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Prometheros

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So, this is my first post here. I'm honestly not sure if this is the correct subforum for this, but I couldn't find anything more specific, feel free to correct me if a more suitable area of the site exists. Now, my situation:
I am a young man (early 20s) interested in exploring the world of SPs, and I have been a lurker on TERB for some time. However, I have a unique set of circumstances which have prevented me from trying the hobby for myself up until this point. For you see, I am blind.
In theory, this should not be an issue. I can arrange transport (Uber, public transit, ...) and I can generally navigate buildings by politely asking a passing person for directions.
However, I just have a couple of concerns that I'm hoping some of you might be able to help me with.
First of all, to be blunt, how likely are SPs to refuse to see me because of my disability?
Secondly, I know that most of the time SPs do not provide the exact location of an incall until several minutes before the appointment. However, this poses a problem for me, since I will not be driving, and I will likely have to higher an Uber in advance.
I understand that accessibility is not exactly anyone here's area of expertise, but I am just wondering if anyone has any thoughts or suggestions.
Thanks in advance for any and all constructive points.
 

Combat Shock

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They will provide you with the location when you book the appointment, the only detail that is given last minute is the room number. That's usually sent to you via text/phone once you confirm you are on time for your appointment and the SP is ready to see you.
I believe you won't have any issues with your disability, they provide service to people with more complicated conditions. If you want to be 100% sure you can mention it when you book your appointment and the agency (or indy) will let you know who/how they can accommodate you and your needs.
 

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So, this is my first post here. I'm honestly not sure if this is the correct subforum for this, but I couldn't find anything more specific, feel free to correct me if a more suitable area of the site exists. Now, my situation:
I am a young man (early 20s) interested in exploring the world of SPs, and I have been a lurker on TERB for some time. However, I have a unique set of circumstances which have prevented me from trying the hobby for myself up until this point. For you see, I am blind.
In theory, this should not be an issue. I can arrange transport (Uber, public transit, ...) and I can generally navigate buildings by politely asking a passing person for directions.
However, I just have a couple of concerns that I'm hoping some of you might be able to help me with.
First of all, to be blunt, how likely are SPs to refuse to see me because of my disability?
Secondly, I know that most of the time SPs do not provide the exact location of an incall until several minutes before the appointment. However, this poses a problem for me, since I will not be driving, and I will likely have to higher an Uber in advance.
I understand that accessibility is not exactly anyone here's area of expertise, but I am just wondering if anyone has any thoughts or suggestions.
Thanks in advance for any and all constructive points.
Kudos to you for stepping out of a comfort zone.

1)I think that it is highly unlikely that you will be refused.
2)I think the only detail of a location that would be withheld until the last minute would be the unit number. If you've explained your situation, they should be much more willing to make your location challenge easier for you.
3)Just ask what the accessibility situation is at the time of making your booking.

95% sure that you are good to go with no worries. Just make sure that the lady doesn't fall too much in love with you because you will be a champ.
 
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Beyond what the first two posters have said I suspect many agencies and independent providers would be willing to give you a bit of extra help getting to the unit. SPs and agencies are usually pretty accommodating, and I suspect very few SPs would decline a session.

Another option might be an outcall, where the girl comes to you. That would add a lot of cost if you rent a space and aren't otherwise on the road. (I'd be wary of inviting an unknown SP into my home.)

Good luck. Hopefully some providers and agencies reach out to you.
 

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I'm guessing looks won't be too much of an issue.
 

Prometheros

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Thanks everyone for your replies!
Based on what I am reading here, it doesn't look like I should have any issues.

As to the possibility of an outcall as brought up by 1 reply, I have thought of that, but I just can't afford that kind of cost. I have money, but not enough to do this often, and not enough to incur unnecessary costs.
Also, yes, for those who have brought it up, looks are NOT a major factor for me (though I do, of course, have other criteria.) For a blind guy, body shape, smooth skin, and a nice voice are high priorities. I'm happy to answer questions if anyone is curious.
 
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As to the possibility of an outcall as brought up by 1 reply, I have thought of that, but I just can't afford that kind of cost. I have money, but not enough to do this often, and not enough to incur unnecessary costs.
I hear you on that. I only do outcalls when I'm on the road (and only if I'm convinced a girl can be reasonably discreet since I like to use the same hotels).

Honestly, I don't think you'll have too much trouble. I'd actually be surprised if nobody reaches out to you in your messages. Failing that, all you can do is ask some agencies and providers.
 

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So, this is my first post here. I'm honestly not sure if this is the correct subforum for this, but I couldn't find anything more specific, feel free to correct me if a more suitable area of the site exists. Now, my situation:
I am a young man (early 20s) interested in exploring the world of SPs, and I have been a lurker on TERB for some time. However, I have a unique set of circumstances which have prevented me from trying the hobby for myself up until this point. For you see, I am blind.
In theory, this should not be an issue. I can arrange transport (Uber, public transit, ...) and I can generally navigate buildings by politely asking a passing person for directions.
However, I just have a couple of concerns that I'm hoping some of you might be able to help me with.
First of all, to be blunt, how likely are SPs to refuse to see me because of my disability?
Secondly, I know that most of the time SPs do not provide the exact location of an incall until several minutes before the appointment. However, this poses a problem for me, since I will not be driving, and I will likely have to higher an Uber in advance.
I understand that accessibility is not exactly anyone here's area of expertise, but I am just wondering if anyone has any thoughts or suggestions.
Thanks in advance for any and all constructive points.

