Older clients seeing youg SPs

[Teal]

Funny, I did try to see an older SP but I felt uncomfortable. It's one thing for your face to not be as pretty as the reviews suggested, the wrinkles were so damn distracting that I went soft within minutes.

If old men like the young girls, let them do them. I don't blame them either. I don't care, and it's none of my business.

If you're not Julia Ann or Janet Mason pretty, then forget it.

 

[demien2k5]

Funny, I did try to see an older SP but I felt uncomfortable. It's one thing for your face to not be as pretty as the reviews suggested, the wrinkles were so damn distracting that I went soft within minutes.

If old men like the young girls, let them do them. I don't blame them either. I don't care, and it's none of my business.

If you're not Julia Ann or Janet Mason pretty, then forget it.

True, a hot body is a hot body, but fugly is fugly at any age (male/female alike) LOL!

 

[Vermeer27]

It's admittedly a huge generalisation, but men tend to age better than women. Julia Ann and Janet Mason are exceptions, but they both owe much to plastic surgery. In the past I sought out older SP's who took care of themsleves, because they were more skilled and less inhibited. But in the last few years I've been surprised to see some fuck-machines in their early twenties. They're learning fast these days.

 

[bandit2238]

I've have no problem seeing ladies from 19 and up - even though I'm almost 30 year there elder.

 

[IM469]

I have to ask why you keep saying "older fatter" and "young fit".... as if they are synonymous. I know plenty of young ladies who are way overweight.. .and plenty of fit healthy hot milfs ... just sayin'

They are meant as individual qualifiers as in young & fit; older & fatter for exactly the reason you point out. I am not attracted to young & fat, I'm attracted to young & fit. It wasn't just milf's the old guys seem to be attracted but older & fatter milfs. BTW: I also am also attracted to milfs that are fit.

 

[InPursuit]

after listening to all your comments I dont feel as guilty as i did. But now I feel stupid because Ive just blown a hundred bucks and didn't even get, well, just blown. :crazy:

Go back and see her again! This time go through the appointment and enjoy yourself! I am in my early 40's and recently met with a 24 year old, she is very smart and intelligent, nothing serious just good old fashioned fun! She tells me that, I am a very good lover, and that she does not get the same satisfaction when she was dating someone her age! So it is all in your mind, and depends on what and how you feel about yourself. However, when it would come to a serious relationship I would consider someone within 8 to 5 years within my age. So it all depends on what our goal or situation is.

 

[chixcy]

I can definitely see where you're coming from. I've had a few older clients who felt awkward and they tried extra hard "dumb down" the conversation with Jersey Shore topics lol.

And to answer your question, forget what other people think "what is weird". It's your money, so you decide how you want to spend it!

I personally prefer older clients (45+), because I find that clients under 35 tend to be (not always) slightly obnoxious in conversation, and usually want to act out their favourite porn scene in the roughest way possible... sorry guys, not all girls can handle extreme rough play! Sometimes I have to go home early because a young client (20ish) was waaaay too rough



x Ember

i agree

 

[luv2fress]

I think older guys come to realize that the mental connection is really important, even if it is only for a half hour. The older I get, the harder it is to have this type of connection with a 19 year old. As far a sex goes, there is no substitute for experience, and the openness that develops from most women as they grow in age.

 

[The Old Fart]

I have turned 60, but am told consistently that I look in my 40s. I find that I connect well with mid-late 20s SPs or MPAs, even though my 2 kids are 30 and 35, and I have 2 grandchildren! It feels weird sometimes, but I have a high sex-drive and I manage to work with the age difference! Going with an 18 to 20 y.o. might be pushing it though! You might be amazed at how many 20/30 somethings prefer being with an older man! A father figure perhaps?

 

[kmwq]

I tried a session with an older SP, mid 40s, because I was feeling a little weird with the 20 somethings. Now I have to say this mid 40s SP was a great looker for her age and the service was outstanding. However, my brain still tells me to look for the 20 somethings because I am very visual and I find them more visually pleasing, no offense to the older SPs I just find the younger ones hotter.

 

[explorerzip]

I guess if you're in public with an SP and there's a big age difference then you might risk some 'gold digger' type comments.

 

[tearstmyeyes]

I don't know why some guys get a guilty feeling when a young lady is in the same age range as his daughter....unless he also feels guilty if the woman is in the same age range as his sister.

 

[explorerzip]

I don't know why some guys get a guilty feeling when a young lady is in the same age range as his daughter....unless he also feels guilty if the woman is in the same age range as his sister.

In most places, sleeping with a really young girl can land you in jail for being a paedophile.

 

[tearstmyeyes]

I said young lady...not child...obviously my post was in the context of this thread

 

[explorerzip]

Don't know what the cut off is, but there are young ladies that can pass for children. Not to mention that children are hitting puberty a lot sooner than before. So that 18 year old girl you found on BP, could easily be 14. That might be behind the guilty feelings some guys have. Who knows really.

 

[nobody123]

I think older guys come to realize that the mental connection is really important, even if it is only for a half hour. The older I get, the harder it is to have this type of connection with a 19 year old. As far a sex goes, there is no substitute for experience, and the openness that develops from most women as they grow in age.

Different strokes, I suppose. When I pay for sex, I'm not looking for a soul mate, or even a particularly entertaining conversationalist. I'm looking to get my rocks off. I'm not an asshole about it - I'm clean, I don't haggle, I treat women with respect. Be that as it may, I couldn't care less about the mental connection.

 

[AndyQuest]

I just recently started seeing a younger SP....she's in her 40's and for me, that's younger. She looks like she's in her 20's and makes me feel like I'm in my 20's too. As a bonus, I instantly got that mental connection which is crucial to me. I think it's all about how you perceive it in your head...no pun intended. I was with a 20ish years old about 5 years ago and although she was younger than my two daughters, I honestly can say, I never made the connection between her age and my daughter's age. She was just a sweet girl that I was seeing, nothing more. It didn't last because we didn't have that connection that I need but it probably wasn't a matter of her age than it was of personality.

 

[eldoguy]

When the young girls stop accepting my money! I know then mental connection is not there.:eyebrows:!

 

[nondescriptive]

It's all natural, primal instincts, as males we seek out the young attractive females with the "child bearing hips" in order to propogate the human race, these females look towards the males for survival- back in the stone age days, it was the physically strongest male who could hunt and bring back food for her,these days its the males with the biggest wallet, lol.

I am an older hobbyist, I have no qualms whatsoever in seeing younger escorts in their 20's.

 

[Celticman]

Older men should not see younger SP's on principle. Younger men should avoid SP's and concentrate on civilians.

Leave them all to me, I am tired of the hottest girls already being booked when I call.

Just a question. Do you see escorts? I do not recall any specific mention of it or a review since I have been on the board.