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drdrrp

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As I'm not experienced in these matters, I'm writing to seek your advice, to get your impressions.

I was working on my computer while dining alone in a restaurant last week when a beautiful woman sitting beside me started asking me questions about my laptap. The conversation continued for nearly an hour and basically became a get to know you talk (where are you from, what do you do, where have you travelled, where did you do your schooling). She was much more forthcoming about herself than I was: where she worked, where she lived, what her work schedule was, how long she'd been living in the area, etc. I really got the impression that she wanted me to come and see her at her place of employment, she kept emphasizing where it was and when she was there. I had to leave to go to work so we ended up exchanging emails. I took the initiative this time and sent her a brief email saying how much I enjoyed her company (which I did) and suggested we meet up again at the same restaurant sometime. I haven't heard anything back from her (it's been almost 5 days now).

Was this just friendly conversation or was this something more? My instincts say the latter but as I'm not exerienced it's hard for me to be sure. So, should I wait for her response, should I go to her workplace, should I just wait to see her at the restaurant again (she said that she goes there often at the same time as I do)?
 

Jade4u

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I really do not see where it can hurt if you show up at her workplace after all she did give you the address. Possibly there was a mix up in the e mail address ie... a c instead of an o in someplace. But at the same time it is a place of work I would not occupy all her time or go in expecting too much keep it casual the first time. Just when you go in act as a customer if possible ie... if in a coffee shop approach say, hi how are you doing and order something and if no one is around then ask if she got your e mail. I'd say go but do not expect too much if that is something you would really like to persue. But keep it minimal just incase it was just a casual conversation.
 

barrowing

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drdrrp said:
Was this just friendly conversation or was this something more?
Friendly conversations can often lead to something more. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Go for it and good luck to you!
 

Rockslinger

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Be afraid! Be very afraid! I think she is only interested in your LAPTOP.

Sure, go see her. What have you got to lose, only your laptop?
 

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drdrrp said:
should I wait for her response, should I go to her workplace, should I just wait to see her at the restaurant again (she said that she goes there often at the same time as I do)?
No, dont go to her workplace, she may find this a little pushy.

If you have the address of her workplace then simply send her a nice card (by courier so you know she signed for it), and tell her you who you were and where you met and that you really like her and want to ask her on a date. Also write that you dont want interrupt her during work hours so you figured a note would be less intrusive.

LOL........And dont forget to write your number on the card ;)
 

goalie000

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Your place!!
Send another email suggesting maybe the first one got lost etc. Ask if it's Ok to see her at her work and perhaps go to Lunch. Can't hurt.
 

stinkynuts

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There are several possibilities of what happened:

1)She was just flirting with you to see if you'd bite. By pursuing her, you've validated her worth, and she got an ego boost.

2)She was really interested in you, but never got the email.

3)She was interested in you that night, but for some reason she lost interest and no longer wants to see yoiu.

4)She was extremely horny that night, and was looking for a one-night stand. But now that her urges are over, she is no longer interested.

5)She was a prostitute looking for some business.

I say go to her workplace, and see if she's still interested. Better to be sure now, rather than wonder what could have been, ten years later.

In any case, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Even if you let this one go, it won't be a big deal. Just have fun with this whole mystery!
 

drdrrp

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thanks for all the feedback.

I eventually did get an email reply to my emails and a promise to stay in touch and get together sometime soon.

we'll see where it all goes.
 
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