Poll - Best course of action if you fall for an SP

[Toguy54]

Even though most guys know intellectually the ladies are just being professionally nice, every once in a while you encounter someone you seem to connect with at a deeper level. It might begin with them sharing information about their lives outside the SP world or it might be emails being sent to you after your visits that lead you to believe there might be more.

So if you think you're falling for an SP, what's the best thing to do about it?

 

[ig-88]

think long and hard about it

does she feel the same way about you?

 

[elassowipo1]

Freeze your bank account

 

[fuji]

Need to be able to multi-select. The best option is:

Let her know how you feel AND stop seeing her.

It's OK to tell an SP you're interested but don't become a stalker, and don't let her use your feelings to suck money out of you. Once you've said you like her it'll be weird for her if you keep visiting as a client and SHOULD be weird for you too.

Once you've asked her out no more business relationship, she has to become a "normal" girl for you at that moment--and if she isn't interested in you move on. Yeah she might reject you--so might ANY woman you ask out. Deal with it.

 

[danmand]

You forgot the option: Marry her.

 

[anon1]

Marry her.

Marrying every industry girl I've fallen for would mean becoming a Morman.

 

[tboy]

Pay for their school and buy them a house! Kidding hun!!

That sounds kinda sweet. Is their no romance allowed in this biz? Or am I being silly?

There is romance, but it is a no way street. I have met a few that I have felt this way and even one indicated she wanted to see me after she retired, then never responded to any emails, even one I sent for her birthday.

As Genie has so eloquently put it: Most ladies put on an "act" or become a different character for our encounters so whatever goes on, is it real? I don't think so.

Then from the lady's perspective is he just saying all that to get "it" for free?

But there are threads and threads on this topic so I don't want to hijack this one.

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

There is romance, but it is a no way street. I have met a few that I have felt this way and even one indicated she wanted to see me after she retired, then never responded to any emails, even one I sent for her birthday.

As Genie has so eloquently put it: Most ladies put on an "act" or become a different character for our encounters so whatever goes on, is it real? I don't think so.

Then from the lady's perspective is he just saying all that to get "it" for free? But there are threads and threads on this topic so I don't want to hijack this one.

Been there, done that and in the end, all but one have simply wanted it for free.

 

[eldoguy]

One way to find out if she will quit the business, to be with you?

 

[shack]

Just give her all your money.

 

[333conan]

I had it bad for a dancer, so to get over her I had to betray her trust. Once I did that I knew there was never any chance of anything happening between us. Don't worry, I didn't do anything bad to her, but it was enough for her not to trust me anymore.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

Gimme all your money for safe keeping.

 

[Ashley Dupree]

run away. it is bad idea. to many motive for customer and escort. free sex for customer and escort may try to get $$. that screw up chance for relationship. plus any reson why escort inbusiness they want her to quit for there own reason and she resent him. keep feeling in check. if you like someone so much stop see her and move on. this isnt place to find relationship. i think we get attach to each other cause of intimacy. this is what sp do and the good one make it like it real.

 

[winstar]

Yep, most posters here are correct. Do one or the other, but not both. The best advice is to walk away. Not that these girls aren't deserving of love, but their choice of vocation seriously compromises any chance for an intimate, truthful relationship.

There may be some who say it can be done, but you'd have to ask both individuals whether they are satisfied or not. If they say they are, then that's good for them, but I wouldn't play the odds on this one.

 

[BallzDeep]

For me, as soon as the envelope is handed over and accepted, no feelings whatsoever. Doesn't matter how good the session is, how nice she is, or how beautiful she is.

 

[Ladyraven]

I stopped seeing a client because he said he was falling for me..

 

[scarlet6969]

run away. it is bad idea. to many motive for customer and escort. free sex for customer and escort may try to get $$. that screw up chance for relationship. plus any reson why escort inbusiness they want her to quit for there own reason and she resent him. keep feeling in check. if you like someone so much stop see her and move on. this isnt place to find relationship. i think we get attach to each other cause of intimacy. this is what sp do and the good one make it like it real.

exactly greatly put we sell fantasy that thats all it ever is

 

[Bear669]

Right on Bro!

Marrying every industry girl I've fallen for would mean becoming a Morman.

Actually, fuck the Mormons. I'm just an old fashioned pagan.

(You still have the best sig pic)

 

[Jade4u]

The odds are not going to be that she likes you back in the same manner that you like her. It is entirely up to you if you wish to tell her that you like her. I have had several in my day tell me how they feel and in the end I got rid of them entirely. On the other hand I had a man for those same number of years that I did feel the same way back for and kept him. If her feelings are the same for you than..... You have a chance, but if not you will likely lose the chance to see her ever again in the process. The choice is yours.

The man I was with I would have given up the business for gone anywhere or done anything for him. If you wish to take the chance that you are the one for her and risk losing her altogether than go for it.

 

[Jade4u]

exactly greatly put we sell fantasy that thats all it ever is

You never met that ONE YET that you would go all those extra miles with, but refused to go those extra miles doing with him what you would do with NO other, but refused to do with him until you knew he felt the same way.

It does happen occasionally. We are all humans and people can meet and many different places and under different circumstances.

But, I do agree the odds are not in his favour that she will feel the same way about him.