Anyone ever had the problem when your penis just feels somewhat numb even though its erect? Had experiences with beautiful women who really turned me on but despite my penis being erect and all, I just didn't quite feel all the sensations, it was if I was wearing a really really thick condom. Anyone know of a remedy?
Numbness
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I have, from over-masturbation ... then, when I am getting the real thing, my cock feels weird and psychologically un-ready too ...
Do you jerk alot?
Do you jerk alot?
Yeah but it happens sometimes even when I have abstained from any sexual activities for a few days. Once, I tried resting for a few days before an appoinment with a hot SP and that numbness was present, its like totally random. Hmmm, what a wastesubmissivedave said:
Its like, I know I can have a rock hard erection and I know I can shoot a big load and I definitely know that I am not impatent ... but once this "thing" as DonBush notes really scares the shit out of me. Its not a matter of "wasting" anything ... but a matter of not pleasing the lady and it also has a strong psychological affect on myself.
I mean, here you are with this incredibly beautiful lady that you've been jerking to for a while and now she's right before you and you can't pleasure her and you can't cum for her ... its just a sad sad story ... It hurts me alot psychologically ...
CyberGoth ... I know it can't be a stress thing because I am quite a carefree, stress-less person ... so I think I can only relate to the psychological aspect.
Sheesh ... maybe I should stop jerking off so much.
BTW, what's the average number of times are we, fucking horn dog males suppose to jerk off? As for myself, I've been jerking more then usual for the past few weeks ...
Just today I jerked off 3 times ... man, some men don't even cum three times in one week and I did it within ... like .... umm ... 5 hours ...
Please teach me how not to jerk so much???
One thing for me is, I sleep naked and my blanket feels very good on my cock. Damn ... I get aroused from the friction from my blanket. So, I am forced to jerk off. Or, if I really want it really really bad ... I end up fucking my blanket (I know its funny .... hehehe.... so laugh all your want).
Please teach me how not to jerk ...
Should I buy a chastity belt for myself and give the key to a SP that I trust and have frequent contact with? Would that help? Or is that dumb?
I mean, here you are with this incredibly beautiful lady that you've been jerking to for a while and now she's right before you and you can't pleasure her and you can't cum for her ... its just a sad sad story ... It hurts me alot psychologically ...
CyberGoth ... I know it can't be a stress thing because I am quite a carefree, stress-less person ... so I think I can only relate to the psychological aspect.
Sheesh ... maybe I should stop jerking off so much.
BTW, what's the average number of times are we, fucking horn dog males suppose to jerk off? As for myself, I've been jerking more then usual for the past few weeks ...
Just today I jerked off 3 times ... man, some men don't even cum three times in one week and I did it within ... like .... umm ... 5 hours ...
Please teach me how not to jerk so much???
One thing for me is, I sleep naked and my blanket feels very good on my cock. Damn ... I get aroused from the friction from my blanket. So, I am forced to jerk off. Or, if I really want it really really bad ... I end up fucking my blanket (I know its funny .... hehehe.... so laugh all your want).
Please teach me how not to jerk ...
Should I buy a chastity belt for myself and give the key to a SP that I trust and have frequent contact with? Would that help? Or is that dumb?
Remedy- Viagara? No? okay -a sexy lady with whom you feel really comfortable with and trust. A sex therapist! heheh...
Me thinks you worry too much. Chill out and relax, find a nice lady and a good bottle of wine or several. Nature will take it's course. Good luck.
subdave - a little more info than we need to know but hope you can resolve.
Me thinks you worry too much. Chill out and relax, find a nice lady and a good bottle of wine or several. Nature will take it's course. Good luck.
subdave - a little more info than we need to know but hope you can resolve.
Don't think you shld worry 'bout giving the ladies multiple orgasms after all they're there to please you. Besides, the ladies are usually more concerned with being treated respectfully and customer hygiene. As for the jerking off, sometimes its not even that; there are weeks when I can jerk off several times a day and still have all the sensation when I get the real stuff.submissivedave said:
The problem is that its not about the erection, just the lack of sensation. Everything is working fine, I just don't feel the tightness, the warmth as much. So Viagra won't helpbreaker7 said:
Also, its not b/c of the nervousness, had occasions when I felt really insecure esp when the woman was really hot but there was no numbness whatsoever, in fact, I think there was increased sensitivity so this numbness seems random. Can't let nature takes its course with SPs, they're working on an hourly rate, unless I do an expensive all nighter.
sterile stuff.
It's eight am, first sip of coffee, so bare with my lack of properness.
if it's a lubed condom with the new fandangle sterile stuff also on the inside of the condom, that ....oh wait spermicide that's the word.
Yes, if the condom has spermicide this can cause a bit of a numb feeling. How do I know, cause it's the same spermicide on the outside of the condom, it tastes gross, and it numbs my lips, tongue and (front of the) throat. It is worse then the numbing feeling ones used to get from nonoxyl 9 spermicide.
For a try just use a lubed condom, or a non lubed and apply your own lube. and let me know.
It's eight am, first sip of coffee, so bare with my lack of properness.
if it's a lubed condom with the new fandangle sterile stuff also on the inside of the condom, that ....oh wait spermicide that's the word.
Yes, if the condom has spermicide this can cause a bit of a numb feeling. How do I know, cause it's the same spermicide on the outside of the condom, it tastes gross, and it numbs my lips, tongue and (front of the) throat. It is worse then the numbing feeling ones used to get from nonoxyl 9 spermicide.
For a try just use a lubed condom, or a non lubed and apply your own lube. and let me know.
It happens to me on occasion after being close to worn out from my extra curricular activities. (over exertion)
Usually occurs when I see more than 3 women in one night.
Usually occurs when I see more than 3 women in one night.
elaine said:
Don't think that's causing the numbness. I only use lightly lubed condoms like Crown Skinless, Kimo Ultra Thin or the InSpiral, Astroglide is used for extra lubrication.
That sounds like a good idea, just not sure how I'm going to raise the issue with the chiroprator. Anyone ever tried accupuncture or reflexology?Sheik said:
Yo Cathy
You said a mouth fullsecret_touch said:Key word "massage"
....make sure you tell your attendant to be not so quick w/the happy ending (?)....need more then a 2 minute jacker
