I wanted to ask you men why you go to an SP...is it because they have the image of being better lovers? or, is it for a quick fix? It is considered one of the oldest professions in the world...but since I am working on a paper, the conditions that must be met in order for an occupation to be considered a 'profession' are as follows: a person must go through a lot of training, education, exams to achieve designation; a person must belong to an organization that governs the behaviour of its members; a true professional is never hired, and a professional has knowledge not available to the general public. Sorry for the technicality, but I posed this question for part of my research. I am NOT interested in hearing about why all the other occupations ARE professions, I am just going by what is in the material provided.
Professional SP?
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There are many reasons.
Here are a few:
- Some do it because they suck at getting girls.
- Paying an escort may make more financial sense when you look at the cost of picking up a girl and dumping all kinds of cash into dinners and dates for something that isnt even garaunteed.
- Opportunity to live out a fantasy
- Hassle free variety
- Sex life at home with the SO is lacking (or perhaps non-existent)
- Safer than having an affair...the "business" aspect of it removes the "right to recourse"
Here are a few:
- Some do it because they suck at getting girls.
- Paying an escort may make more financial sense when you look at the cost of picking up a girl and dumping all kinds of cash into dinners and dates for something that isnt even garaunteed.
- Opportunity to live out a fantasy
- Hassle free variety
- Sex life at home with the SO is lacking (or perhaps non-existent)
- Safer than having an affair...the "business" aspect of it removes the "right to recourse"
Pro SP/Courtesan Means
In adult industry where a lady offers sexual services to gentleman after charging a tribute/gift/donation is known as Professional, but if your GF/Spouse/Female Friend who shares bed with you with mutual conscent does't come under the category of Professional SP. But if you are on a date with an SP then the word Professional is edxcluded- & the lady is termed as Friend, these are some courteous words used by gentry in our so-called high end people who are the biggest back stabbers also with their double standards.KoreanBabe said:
In addition to Mongrel4u's list I’d add:
Those who are still recovering from either divorce or the death of their wife and know they aren't yet ready emotionally (and perhaps for other reasons) to date again. But they do occasionally want some sexual activity and the myth of affection from an attractive woman in their lives.
Those who are still recovering from either divorce or the death of their wife and know they aren't yet ready emotionally (and perhaps for other reasons) to date again. But they do occasionally want some sexual activity and the myth of affection from an attractive woman in their lives.
I agree with this analysis and I would like to stress the comment "..myth of affection.." Gents, that is all that it is - a myth, a false belief that the girl likes being with you. The real truth is she does not give a shit about you, only your money. I strongly suggest if you are recovering from a divorce or death of a loved one not to hobby - it will only make you feel worse after the sp leaves. It is all about the money for these girls - if you are looking for real affection, seek companionship elsewhere.Aardvark154 said:
petitelover said:Come now, what is it about then?
Well she did say.. "not only about the money"
Of course money is the biggest driving factor but I'm sure there are also other small factors in the mix somewhere......like shes a sexaholic....enjoys meeting new people... who knows; could be anything
Well it's certainly about money in one sense, however, the best GFE type SPs do have (genuinely) nice personalities. Therefore I'm not necessarily sure about feeling worse, provided you have your emotions under reasonable control.petitelover said:
I don't SP. Other than this criteria. Places with Legalized SP & licenced GTA MPAs meet the requirements.KoreanBabe said:
MPAs for the companionship & fantasy. Unlike relationship, less strings attached.
The problem is that you are working on the wrong paper. Your topic should be "Who Came Up With This Ridiculous And Arbitrary Criteria For Qualifying As A Professional?"KoreanBabe said:
Being a profession or a professional is not always about clearing a checklist. Sometimes it is what is. You know a professional when you see one, simple as that.
Many of the conditions you listed there are as much mechanisms of social casting and classification as true benchmarks for determining a profession.
Prostitution is still somewhat taboo, it's very existence as an institution is still not fully acknowledged and many elements of the business are illegal. With all of those barriers, how can there possibly formal training, education or certification.
