider views themselves as willing to consider a broad range of client desires that fall within her safety and service parameters. (Possibly for additional $.) As a client, hopefully it means a provider who is some combination of experienced, and / or game to try things.

At least that was always my understanding. It also helps save a provider from writing out a long list of YMMV things that go beyond the 'basics'. Though, this is the internet, so I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong.

You are wrong.

But, seriously you are. Open minded compared to what? All sex workers are open minded compared to most of society. Most of society is very closed minded when it comes to paid sex.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Yeah I agree. I thought open minded meant a girl was open to the idea of fetishes or something. Like it means they're not going to make someone feel like a tool for asking to get a dick in the bum or lick their feet or armpit or ask to have someone fart in their mouth.

I used to say I was open minded to let people know I wasn't going to be a kink shaming b*tch if someone asked me for a fetish request.

I definitely wasn't trying to tell anyone I offered unprotected sex.

Open minded means…… absolutely nothing. Like nothing at all. It’s a complete throwaway statement. Definitely does not mean girl does BBFS tho.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

We all get asked for it multiple times a day. Some days are worse than others. It's honestly nice when these people can find what they're looking for so they stop harassing the women that don't. I just send people that ask to the local Locanto.

In all seriousness, who the fuck wants BBFS???? I wouldn't want to go to an SP that offered it, even if I wore a dome....

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I thought that's what it meant too. I think in the fetish world, open minded means you're willing to try anything but there's a universal understanding that no one means BBFS

At worst anyway.

At best it means that a provider views themselves as willing to consider a broad range of client desires that fall within her safety and service parameters. (Possibly for additional $.) As a client, hopefully it means a provider who is some combination of experienced, and / or game to try things.

At least that was always my understanding. It also helps save a provider from writing out a long list of YMMV things that go beyond the 'basics'. Though, this is the internet, so I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong.

 

[The Options Menu]

Open minded compared to what?

Compared to whatever a client is feeling potentially awkward / afraid about asking... As I said, that's best case. That you're not going to be shamed, a provider is not going to be 'shocked', and / or that a provider offers more than a very narrow range of services.

Yes, I know that's very nebulous, and it's probably better if a provider says: open to requests / kink friendly / fetish friendly / something a bit more specific. While no provider would call themselves restrictive, it's not unfair to expect someone calling themselves open minded to be at least somewhat open minded (IMO).

 

[Pilgrimesque]

In all seriousness, who the fuck wants BBFS????

I'm guessing about most majority of guys wants it or is seriously looking for it.

 

[Jenesis]

I'm guessing about most majority of guys wants it or is seriously looking for it.

Not in my experience.

Maybe 10% when I was touring would ask via text before hand. Less then 5% in my entire career of clients have asked in the actual appointment and since I have been back at home in Durham last year, I haven’t been asked once.

Maybe because I clearly stated no BBFS in my ads, I don’t know but I don’t get requests for it at all anymore.

 

[SchlongConery]

Now I'm confused, I thought open minded meant she likes tzatziki.

Is that spicy Greek Lube?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Maybe because I clearly stated no BBFS in my ads, I don’t know but I don’t get requests for it at all anymore.

Me too, I am rarely asked that in emails, maybe once a year. During a meeting, it happened maybe three times in my entire career. And there's no mention of "NO BBFS" on my website. I don't know why someone would get this request everyday as someone said above, and others almost never.

 

[silentkisser]

I'm guessing about most majority of guys wants it or is seriously looking for it.

Look, bbfs is awesome, with a partner you know. But these ladies have sex with multiple men a day. It only takes one dude with AIDS or another STI to pass it on to a huge number of people. Why take the risk of catching or spreading something...

 

[Jenesis]

Me too, I am rarely asked that in emails, maybe once a year. During a meeting, it happened maybe three times in my entire career. And there's no mention of "NO BBFS" on my website. I don't know why someone would get this request everyday as someone said above, and others almost never.

Some just always seem to have negative opinions about the industry as whole.