provider turn hobbyist

[DELETDrileydaniels]

So lately I have been visiting a male strip club. I have even gone as far as to take a few dancers in the VIP room. I am starting to question so much yea I am single and working as an escort doesn't leave much time for dating and if I was to date it does make things complicated, but now I am starting to question if I am hooked on this type of service.

This is probably something that isn't really talked about any where. I mean majority of what is talked about here is all from the male hobbyist perspective but we haven't really talked about what if we providers become hobbyist and hired a male companion for ourselves for pretty much the same reasons that men will hire us.


I don't know I just think I have fallen down a serious rabbit whole.

 

[red]

well have fun with it, but dont let it be your only source of sex. if you do, then its harmful, keep a balance in all things and you will be fine

 

[Miss.Lexi]

Hun, we're in the same boat!

I've fallen down that "rabbit hole" a while ago lol. Having relationships while working in this industry has been nothing but trouble for me... but we still have satisfy our womanly needs somehow!

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

Hun, we're in the same boat!

I've fallen down that "rabbit hole" a while ago lol. Having relationships while working in this industry has been nothing but trouble for me... but we still have satisfy our womanly needs somehow!

Yup it's this weird spiral that feels great but I have to check-in with myself to make sure I am doing the right thing for myself. I have come to the conclusion that as long as I am a provider getting and handling a boyfriend will be a huge challenge,

 

[MYSITEONLY]

Lexi, Are you talking about sex, or emotional aspect.

 

[sniffer0310]

I will volunteer my services to be your boyfriend

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

Lexi, Are you talking about sex, or emotional aspect.

It's both, since when women have orgasms they automatically switch into the bounding hormone.

 

[woodee]

Hello Riley
What do you enjoy most about going to the strip club?

 

[Art Mann]

Surprised nobody's already made this offer ...

If any of you lovely ladies would like to hire a male companion, just PM me.

 

[MYSITEONLY]

I can do 120 hh BFE.

 

[Miss.Lexi]

Lexi, Are you talking about sex, or emotional aspect.

I'm talking about raw, passionate & wild sex... the way I like to be fucked!
And not the way men, who watch too much porno, think it should be done.
(Spewing all over my face isn't exactly a turn on for me, and neither is
ramming my mouth until I start crying).


The emotion part is just a bonus

 

[Michael_91]

TERB Sucks.

 

[Stoo]

This is really interesting. I see escorts or MPAs or even strippers in the VIP strictly as an "outlet". I'm not looking for an emotional bond. (Which is not to say I don't thoroughly enjoy the company of the lady I am with. I tend to have a very small number "regulars" I see, and we know a certain amount about each others personal lives, so it isn't entirely "wham-bam"...

The emotional aspect comes from girlfriends.

So I find it interesting to hear you ladies seem to looking for exactly the opposite that I am. Presumably, you are getting "laid" lots...

If I'm understanding you correctly, then you might benefit from this advice (and I think the vast majority of guys here will agree...): If you're looking for love, you aren't going to find it in a strip club... I don't think anyway.

As an aside... What exactly does a lady do with male stripper in the VIP??? I can't imagine playing hard to get, if one of you was trying to grab a little something in MY thong!

 

[d_jedi]

I'm talking about raw, passionate & wild sex... the way I like to be fucked!
And not the way men, who watch too much porno, think it should be done.
(Spewing all over my face isn't exactly a turn on for me, and neither is
ramming my mouth until I start crying).


The emotion part is just a bonus

My rates are reasonable. PM me

 

[bobistheowl]

So lately I have been visiting a male strip club. I have even gone as far as to take a few dancers in the VIP room. I am starting to question so much yea I am single and working as an escort doesn't leave much time for dating and if I was to date it does make things complicated, but now I am starting to question if I am hooked on this type of service.

This is probably something that isn't really talked about any where. I mean majority of what is talked about here is all from the male hobbyist perspective but we haven't really talked about what if we providers become hobbyist and hired a male companion for ourselves for pretty much the same reasons that men will hire us.


I don't know I just think I have fallen down a serious rabbit whole.

Sounds like you're trying to pick up a few pointers!

 

[milehigh]

but now I am starting to question if I am hooked on this type of service.

I am asking myself the same question regarding the whole notion of seeing SP's. Got some super girls, especially one dating....however, can't stop seeing SP's. Thought I would be able to if I met someone worthwhile, but when you do this sort of lifestyle for years, it is hard to quit. I never realized I enjoyed it so much.

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

If I'm understanding you correctly, then you might benefit from this advice (and I think the vast majority of guys here will agree...): If you're looking for love, you aren't going to find it in a strip club... I don't think anyway.

Who is talking about love, I am talking some serious fucking and the possibility of making it more of a friends with benefits. the fact that I am nurturing and caring can be a blessing and curse. I am not looking for love, if love happens to fall into place great, but its definitely not my priority right now. I much rather have long-time fuck friends that I bound with and have great sex.

Sounds like you're trying to pick up a few pointers!

Well of course I am why else would I post this type of topic here , I have been a provider for a long time and now I think I am becoming a hobbyist , if I did any research out there from women point of you its all about how to become a provider and nothing about how to become a female hobbyist. It's almost like double standard 2.0

I can honestly say this whole hobby thing has left me feeling more sexuallly liberated.

 

[bobistheowl]

Sounds like you're trying to pick up a few pointers!

Well of course I am why else would I post this type of topic here , I have been a provider for a long time and now I think I am becoming a hobbyist , if I did any research out there from women point of you its all about how to become a provider and nothing about how to become a female hobbyist. It's almost like double standard 2.0

I can honestly say this whole hobby thing has left me feeling more sexuallly liberated.

Pointers referred to sexually aroused dancers at the strip club, hence the italics and exclamation point.

 

[wellhungone]

Hey I'm up to the challenge, I can be a date for dinner,movies or you can use me for sex ;-)

 

[GameBoy27]

So lately I have been visiting a male strip club. I have even gone as far as to take a few dancers in the VIP room.

Hey rileydaniels, I know what can happen in terms of mileage in the VIP with the "right" girl" but what kind of mileage is available to females in a male SC? I've seen women in male SC's get pretty wild but what about in the VIP? PM me if you want.