Question...

[Uzo]

This is kind of weird, but I'll tell you the brief story...


I was at a MP and went to see a girl....on my way out...I bumped into an older guy and made eye contact...didnt think anything of it and went my own way...


Week later...same thing.....this MP has other items on the menu (keep that in mind).


Now...month later, I meet this girl at a club, go out with her a few times and she invites me to her house to meet the family and whatnot....I'm really feeling this girl and agree....in the meantime (while going with this girl) I have not gone to any MP/SP/SC.....

Go to the house for dinner and who is the father? Bham...you guessed it -same dude from the MP.

Now, after dinner and everything, the father takes me to the sitting room and talks to me and says that he does not want me to see his daughter becuase I'm not good enough....I know he is not talking about education/money/health etc....he is talking about the MP incident. I dont bring it up, but we both know.

Now, what do I do?? Do I confront him about this? Or just leave the girl alone?

I really like being with this girl, she takes things slow and its cool with me and she is smart, good looking....do I see a future, its too early to tell I guess...but this whole father thing is weird becuase I know her father does things that the daughter does not know (nor does his wife).

Confused about the whole situation

 

[Berlin]

If you really like the girl, Uzo

Stand up for the relationship.

But remember one thing, whatever her old man does outside his marriage, is his own bloody business. He may be a hunter just like any other, but you should be a man about it, and never drag his shit in front of his family, or even in his own face. Save him some face,it is good for you in the long run, should this romance ever become fruitful.

Who knows, Uzo, maybe you stand a good chance of earning his respect and approval in the end.

Good luck.

 

[wrong hole]

Treat him to a hour session with Cameron

I'm sure he will like you then.

 

[Foxbat]

Go to the house for dinner and who is the father? Bham...you guessed it -same dude from the MP.

Now, after dinner and everything, the father takes me to the sitting room and talks to me and says that he does not want me to see his daughter becuase I'm not good enough....I know he is not talking about education/money/health etc....he is talking about the MP incident. I dont bring it up, but we both know.

Now, what do I do?? Do I confront him about this? Or just leave the girl alone?

...but this whole father thing is weird becuase I know her father does things that the daughter does not know (nor does his wife).

What a small world or should I say what were the chances of that happening? Dumb luck or was it divine intervention ?
If you have feelings for this girl, then you'll make a stand. Who is the father to say that you're not good enough for his daughter. He should check himself in the mirror. he's not good enough for his wife! If he's going to threaten or reveal your MP episode to his daughter, then you should do the same with him. In other words, if he's gonna ruin your world, you have a trump card to use also. Go for the girl!

 

[midLifeCrisis]

Behave honourably!

1. Tell your girl you have been to MP's. As berlin said, it would be most improper to tell her her father also goes to MPs.

2. Wait a week.

3. If your girl's still OK with you, tell her father to go to hell, he might possibly be able to tell his daughter what to do, but not you.

 

[papasmerf]

Tell the father that he has to stop judging people based on his ownexperiences.

Fact is you do remember seeing him and that is best kept quite . Because honor would demand this.

 

[Remo]

Kick the father in the Balls.

 

[submissivedave]

Who gives a fuck ... love is blind ...

Nothing is greater than love ... and that includes boy meets girl love ...

But you ought to know for sure that you guys are into each other man, or else fuck it. Love is not a one way street ... it must be mutual and binding ...

 

[Quirt]

Take the high ground

Uzo: Don't cut and run.
Don't expose the girls father.
Do keep a little distance from the old man for now.

Fathers always want someone better than themselves for their daughters.

A girls first love is her father, so the pattern is set. Her attraction to you is a lock.

 

[Goober Mcfly]

Ditch the daughter and fark the mother.

That'll learn him....

 

[Cinema Face]

Wow man!

Thanx for sharing. That’s got to be one of the most awkward “meet the parents” stories that I’ve ever heard.

My advice? Call the dad a hypocrite and if he brings it up again tell him, “I went to see the MP before I met your daughter. I wasn’t in a relationship or committed to anybody at the time. Unlike you.”

Whatever happens, don’t let this guy shame you. You did nothing to be ashamed about.

If you like this girl, then I would pursue the relationship and pretend that nothing happened between you and the dad. The dad will never bring it up to your g/friend because he risks the truth coming out about himself and he has way more to loose than you.

Who knows, if things work out with this girl, things may improve with the old man. The awkwardness may fade in time. You both carry a secret that could damage the other but neither of you would ever dare do that. It's the concept of MAD (Mutually Assured Destruction).

Good luck with that. Don’t be confused. It’s not as complex as it seems.

 

[Pistol Pete]

I would say go for the girl and see where it leads.

One small potential problem. If Daddy goes to MPs, maybe he reads Terb?

 

[Goober Mcfly]

If Daddy goes to MPs, maybe he reads Terb?

Is it parang?

/inside joke

 

[DenWa]

I said don't see my daughter! Don't make me have the Wolverines teach you a lesson...

 

[fanofthehobby]

I think the problem is that your girlfriends mother worked at the MP. You kept seeing the father when he went to see his wife or drop off her lunch or whatever. You really liked her and then meet a girl who subconciously reminds you of this woman at the MP who then turns out to be her daughter. Now the husbands creeped out because youre doing the mother and daughter which is understandable. This happens more than you might think.
If you're willing to be bi and can convince the father to drop his
taboo against incest I think you have a future as a foursome. Otherwise I think you have to meet on the sly with the daughter.

 

[johnyboy]

Talk about trying to make a square peg in a round hole

Buddy... fuggetaboutit..Your future with her is not bright

Because no one wins here..

 

[papasmerf]

or you might want to metion your mutual friend at dinner one night