So glad you asked us here for some advice! Welcome aboard!

This should NOT be a problem at all.

However, I'd stick to a reputable agency that is quality over quantity oriented and has locations convenient to your circumstances. @MIRAGE is a pretty accommodating agency and their owner Andy is a very compassionate guy. If the location is not too far, their Front and Spadina and Blue Jays locations are all without barriers. The 427 location is ok but you;d have to check with Mirage to see if it's ok to pull up to the front doors rather than the side door.

Hopefully @MIRAGE reads this thread and maybe they might ask Andy to call you himself to work it out. He is a genuinely nice, kind guy. (So long as you don't get on his bad side!)

Other reputable agencies could help you too but I'd stay away from Leolist and unknown indy's. Girls like @Jenesis and @Josephine seem to be kind and accomodating.
 

Prometheros

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So glad you asked us here for some advice! Welcome aboard!

This should NOT be a problem at all.

However, I'd stick to a reputable agency that is quality over quantity oriented and has locations convenient to your circumstances. @MIRAGE is a pretty accommodating agency and their owner Andy is a very compassionate guy. If the location is not too far, their Front and Spadina and Blue Jays locations are all without barriers. The 427 location is ok but you;d have to check with Mirage to see if it's ok to pull up to the front doors rather than the side door.

Hopefully @MIRAGE reads this thread and maybe they might ask Andy to call you himself to work it out. He is a genuinely nice, kind guy. (So long as you don't get on his bad side!)

Other reputable agencies could help you too but I'd stay away from Leolist and unknown indy's. Girls like @Jenesis and @Josephine seem to be kind and accomodating.
Thanks for the recs.
Just took a look at Mirage, looks good, and surprizingly affordable too.
 

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Some agencies I've used in the past will allow you to wait in the lobby or suggest a nearby coffee shop where you can wait to the unit text. Ask the booker about those options.
 

SchlongConery

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Thanks for the recs.
Just took a look at Mirage, looks good, and surprizingly affordable too.
Andy has, from the beginning, made a real effort to have nice girls, fair prices and run a fair and honest business. I would go so far as to say he has changed the sex industry in Toronto by raising the bar for standards and integrity. Many girls have said how well they are treated. That all goes a long way for me.
 

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Many ladies do list that they do see clients of various disabilities.
Just let the lady or the booker know what your condition is and what sorts of accommodations are required.
Good luck to you. We'll barrack for you!
 

Sonic Temple

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So glad you asked us here for some advice! Welcome aboard!

This should NOT be a problem at all.

However, I'd stick to a reputable agency that is quality over quantity oriented and has locations convenient to your circumstances. @MIRAGE is a pretty accommodating agency and their owner Andy is a very compassionate guy. If the location is not too far, their Front and Spadina and Blue Jays locations are all without barriers. The 427 location is ok but you;d have to check with Mirage to see if it's ok to pull up to the front doors rather than the side door.

Hopefully @MIRAGE reads this thread and maybe they might ask Andy to call you himself to work it out. He is a genuinely nice, kind guy. (So long as you don't get on his bad side!)

Other reputable agencies could help you too but I'd stay away from Leolist and unknown indy's. Girls like @Jenesis and @Josephine seem to be kind and accomodating.
Adding @Rosalia Rose and @SultrySofia And @GeorgiaTDL and @Katie_K to this fine list of ladies that would help as well.
 

Prometheros

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Everyone, thanks so much for your advice and suggestions. Even if I don't reply to you, just know that I am eagerly reading everything and taking notes.
Also, for the record, I AM completely blind, and have no idea what was up with the thing with the images.
 

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I AM completely blind, and have no idea what was up with the thing with the images.
People may have took, "I'm looking at Mirage" a little literally. Possibly in jest.
 

Prometheros

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People may have took, "I'm looking at Mirage" a little literally. Possibly in jest.
Fair enough.
By the way, does anyone have any tips on how to find the most highly regarded girls from a given agency? I obviously have preferences, but, since looks aren't much of a factor, I honestly feel kind of overwhelmed with the shear number of options.
 

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Fair enough.
By the way, does anyone have any tips on how to find the most highly regarded girls from a given agency?
Method 1: Go by the number of reviews for someone who matches your preferences. TERB can be prone to fads, but usually multiple good and recent reviews for someone you're interested in is a good sign.

Method 2: Talk to the booker. A booker will always try to get you in to see someone, but they will usually try to line you up with what they consider to be the option that most matches your preferences.

For me I usually look at who's available when I'm available, take note of who I find interesting, check for reviews (though I don't mind no / few reviews when dealing with a reputable agency), and then I'll give a short list of who I'm looking at, and my preferences, to the booker. I've usually had that work out well.
 
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