Pick up success and failure
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Is that what are doing - teaching??? Or are we as ladies, simply expressing what works for us????
OMG ! :Eek:
It's a date - not a 6 month tournament chess game. 'Don't call her ... wait one week ... 'don't give them your number' (aka: let them crawl to you) .... who needs a script to talk to a fellow human being ? I think some of you guys are way over thinking a simple social interaction. If you are talking with her and have a desire to meet again socially - ask her. If she is interested, her response and body language will be clear.
BTW: If she finds you boring and/or ugly and/or a social pariah - reading a script isn't going to change her opinion.
You managed not to reveal where you were going to school or work until after 3 fucking months? Maybe when you're young and without a care in the world, but I can't see non-disclosure of any help. I don't necessarily mean to reveal the exact location or company, but what you do or where in a general sense is okay.
You can be honest and still charm them by being adventurous, romantic and even a little mischievous.
Anyone who thinks being a workaholic that goes at it 16hrs a day is a good thing, is indeed a sucker, and contrary to what you stated, not every sucker doing it turns himself into an independently wealthy individual. That's just what they tell themselves to justify being a sucker. Ever heard of 'work smart, not hard'?
I have no 'friends' online. It's the internet, not reality dude. If you think YOU do, I suggest you re-assess. IMO honesty is the best policy. Sorry that my brutal honesty didn't support your 'work philosophy'. Take it from someone who knows - work smarter, not harder. You'll go farther, faster.
You can be straightforward and cut the "games" but this only works when the girl is interested in you from the start - and it doesn't take any effort to tell when someone likes you or not, if you're left wondering "does she like me?" or trying to rationalize her actions in your mind, chances are she doesn't like you.
If you keep texting her - and she keeps cancelling on you, you're forcing her to keep associating you with negative or awkward experiences, because she keeps saying "no" to you.
Trust me - at this point, you should just let it go dude. If she texts you later that's great - but don't keep on texting her, it's awkward, she doesn't even know you.
That's a great line btw lol. "can i have your fake number" lol...it's funny.
If that's the case, a quick text to say "it was great to meet you, I will text you on the weekend and hopefully we can get together" would suffice. The lady doesn't want to feel like an after thought. A text would be fine. A call is more formal but the timing has to be right; where when you send a text it can be replied to when convenient.
I do. I really do. And no, not free - you should receive your invoice in the mail in 7-10 business days. You're welcome.
hemingwayz,
My advice is free. While I generally find demien2k5 amusing, he is completely unable to let anyone else have the last word. Carry on.
My advice is free. While I generally find demien2k5 amusing, he is completely unable to let anyone else have the last word. Carry on.
Trouble with dating is that you are test driving to see if it is possible this thing might work. If you figure out it doesn't, it is still difficult to get out.
Also too many hidden agendas... previous mates who didn't act so nice, economic security, etc. Funny, I found you could really tell by body language. If that kiss ain't full out, either they don't know how - or they may be a hidden agenda.
Despite this, it is nice to give someone a chance.
However, my last one... dated for a year.... decided she was good, but not "the one". She was really pressuring to move things along. I decided she was fine as a date, but nothing more. Lucky I wasn't killed when I got out.
Through all this crap, there have only been two women ever that I have been totally in love with.
Wasn't there some Western movie where a guy is telling a kid never to trust women and dogs. If you get attached to woman, it won't work it out...... and the dogs don't live very long. Yeah it's dumb but you know what I mean.
Just resigned to seeing SP's.
Also too many hidden agendas... previous mates who didn't act so nice, economic security, etc. Funny, I found you could really tell by body language. If that kiss ain't full out, either they don't know how - or they may be a hidden agenda.
Despite this, it is nice to give someone a chance.
However, my last one... dated for a year.... decided she was good, but not "the one". She was really pressuring to move things along. I decided she was fine as a date, but nothing more. Lucky I wasn't killed when I got out.
Through all this crap, there have only been two women ever that I have been totally in love with.
Wasn't there some Western movie where a guy is telling a kid never to trust women and dogs. If you get attached to woman, it won't work it out...... and the dogs don't live very long. Yeah it's dumb but you know what I mean.
Just resigned to seeing SP's.
The best and easiest pick ups are when the women initiate conversation.
In this case where she has given you her number, she has expressed some desire to meet again. Sine she was busy several times she may be busy or changes her mind. Put the ball in her court, tell her that you would like to see her again and tell her to e-mail you when she has some free time.
In this case where she has given you her number, she has expressed some desire to meet again. Sine she was busy several times she may be busy or changes her mind. Put the ball in her court, tell her that you would like to see her again and tell her to e-mail you when she has some free time.
