Oh Dear....

[danmand]

It is natural (and proper) that everybody here has sympathy for Serenity and
want to comfort her during this ordeal.
On the otehr side of the coin, anybody in Serenity's situation should understand
(even if she does not accept it), that no parents want to see their daughter work
in the sex trade. They are likely genuinely distressed.

 

[red]

i am not sure how he can tell thats you from the photos. have you tried denying it?

 

[SweetSerenity]

Thank you to everyone for the support, it really does mean a lot to me.
I simply sent them a message back saying that what I do is my choice, and it makes me happy. If they can't deal with that, it is up to them. I will leave it at that, and let them make the next move.
Now to address some specific questions;

Calloway; I do not speak to a great deal of my family, those that do know nothing of my personal or proffessional life. I don't have any ex-friends that know enough about anything at all to have been able to find the site and tell them. And as far as I am aware I don't have any competitors. Even if I did, the only person who knows my last name in this buisness is HammerTm, and I'm not even sure he remembers it

69Shooter; The reason I still hold my grudge is not one I can simply shrug away and get over, I assure you, it is not some simple 'mommy and daddy wouldn't buy me a lollipop' type of wrong that has been commited.

 

[69Shooter]

69Shooter; The reason I still hold my grudge is not one I can simply shrug away and get over, I assure you, it is not some simple 'mommy and daddy wouldn't buy me a lollipop' type of wrong that has been commited.

Serenity, I'm not trying to judge you and I certainly did not say you should "shrug away and get over" whatever the issue(s) are. Just trying to offer some advice having seen how my own siblings' lives have been affected by not coming to terms with issues related to our parents. The fact that you mentioned the situation leads me to believe that it plays a prominent role in your life and who you are. I wish you all the best!

 

[Leighster]

Hi Serenity,

Sorry about your parents finding out.

I am quite surprised that after 25 posts none of our very knowledgeable ladies have offered you any insight into your situation. Hopefully they have PMed you instead.


L.

 

[K Douglas]

It seems your relationship with your parents has been strained even before them finding this news out.

For me family is very important. I hope that you and your parents can reconcile and find some common ground. Love is supposed to be unconditional.

Good luck Serenity.

 

[HOF]

None of us are in any position to judge. I'm surprised that she posted this information, but it appears to me that she is seeking alittle advice, compassion and support.

I'm sure that this young woman, Serenity, will perservere this and move forward.

 

[Brill]

Reconciling with her family shouldn't be done if they can't accept her and insist on "fixing" her.

 

[Stoo]

They are likely genuinely distressed.

Bingo. In what is surely the height of hypocrisy, I have met many, many wonderful young ladies in this hobby, but if my daughter went into the business, I would absolutely freak.

Serenity, I am very sorry that you find yourself in this situation. I can't imagine what you must be going through. What I can tell you though, is that your Father's distress is likely the result of concern for your safety, not necessarily a condemnation of your choice. In spite of what might have happened between you and your Father in the past, he likely loves you immensely and very likely feels like he is to blame for your "situation"... I don't think it's possible for a Father to not care for his daughter...

As for your Mom... She's likely in shock. Give her some time and then call her. Maybe even introduce her to Calloway. That should bring her around! (I'm assuming she's a red-head too...)

 

[Deviant]

...hug...

 

[smylee52]

69Shooter; The reason I still hold my grudge is not one I can simply shrug away and get over, I assure you, it is not some simple 'mommy and daddy wouldn't buy me a lollipop' type of wrong that has been commited.

Sounds like you just got even . Pretty hard not to get outted in small town Ontario . I'm guessing a part of you knew they would find out but it happened quicker than you expected .

If you were looking for a reason to break all contact it looks like you found it .
Good luck .

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[Aardvark154]

Serenity, very sorry to hear of this turmoil in your life. I do hope, both that you are able to find some peace in the short term, and that with time you and your parents are able to find each other again.