Provider has an sig other ?

[Prelations2]

If you found out your regular MA or Provider etc had a significant other or was married , does that change the session for you?
Do you perform better (competitive) or longer?
Are you less interested?
Does it heighten the experience?


I’m a regular of this one lady and she mentioned she started dating this one gent and he doesn’t know what she does , and she sees him on weekends.

Our sessions have since become heightened and more intense and (I think) she’s cumming more and harder now w me. I’ve also started to see her on Fridays so I can “wish her a great weekend ha”

(Yes I know it’s a business and this could all be in my head and or her just making things more exciting. )

 

[IM469]

Call it a wild hunch on my part but I don't think this beautiful girl is providing services to find her sole mate. i don't ask and I don't care. It's all about the fantasy.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

In one case, an SP I see has a significant other. I found out that I don't care about that.....seeing her is still fun regardless.....

 

[barnacler]

In one case, an SP I see has a significant other. I found out that I don't care about that.....seeing her is still fun regardless.....

What I find just plain stupid is when she has an email that is a man's name, or

her pictures in her ad show they guy taking the picture in the mirror, and he looks like a low-down loser weasel that is probably waiting in the closet to rip you off.

 

[Mr Deeds]

More often than not the younger providers their significant other is usually a pimp, which is one of the reasons why I don't see providers under 35 years old. I will say though that in the past when I found out that a provider has a significant other I'll stop seeing them just kind of ruins the fantasy.

 

[leshdrec]

"Just seeing" someone I don't care. People have casual relationships in their 20s all the time.

If they were married I'd feel a bit awkward, a bit turned on, though can't imagine a SP under 30 yo being married tbh.

 

[massman]

Many providers I’ve seen have had SOs. Don’t care. (As long as I’m getting better sex than him !).

 

[oil&gas]

Many providers I’ve seen have had SOs. Don’t care. (As long as I’m getting better sex than him !).

Only if the SO has to conform to the same restrictions as wife's
clients like using a condom.

 

[John_Jacob]

Not really, I automatically assume they have boyfriends and the like.

 

[Prelations2]

Many providers I’ve seen have had SOs. Don’t care. (As long as I’m getting better sex than him !).

I find it to be a huge turn on and challenge like she’s screaming and cumming and maybe he can’t do the same for her or maybe she likes this kind of sex w me and relationship sex with her mate.

It’s also fun to shower and walk out and she gives me chocolates.

We usually smirk and say “gotta love Fridays.”

I think I’m making her weekend better but thats probably all in my head. Ha

 

[xmontrealer]

I couldn't care less about whether or not she has an SO.

I assume that sex with her SO may be better than our sex because of their mental and emotional connection, not to that mention he (or she) probably knows more about what she likes than I do.

For that matter I don't even think about the other clients she sees. I enjoy the session for what it is, and that's all that's important to me.