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Overly Obese Client!!! SP's let them know your preferences..

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VanessaGreen

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I'm not sure if this should be considered a public service announcement or if this is even acceptable as a thread but an SP should no be subjected to these types of clients.

Today I had a client calling to book an hr with me. He sounded like a very nice gentlemen over the phone so I gave him the directions. Now I usually look on the lobby channel for security reasons, this time I didn't. When he came to the door he was Overly Obese. Now, I have dealt with many over weight clients before and I do not discriminate for any reason but this guy had trouble fitting himself through my door. I do have preferences and this just went against everything I stand for. This has just made me be even more cautious (then I already am) booking appointments, so now I will definatly make sure to ASK.

The worst part is yet to come. I went to use the washroom and when I came back Steve had gotten undressed and the smell of his genitals had filled the air in the whole room! Not only did I feel sorry for him but I felt sorry for myself because what do I do or say in a case like this!? I am a very caring and warm-hearted person but wtf!!! If I had to estimate his weight I would say a minimum 500 pounds. His weight was very disturbing to me because at this point it is "impossible" to clean yourself properly at this size. With that being said how could you ever expect a SP to perform BBBJ or ANY services for that matter when "down there" smells absolutly atrocious!!!

Moving forward he had told me that he had showered before he came which I don't even know how that is possible but regardless I had gotten him a cloth with lots of soap and water to clean himself with. He did not get up off the bed to clean all areas and couldn't reach his bum to clean that area either. I had rinsed out the cloth several times for him to make sure his was getting everything but it wasn't working and I could still smell poo, a strong stench of pee and stale cheese. I did not provide any of my GFE service and I had explained to him WHY I couldn't.

Not only did I have to suject myself to the disgusting smell but I had to baby him, clean his ass and litterally tell him that he smelt stink! I can't imagine how embarrassing it is to hear that you smell bad to the point of no returen but I think if it was that embarrassing he would have made sure he was 100% clean. He had left the money but either way I was taking it due to the half hr I had spent cleaning up after him and having to throw every partical he was on in the wash.

My heart goes out to any SP that has been put in this very same position. All I can say is that it's made me much wiser when it comes to booking clients. As of now I have my windows blasted open and all the sheets that were used are now in the WASHER MACHINE! I don't EVER want to be put in this predicament again and I can honestly say that was the worst experience I have ever had with a client for the first and the very last time, thank you, and ladies be cautious.

 
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GPIDEAL

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Vanessa, at least you didn't kick him out and made a (valiant) effort to try.

Assuming the absence of smell, say you played with yourself while he watched. Do you think he was able to masturbate? Just suggesting that that might have been just as gratifying to him.

P.S. You meant 'obese' I take it.
 

Zombie

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That does not sound enjoyable for anyone involved. What's a guy to do of that size though? Why couldn't he take a shower instead?
 

EldrickWoods

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I"m sure he feels awful as well. Maybe it's time he spent money on lap band surgery instead of SP's. We have the technology no need to live like that.
 

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Speaking as a 'obese' man myself, albeit a couple hundred pounds less than the OP's client, I have to say I'm on her side. She is not a personal care worker or a nurse. If this unfortunate man's obesity problems impede his ability to maintain any tolerable level of hygiene, the lady should not have to suffer the fallout. But once the clothes come off and she is handling his personal areas with a soapy washcloth, she is in fact providing a GFE type of service and more. It's only fair to expect payment for her time. Vanessa, I compliment you on handling a difficult situation as best you could. You are a class act.

P.S. I hope your use of the word 'obeast' in place of the correct word 'obese' was an error in spelling and not some kind of cheap shot. That in itself would be unfair.
 

Ladyraven

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as I said in the other thread......
she bathed this man.. I very much dought that is a regular menu item.. so yes she deserved the money.. as well she still after that had to put up with a smell that will not soon leave the room.. so for expence in getting rid of the smell off of everything . she deserved the money. I think kthat if she would have turned him away and "explained " to him why . no matter how polite she was , she would have hurt his feeling .. so being the kind and caring person she is she made the best of it.. for that she deserves the money.
she went above and beyond .. for the she deserves the money..
big hugs to you Vanessa...
 

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After reading this, I feel sorry for the guy. But in our society when you can't tell somebody that they are just plain overweight and fat, then I guess he is entitled to doing anything he wants. 500lbs is overweight, obese, fat, etc. I think Vanessa handled it well, and even beyond what she should have done. Most SP's don't discriminate, but what is a girl to do? I would have just kicked him out in the first place.
 

MojoRisin'

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Im also guessing that this is the first time she may have come across a situation like this. It is an awkward and sensitive situation to have to deal with as a professional. Id be willing to guess this was a learning experience for her and she wanted to share it with others. She may do some things differently if it happened again maybe not. Hell maybe the dude was ok with what he got. Maybe he hasnt been that clean in ages. Maybe he got a a great deal in his mind. I full body bath and a release. Sounds good to me
 

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I think you deserve a medal for what you did. Well done Vanessa, now, let me put on another 275lbs and I will call you for a Sponge bath......

I have no idea how you kept so calm, I know it is not easy telling someone they have Bad Breath, but that must have been horrendous.....
 

VanessaGreen

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I think you deserve a medal for what you did. Well done Vanessa, now, let me put on another 275lbs and I will call you for a Sponge bath......

I have no idea how you kept so calm, I know it is not easy telling someone they have Bad Breath, but that must have been horrendous.....
LOL!!!! Very funny thanks for bringing in some humor to the situation. It was bad real bad and I don't want to begin to wonder how long the dirties was sitting there for cause with the way it smelt....a very long time :(
 

d_jedi

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I wonder when we'll read his review..
 
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