Of course, not everyone who works in a profession is a professional. Somebody who runs a classified ad and has an incall for 5 months is not necessarily a professional.
On the other hand, not all prostitutes are found in adult directories or on the sidewalk. I know of women who've never negotiated an honest intimacy-for-cash deal, but I consider them professional prostitutes because of the expert and systematic way they use sex and companionship as a commodity in the service of their financial or social ambitions.
So prostitution is a combination of a profession, a condition, and a life skill.
The question you asked of the board is too general. Most customers are not doing the bulk of their hobbying with professional prostitutes - they are seeing individuals who are making a living in this business during a transitional phase of their life. You should focus on those customers who do a significant portion of their business with Career SP's, those who operate like a high end freelance designer, lawyer or consultant, and charge similar fees.
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What is your job "all about"? Could it be it's about more than one thing? So is being an escort. Otherwise I'd be a counterfeiter. Suck it up...petitelover said:Come now, what is it about then?
Come now, what is it about then?
There is cetainly a population of the SP community that is strictly about the money and it is pretty obvious with the "rushed encounter girls" . On the other hand there are SP's who are truly enjoying getting "paid to get laid ." They like being told "your beautiful, your awesome , your terirific , WOW " and who wouldn't . You also know these woman because they get into your time together and remember details from your previous encounter which really seals the deal .
What would you rather do 1) Sit at your desk day in and day out working on computer spreadsheets or 2) Sit at your desk and just by picking up the phone a woman shows up 30 minutes later to give you sex and a tip , Oh yeah and say " your so big ". (LOL). I'm good with option 2 which reflects an SP's work day. Unfortunately the only placed I'm fucked is on my pay cheque.
If it was just about the money then they would go the sugar daddy route but I think many of them have varied needs fulfilled by the business . IMHO
There is cetainly a population of the SP community that is strictly about the money and it is pretty obvious with the "rushed encounter girls" . On the other hand there are SP's who are truly enjoying getting "paid to get laid ." They like being told "your beautiful, your awesome , your terirific , WOW " and who wouldn't . You also know these woman because they get into your time together and remember details from your previous encounter which really seals the deal .
What would you rather do 1) Sit at your desk day in and day out working on computer spreadsheets or 2) Sit at your desk and just by picking up the phone a woman shows up 30 minutes later to give you sex and a tip , Oh yeah and say " your so big ". (LOL). I'm good with option 2 which reflects an SP's work day. Unfortunately the only placed I'm fucked is on my pay cheque.
If it was just about the money then they would go the sugar daddy route but I think many of them have varied needs fulfilled by the business . IMHO
KoreanBabe said:
Men go to SP's because we give them what the want/need and then we leave.
It is as simple as that.
they are professional in the same way the professional athletes are professionals.
I would prefer to think of them as a guild - they get on the job training and guidance from seasoned practitioners in the guild. the guilds secrets are kept within the guild.
I would prefer to think of them as a guild - they get on the job training and guidance from seasoned practitioners in the guild. the guilds secrets are kept within the guild.
Well of course it is about money, but as Madison pointed out, it needn't always be just about money. Same with doctors and lawyers. Some are assholes and couldn't give a shit about you. You are just a source of funds for them. Sure, they go through the motions, and act like they really care. But others enjoy your company, do care about you, and want to provide a service that will meet your needs. Would they provide the service for you if money were not involved. Of course not. They are professionals...they provide the service for money. Just like SPs.petitelover said:Come now, what is it about then?
This is a very effective statement for guys to keep things in perspective.petitelover said:
This is well put as there are always people in any profession who do care about the quality of their service and the peoople they perform their service for.questor said:
I wanted to thank you all for your responses. Yes, it is general but I did that on purpose. No two people react the same way to a question and we draw our own conclusions/interpretations from it. We are all unique and the responses have shown this. This wasn't meant to be a screaming match, but a thought provoking process. Any other thoughts/ideas are appreciated. Or, PM me with your comments. THANKS!
