Anyone else feel like no matter what they do, how hard they try, it is never good enough?
Never good enough
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That post was a nice try but not very good. (sorry, it was just to easy)
Impossible to please everyone. Ignore haters keep moving forward.
Never bothered me. I was lying flat long before it became a thing.
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this thread is under performing for me... I expected more... disappointing.
Life is like that, you start out not being good enough for your parents, then teachers, then relationships etc.If your expecting a pat on the back or credit for anything then your going to be disappointed all your life.The reality is the only person you have to be good enough for is you.
I felt like that a lot in the past. There was a combination of things that made me feel this way.
One use to be that if I was wrong about something, I felt that I was somehow bad, and that led to feelings of never being good enough because as humans, we are wrong about something on a daily basis. To be human is to err and thankfully through therapy I learned being wrong about something, doesn’t mean you are bad. A lot of people in the world feel like I use to. It is why some people will just never back down even when given the facts.
Second - I cut out toxic people. My abusive ex for example. He would always make me feel like I was never good enough. It was apart of his abuse. He was so inflected with his low self-esteem, that he has to put me down to make himself feel good. So he always had to be better then me which in turn made me feel not good enough. Toxic people can be your partner, parent, boss/co-worker, etc. It can be anyone so if you have to, cut those people out.
Lastly - societal pressure. I had to learn to navigate this and it is a hard one. Standing outside the crowd is difficult but very freeing. Once you can learn that “society” doesn’t dictate life the way is suppose to be and because “society” is based on humans, they get it wrong all the time, you manage to learn to do things on your own terms. By extension you then learn to trust yourself and then learn that you are indeed good enough because you get to really see the type of person you truly are. I’m awesome. Some people may not think so and that is fine too. I’m not here to impress everyone. I’m here to find like minded people to enjoy aspects of life with. There are some 8B people in the world. I’m not going to like or agree with over half of them. LOL.
Try working on those three and you will see a huge difference with your inner feelings.
One use to be that if I was wrong about something, I felt that I was somehow bad, and that led to feelings of never being good enough because as humans, we are wrong about something on a daily basis. To be human is to err and thankfully through therapy I learned being wrong about something, doesn’t mean you are bad. A lot of people in the world feel like I use to. It is why some people will just never back down even when given the facts.
Second - I cut out toxic people. My abusive ex for example. He would always make me feel like I was never good enough. It was apart of his abuse. He was so inflected with his low self-esteem, that he has to put me down to make himself feel good. So he always had to be better then me which in turn made me feel not good enough. Toxic people can be your partner, parent, boss/co-worker, etc. It can be anyone so if you have to, cut those people out.
Lastly - societal pressure. I had to learn to navigate this and it is a hard one. Standing outside the crowd is difficult but very freeing. Once you can learn that “society” doesn’t dictate life the way is suppose to be and because “society” is based on humans, they get it wrong all the time, you manage to learn to do things on your own terms. By extension you then learn to trust yourself and then learn that you are indeed good enough because you get to really see the type of person you truly are. I’m awesome. Some people may not think so and that is fine too. I’m not here to impress everyone. I’m here to find like minded people to enjoy aspects of life with. There are some 8B people in the world. I’m not going to like or agree with over half of them. LOL.
Try working on those three and you will see a huge difference with your inner feelings.
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Don't worry OP, you're good enough, you're smart enough and dog gone it, people like you.
Yeah, it specificlly says baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.Damn. Why you gonna hurt me like that
Yeah always. It last only a few second tough. Then I don't give a shit
Its human nature not to be satisfied with anything no matter how hard you try
