As with most things in life, it all depends on your priorities. If you wish to allow yourself to become convinced that your current friends and family don't care about you if they don't join or buy from you, and your real friends are your upline, you are helping to make rich, and will make you rich along the way, and therefore financial gain without conscience and at the cost of losing friends and family and likely also causing them and others you sucker pain, then it is for you.
It can also be for you if you like some of the main line products and service and just casually sell to those who may ask, without neccesarily focusing on getting rich.
Important thing is decide where you fit, and if you are going to be a purchaser then don't buy the tapes or go to the conferences or meetings. These things are all designed to motivate you and make you believe you will over come any and all challenges and will be rich.
The upline cash in big time on the tapes and conferences. That is where a lot of the 'Amway' money is made, and where a lot of the controversy comes from. Especially the one guy who has been like a master pyramid builder.
Many of the main line products are very good. A lot of brand name items tend to be a little overpriced, and more a matter of delivery convenience, if it's worth it to you. Once in a while there actually are some good deals that come along, but they are far and few between. No matter what anybody tells you, the coffee sucks, and it is expensive.
For quite a while there was a sort of mantra they would go on about to justify hitting on every warm body for sales - drink spit flush and pour.
The things that are consistently good quality and value are the majority of the cleaning products. Essentially the root of the original business.
To make it 'big' in this kind of network marketing, you also have to be very confident, and basically a very arrogant personallity, without showing your arrogance outwardly most of the time, unless you need to turn it on to embaress some one in to joining. As well, as mentioned in an earlier post, you also have to be a people person and leave people beliving you care about them and like them, and be very likeable too. Unless of course thier PV and BV drops below where it has any value to your business. Then you can ignore them again.