Overweight and sexually activity

dchoye

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I been on the fitness journey to lose my belly and I notice that when my waistline was ar the heavier side I was more sexually active.
When I trimmed down, I was not as sexually active
Do feel there is a correlation for you ? Or totally opposite? Or no difference?
 

xix

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Funny me and friends yesterday were together and spoke of this.

Cortisol, Adrenal, testosterone and ketos are the main driving force, once all are balanced no matter how big or small ( thin) you are, you will be more healthy downstairs.
For some loosing mass will increase hardness and durability.

To bad we don't have a a device like a Star Trek Tricoder to tell us what out balance is every morning.

But the guy / friend mention to use the ...
A "diabetic sensor on the arm" is a Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM), a device with a small sensor inserted under the skin, typically on the back of the upper arm, to continuously measure glucose levels in interstitial fluid
as soon as you eat it will tell you where your scale / results are.

But make sure you don't have a subscription type of device, there are free. You don't want insurance companies getting their hands on this data about you down the road and not pay you.
 

LTO_3

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Funny me and friends yesterday were together and spoke of this.

Cortisol, Adrenal, testosterone and ketos are the main driving force, once all are balanced no matter how big or small ( thin) you are, you will be more healthy downstairs.
For some loosing mass will increase hardness and durability.

To bad we don't have a a device like a Star Trek Tricoder to tell us what out balance is every morning.

But the guy / friend mention to use the ...
A "diabetic sensor on the arm" is a Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM), a device with a small sensor inserted under the skin, typically on the back of the upper arm, to continuously measure glucose levels in interstitial fluid
as soon as you eat it will tell you where your scale / results are.

But make sure you don't have a subscription type of device, there are free. You don't want insurance companies getting their hands on this data about you down the road and not pay you.
Speaking from experience a CGM for the average person is useless since the rise in blood sugars are fairly limited compared to a diabetic. And for weight loss purposes also not relevant.

LTO_3
 
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lunaseraphim

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It could have to do with depression or a different state of mind than usual.. A lot of people gain weight when they're depressed or going through a rough time, and often that comes with a decrease in sex drive because they feel less confident and they have less energy overall. But for others, it's the opposite.. Some people overcompensate when they're having a hard time, they have a lot of sex, they may gamble, drink more alcohol and eat compulsively. Maybe you're just feeling more ''neutral''..
 
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xix

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It could have to do with depression or a different state of mind than usual.. A lot of people gain weight when they're depressed or going through a rough time, and often that comes with a decrease in sex drive because they feel less confident and they have less energy overall. But for others, it's the opposite.. Some people overcompensate when they're having a hard time, they have a lot of sex, they may gamble, drink more alcohol and eat compulsively. Maybe you're just feeling more ''neutral''..
You are right. But it makes me wonder which of the two groups gets sick faster that you mentioned.
There are other factors which I didn't want to mention but....

Karma (Spirituality)
Astrology
Mindset
 

lunaseraphim

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You are right. But it makes me wonder which of the two groups gets sick faster that you mentioned.
There are other factors which I didn't want to mention but....

Karma (Spirituality)
Astrology
Mindset
I'm an astrologer and I don't personally believe in it affecting someone's physical disposition.. However, many would disagree. I'm curious why you think karma would lower one's sex drive once they lose weight. Most of the time when I hear about karma it's the western new age understanding of it so I am not extremely familiar with it as a more complex concept, and the new age version isn't something I really believe in, or that I'm at least very cautious about bringing up.. but I'm trying to understand the logic behind this

I don't think being overweight or fat means you're unhealthy, necessarily. Some people are just naturally bigger and that's it. But obviously if this is happening due to constant and compulsive overeating, it's not going to be good for the person's health.. Even someone who's skinny who's overeating might have cholesterol issues, etc.
 
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It's the calorie deficit that does it.

When you achieve your desired weight and start to eat "normally" again you'll be better than ever.
 

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It's the calorie deficit that does it.

When you achieve your desired weight and start to eat "normally" again you'll be better than ever.
Oh yeah that makes a lot of sense. I used to have an eating disorder when I was younger, I didn't have my period for many years and I had 0 sex drive.. There are ways of losing weight that are not healthy. The media advertises all these crash diets, but it can actually damage your health
 
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I'm approaching 50. While I'm still a 'big guy' losing a couple / few belt notches, reducing stress, improving my diet, and insisting on regular (low impact) physical activity really helped my dick out a great deal. While I can't say my dick works like it did in my teens, 20s, or 30s I'm back to being able to get good wood for one shot anyway, and sometimes even a second one in an hour.
 

xix

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I'm an astrologer and I don't personally believe in it affecting someone's physical disposition.. However, many would disagree. I'm curious why you think karma would lower one's sex drive once they lose weight. Most of the time when I hear about karma it's the western new age understanding of it so I am not extremely familiar with it as a more complex concept, and the new age version isn't something I really believe in, or that I'm at least very cautious about bringing up.. but I'm trying to understand the logic behind this

I don't think being overweight or fat means you're unhealthy, necessarily. Some people are just naturally bigger and that's it. But obviously if this is happening due to constant and compulsive overeating, it's not going to be good for the person's health.. Even someone who's skinny who's overeating might have cholesterol issues, etc.
So ever hear of the 80/20 rule? or 60/40? so if most people get hornier when loosing weight 80% of people - which I believe - and the other 20 % don't get hornier or have an erection and medical diagnosis says there is nothing wrong, then several things are at play here - Karma / Energy.
Karma - past life issue ( it could be many things I am not listing) which is cause and effect from previous life issue and is here now.
Karma - something happened / trigger / trauma now in this life. Hence the issue is now which may have been a probation from previous life. Be good or else...
Karma - shit happens, where the individual lived now, ( the ground may have been unbalanced ) health condition or operation not aware or forgot that happened to a person, medication, diabetes ? and so on.
Karma - what was said in early life or said in the past life. is here now something trigger it.

There are more which I won't list but this is what I found from talking to some "spiritualist".
I had NDE when young and my meditations are way out there.

Now a person can be fat/thin, tall /short and still get horny and have a hard on like a rabbit, there are few who are the opposite.

"new age version isn't something I really believe in," you have to give me a link for me to see what they are saying / mean.

Now there are many modalities which I am not kicking anyone down. Some to me are white wash bs. But an individual has to find the one that is close to them, and it could be many believe it or not. Then heal from it.

Astrology, ( Chinese ) ; Feng shui, Karma and many others are not wrong but it is the person to learn to interpret them.
 
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