Some clients don't like women and hate those who have the upper hand, don't let them determine how you conduct your business.
Police release images of suspect in assault and robbery of sex worker
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Most "good" clients have seen many ladies, which mean plenty of potential references, hence screening process is seldom an issue, if you are serious in the hobby
if someone is bitching about your screening process, it is probably better you don't see him at all
if someone is bitching about your screening process, it is probably better you don't see him at all
Unfortunately, there are some younger or less experienced ladies who ignore screening processes for fear of losing business. To them, I'll urge, please do take every precaution to protect yourselves. It is better safe than sorry - your lives and safety are worth a lot more than money.I am constantly seeing TERB feeds that bash girls (including myself) for screening processes and finally here is the proof of why we do screen and need references. I know I am going to get backlash for saying this but I think I am used to it by now. Seriously this is why we need to screen and keep ourselves safe!
I understand the need for screening in terms of references or a public meeting, but not in terms of giving a real full name and work number. Mostly I just bitch about archaic laws that make the practice mandatory for the safety of SPs.I am constantly seeing TERB feeds that bash girls (including myself) for screening processes and finally here is the proof of why we do screen and need references. I know I am going to get backlash for saying this but I think I am used to it by now. Seriously this is why we need to screen and keep ourselves safe!
I wish we knew the full story about what happened in this case.
I don't mind screening if it's providing a reference, but there are SP's who ask for real names, work information, company links, home address and that is where I draw the line, and so should every hobbyist. Also there are a few SP's who do not accept certain SP's references due to many different reasons
Does it mean that some one like me who hobbies very safely and is a good client, respectful, shows up on time, never cancels will never see certain reputable SP's? Yes but it also means those SP's do not get to see me either which is totally fine by me and I have accepted that and that is why I don't contact any SP's who ask for such information. The SP's who ask for such information should be ok with not seeing me either and SP's trying to make hobbyist understand in post after post on why screening is needed will never change someone's mind who doesn't feel comfortable providing such information.
Personal information such as real name and work information should never be an option by any hobbyist to see SP's. Respect your time and privacy, black mail does happen in this industry and almost never gets reported by hobbyists due to many different reasons. The two sisters that were recently in the news in for blackmailing a Nigerian billionaire blackmailed many men in Toronto, but none of men went to the police to report it. So be careful with your personal information while hobbying.
No one knows the full story of what happened with the assault and robbery and we should not assume that the client was not screened, all I know is that is Delta Chelsea hotel at Yonge and Gerrard and a lot of indy SP's who screen often work out of that hotel.
With all that I said I don't think the ladies who screen need to provide their reasoning why screening is needed they just need to move on, and I also don't think hobbyist who do not want to provide such information need to explain as why not, both parties should just move on.
Does it mean that some one like me who hobbies very safely and is a good client, respectful, shows up on time, never cancels will never see certain reputable SP's? Yes but it also means those SP's do not get to see me either which is totally fine by me and I have accepted that and that is why I don't contact any SP's who ask for such information. The SP's who ask for such information should be ok with not seeing me either and SP's trying to make hobbyist understand in post after post on why screening is needed will never change someone's mind who doesn't feel comfortable providing such information.
Personal information such as real name and work information should never be an option by any hobbyist to see SP's. Respect your time and privacy, black mail does happen in this industry and almost never gets reported by hobbyists due to many different reasons. The two sisters that were recently in the news in for blackmailing a Nigerian billionaire blackmailed many men in Toronto, but none of men went to the police to report it. So be careful with your personal information while hobbying.
No one knows the full story of what happened with the assault and robbery and we should not assume that the client was not screened, all I know is that is Delta Chelsea hotel at Yonge and Gerrard and a lot of indy SP's who screen often work out of that hotel.
With all that I said I don't think the ladies who screen need to provide their reasoning why screening is needed they just need to move on, and I also don't think hobbyist who do not want to provide such information need to explain as why not, both parties should just move on.
Over the past couple days, I've connected the dots with regards to this case. I have a strong hunch as to the SP is, but I do not want to share my hunch publicly (Two reasons - I could be wrong, and; I would want permission from the SP). I'll just say a few thing about her, without getting too specific.
If the SP is the person I'm thinking about, she's a high-volume SP who lacks a screening process. She's relatively new to the industry, and only advertises on BP (though she does lurk on the review boards). I booked an appointment with her a couple weeks ago, and I immediately offered to provide a reference, but she opted to bypass it. If she's reading this, I hope she starts to implement a reference policy for new clients. Yes, requiring references will slow business down, at least in the near future. But you shouldn't have to compromise your health, safety, and well-being just to make a buck.
If the SP is the person I'm thinking about, she's a high-volume SP who lacks a screening process. She's relatively new to the industry, and only advertises on BP (though she does lurk on the review boards). I booked an appointment with her a couple weeks ago, and I immediately offered to provide a reference, but she opted to bypass it. If she's reading this, I hope she starts to implement a reference policy for new clients. Yes, requiring references will slow business down, at least in the near future. But you shouldn't have to compromise your health, safety, and well-being just to make a buck.
Over the past couple days, I've connected the dots with regards to this case. I have a strong hunch as to the SP is, but I do not want to share my hunch publicly (Two reasons - I could be wrong, and; I would want permission from the SP). I'll just say a few thing about her, without getting too specific.
If the SP is the person I'm thinking about, she's a high-volume SP who lacks a screening process. She's relatively new to the industry, and only advertises on BP (though she does lurk on the review boards). I booked an appointment with her a couple weeks ago, and I immediately offered to provide a reference, but she opted to bypass it. If she's reading this, I hope she starts to implement a reference policy for new clients. Yes, requiring references will slow business down, at least in the near future. But you shouldn't have to compromise your health, safety, and well-being just to make a buck.
I was thinking about a certain lady myself. I've reached out to her and i'll see what she has to say.
Very sad and I hope she gets well soon.
This robbery gone bad murder is just the tip of the iceberg. It is a crime infested area (and I am not referring to Harper's bullshit C-36 "crimes").Lol that's a bad area!
Yonge and Gerrand
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/mark-ernsting-stabbing-yonge-gerrard-1.3367067
That is a really bad area.
That robbery was over a year ago.This robbery gone bad murder is just the tip of the iceberg. It is a crime infested area (and I am not referring to Harper's bullshit C-36 "crimes").
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/mark-ernsting-stabbing-yonge-gerrard-1.3367067
Where the Delta Chelsea is there are a lot of busy restaurants, a very new tall skyscraper and lots of people that are in that area day and night. You really need to get out a little.
That is just one of many examples. Assaults, robberies, muggings, women getting kidnapped, illegal drugs, up to and including murder.That robbery was over a year ago.
http://www.torontosun.com/2016/11/29/man-sought-in-armed-sex-assault-near-yonge-gerrard
Women, be careful out there and in your home.
http://www.cp24.com/news/two-men-ar...d-abduction-of-young-woman-downtown-1.3228725
http://www.cp24.com/news/two-men-ar...d-abduction-of-young-woman-downtown-1.3228725
Women, be careful out there and in your home.
http://www.cp24.com/news/two-men-ar...d-abduction-of-young-woman-downtown-1.3228725
Any reason why you keep posting articles about Black criminals in a thread about a White rapist/robber? Come on man!!
I think we all want the ladies to be safe and don't give a damn whether the criminal(s) are black, white, green, purple, etc.Any reason why you keep posting articles about Black criminals in a thread about a White rapist/robber? Come on man!!
P.S. http://www.630ched.com/syn/60/209407/209407
