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This is probably true 99% of the time. When I first started hobbying I though it's true 100% of the time....

I think what Titalian's getting at is exactly what I feel too, being completely honest here.

"what does she think about me?"
"why did the session happened the way it happened? It's so mind blowing it's hard to believe she can do this at this level day in and day out for this many years"
"meh, it's probably the same for every guy she sees. We're just Johns"
and no matter how extreme the mileage was... "Meh, she probably...."

You got the idea. Sorry if I turn the mood of this thread into more sadistic or the loser type. But I've been around the corner in both extremes, meaning misunderstood nothing special as something special (rookie mistake).. and also lose out on thinking there's nothing special on something actually special (veteran mistake)
This is a great point :thumb: where some get too jaded and miss out on a gem. Its important to be able to read the situation and the girl properly.
 

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This is probably true 99% of the time. When I first started hobbying I though it's true 100% of the time....

I think what Titalian's getting at is exactly what I feel too, being completely honest here.

"what does she think about me?"
"why did the session happened the way it happened? It's so mind blowing it's hard to believe she can do this at this level day in and day out for this many years"
"meh, it's probably the same for every guy she sees. We're just Johns"
and no matter how extreme the mileage was... "Meh, she probably...."

You got the idea. Sorry if I turn the mood of this thread into more sadistic or the loser type. But I've been around the corner in both extremes, meaning misunderstood nothing special as something special (rookie mistake).. and also lose out on thinking there's nothing special on something actually special (veteran mistake)..

If 99% of the time, providers make us feel like kings, regardless how they think or feel about us, then they are all amazing at doing their job.

However, I believe chemistry exists even in the industry. It's not an invitation for romance, but it just makes the experience mutually pleasant or enjoyable.
 
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I really feel sorry for you.
A guy who treats terb as a dating site and has to pay escorts to feel wanted feels sorry for me??

You guys are like a role reversal where the guys analyse everything and phone each other asking 'do you think she likes me' and the girl is saying 'get the fuck away from me and make me a sandwich'. lol
 

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This is probably true 99% of the time. When I first started hobbying I though it's true 100% of the time....

I think what Titalian's getting at is exactly what I feel too, being completely honest here.

"what does she think about me?"
"why did the session happened the way it happened? It's so mind blowing it's hard to believe she can do this at this level day in and day out for this many years"
"meh, it's probably the same for every guy she sees. We're just Johns"
and no matter how extreme the mileage was... "Meh, she probably...."

You got the idea. Sorry if I turn the mood of this thread into more sadistic or the loser type. But I've been around the corner in both extremes, meaning misunderstood nothing special as something special (rookie mistake).. and also lose out on thinking there's nothing special on something actually special (veteran mistake)..
Why is it hard to believe, it's their job, it's a bodily function for them, much like taking a shit feels good, it's really no different. Oh I know you guys are all in the 1%, it's sex without love, they're shagging guys in their real life they care about. I think women can be more cold than men when it come to sex without feelings.
 

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Why is it hard to believe, it's their job, it's a bodily function for them, much like taking a shit feels good, it's really no different. Oh I know you guys are all in the 1%, it's sex without love, they're shagging guys in their real life they care about. I think women can be more cold than men when it come to sex without feelings.
I agree with all you say here, but there are exceptions to the generalities. Believe me, some like some of the variety as much as attached men do with SPs.
 

GPIDEAL

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A guy who treats terb as a dating site and has to pay escorts to feel wanted feels sorry for me??

You guys are like a role reversal where the guys analyse everything and phone each other asking 'do you think she likes me' and the girl is saying 'get the fuck away from me and make me a sandwich'. lol
He feels sorry that you're very cynical.

He's not talking about dating. He's talking about mutual appeasement that sometimes goes beyond the choreography.

Remember wazup, Italians* are the world's greatest lovers.

https://ah69.wordpress.com/2012/09/21/italian-woman-screamed-for-six-hours-after-sex/


*Spanish/Latino people too
 

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Why is it hard to believe, it's their job, it's a bodily function for them, much like taking a shit feels good, it's really no different. Oh I know you guys are all in the 1%, it's sex without love, they're shagging guys in their real life they care about. I think women can be more cold than men when it come to sex without feelings.
Well everyone has a diff definition of what a *mind*-blowing session is for them... :)
 

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wazup

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These women wouldn't want anything to do with you guys if you weren't paying them to spend time with you, I guess I can't look past that, if Italians are the best lovers, why are they paying for it?
 

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You do realize these women wouldn't give you the time of day if you weren't paying them, and how can someone paying for it be considered a great lover?
 

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These women wouldn't want anything to do with you guys if you weren't paying them to spend time with you, I guess I can't look past that, if Italians are the best lovers, why are they paying for it?
The truth is I actually enjoy my freedom and am not interested in a steady affair.
Let's just say I have many female friends that accommodate my sexual desires. Some of which are
Very close to me and that contact me periodically just to talk sometimes we break bread together.
What more could i ask for, That's all I need for the time being.
 

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These women wouldn't want anything to do with you guys if you weren't paying them to spend time with you, I guess I can't look past that, if Italians are the best lovers, why are they paying for it?
Tsk, tsk Wazup. We pay them to leave. Besides, woman can't survive on great sex alone. :eyebrows:


(Seriously, WE pay to have NSA relations with a variety of beautiful women. This doesn't mean that what happens between 2 consenting adults can't be mutually enjoyable or pleasurable.)
 

Titalian

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I fully agree with you here. Some people really do get caught up in the fantasy. And how do I know this? This sums up my interactions with women who are NOT SPs: http://i.imgur.com/vRoAli5.gifv


Very true netmaster, and typical of some women today. But I'm sure there's gems out there, just don't
Have the time to search them out.
 

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You do realize these women wouldn't give you the time of day if you weren't paying them, and how can someone paying for it be considered a great lover?
So I guess you've never given a provider a real orgasm?
 

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Its not so much a thought. I just feel very alive and full of energy. When I get home though I fall into the most restful sleep.
 

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The truth is I actually enjoy my freedom and am not interested in a steady affair.
Let's just say I have many female friends that accommodate my sexual desires. Some of which are
Very close to me and that contact me periodically just to talk sometimes we break bread together.
What more could i ask for, That's all I need for the time being.
Don't worry about him, he is just a bit bitter becuase he does not know how it feels to get his dick wet without paying for it. The few times he finds a girl he likes, he get too nervous and gets the runs before she can give him her number. No wonder he feels uncomfortable with his nephew living with him.
 
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