Off limit questions [please respect terb’s rules]

[LC18]

Following terb’s guidelines, what are some questions that SPs/MPs/strippers shouldn’t ask when meeting you for the first time?

What are some questions that could bring the room’s temperature to -30°C ?

Please be respectful, if you need a refresher, here are perbs rules: [I need a refresher]

 

[LTO_3]

Years ago in NIagara Falls I was at the 'Downer (The Sundowner) on a Saturday afternoon. Minutes after I sat down, no drink yet and stripper sits down says" hi, how ya doing? How much are you gunna spend on me when you take me to the back room? 3 guess what I said to her and it wasn't FU but it was an option I considered.

LTO_3

 

[speakercontrols]

Likely political beliefs. Years ago it was all very interesting to hear different takes and new information but now? Listening to judging self-rightousness of those who sit on Gods right hand gets a little wearing. And that's just me.

Honestly, other than that, not much is off topic. Perhaps where I live of course. I really appreciate the really straight-forward women. Ask me and I can choose to answer or not. Just like they have to almost every session. Given the women I see in this business have a radically different 'lived experience' from me, some of their takes & opinions on topics are very insightful compared to mine.

 

[K Douglas]

Is it in yet?

 

[1kevin]

Nothing is off limits.

 

[LC18]

hi, how ya doing? How much are you gunna spend on me when you take me to the back room?

That’s maybe too honest. I cannot believe she thought it was a good icebreaker

 

[LC18]

Perhaps where I live of course.

When I’m home in Montreal, I might ask “do you live on the island?” but never more than that. I just like to know if my location is convenient

 

[Tinmachine]

Following terb’s guidelines, what are some questions that SPs/MPs/strippers shouldn’t ask when meeting you for the first time?

What are some questions that could bring the room’s temperature to -30°C ?

Please be respectful, if you need a refresher, here are perbs rules: [I need a refresher]

Don't bring up politics. Nothing more divisive nowadays and a sexual downer than realizing that the stranger yu are about to "have fun with" is the enemy. Too much tribalism these days.

 

[Darts]

When I’m home in Montreal, I might ask “do you live on the island?” but never more than that. I just like to know if my location is convenient

Yes, I lived in Outremont (before moving to Toronto).

 

[Tinmachine]

Don't ask about marital status, employment details or political beliefs.

Asking what yu do for a living is natural and ok. I get asked all the time. Just a way to get to know someone harmlessly

 

[LC18]

Don't bring up politics. Nothing more divisive nowadays and a sexual downer than realizing that the stranger yu are about to "have fun with" is the enemy. Too much tribalism these days.

I can’t remember on which board I’ve read that but someone mentioned booking a SP and everything was going just fine until she started talking about conspiracies and the government putting chips in us.

 

[contagem88]

Covid jabs

 

[Tinmachine]

Covid jabs

Was with a hot sp last spring and she started talking about those "anti-vaxxers". I'm a little more nuanced on the subject but hate ppl being demonized for anything. It was a downer and never saw her again

 

[speakercontrols]

When I’m home in Montreal, I might ask “do you live on the island?” but never more than that. I just like to know if my location is convenient

Oh agreed. I don't even mind mentioning the city. It's when they ask for awefully specific details - nothing malicious, just part of the conversation - is where it gets 'odd'. Of course this works both ways No way would a provider give out details of where she lives.

 

[kherg007]

Nothing. Ask whatever. Will I answer? Depends. If I don't want to answer I'll joke "sorry top secret info"..and laugh about it.
I think for most blokes asking their real name, or their relationship status, likely near top of the list.

 

[Darts]

No way would a provider give out details of where she lives.

I was her last appointment of the day. She asked me to walk her home. Home was a million unit apartment building. No, she didn't invite me up.

A couple of times talk wandered into hockey. One SP is a huge Montreal fan and asked if I could get her tickets. Another SP said her son is a huge Raptor fan and asked if I could get Raptor tickets.

 

[speakercontrols]

I was her last appointment of the day. She asked me to walk her home. Home was a million unit apartment building. No, she didn't invite me up.

A couple of times talk wandered into hockey. One SP is a huge Montreal fan and asked if I could get her tickets. Another SP said her son is a huge Raptor fan and asked if I could get Raptor tickets.

…you leave out the context of how long you’ve known them and established trust. The existence of outliers in a standard normal population distribution does not negate the existence of the other 99%.

 

[richaceg]

Don't ask / expect for a tip...that's up to the client's satisfaction...but make sure you get paid fairly...

 

[LC18]

I went to a strip club in Atlanta and this girl asked to go for a dance. I went. She jumps on my lap and starts talking in a "funny Indian accent".

big yikes

 

[onomatopoeia]

- Don't ask about how much money I make.
- Don't ask culturally insensitive questions or say insensitive things. Example: I went to a strip club in Atlanta and this girl asked to go for a dance. I went. She jumps on my lap and starts talking in a "funny Indian accent". I don't believe she had ill intent, and was probably trying to break the ice with "humor", but I don't have the funny Indian accent, so it is a bit demeaning. I had to tell her as much, and things were a little awkward, so I had to end the dance after 2 songs. If she hadn't I would have gone to the private room with her, she was really hot and seemed otherwise nice.
- Don't ask for tips, or "upsell" anything. State everything on your website, so expectations are set before beginning the date.

A joke which is funny only to people with ancestry from India:

There are only two sports in India: Cricket and spelling bee. If you can't defend a doosra on a slow pitch, you learn how to spell fackeltanz.