Reminders On How To Be A Wonderful SP...

[LC18]

@Kusa let me help you cause I believe you had good bases and your intentions were good but the delivery was…um :/

• Extend a warm welcome using both verbal and non-verbal cues, such as a friendly smile or a welcoming hug. If you’re on an outcall be polite and wait for the host to invite you in before you walk in and get comfortable.
  
  
• Engage in icebreaker conversations to establish a sense of comfort for all involved. Avoid limiting interactions to one-sided responses, as this tends to resemble an interview rather than a shared experience. Practice active listening and ask questions about what they have just told you to keep the conversation going.
  
  
• Respond in a timely manner to requests for your time either way by yes or no respectfully. Utilize an auto-response function in your emails to acknowledge receipt if needed.
  
  
• Clients double book all the time. Don't be offended just block them.
  
  
• During agreed-upon times, refrain from diverting attention to your phone. Both parties should be fully all hands-on deck.
  
  
• Use mouthwash to ensure a clean and comfortable experience for both parties involved. Do not floss or brush your teeth immediately before or after an appointment as this can increase the risk of ITSS transmission
  
  
• After each encounter, take a proper shower. Baby wipes are not a shower in a bag. Try scheduling your day so that you can have enough time to shower between appointments.
  
  
• Plan ample time between sessions to prevent a rush and potential time conflicts.
  
  
• Demonstrate genuine interest during interactions, you will enjoy yourself a lot more and create solid client-provider relationships.
  
  
• Clearly communicate your type of client preferences if any, lest you create false hope and waste time. Whoever complains, remind them that its not their entitlement.
  
  
• If canceling on the same day or at the last minute, try rescheduling and apologize for the inconvenience.
  
  
• If compensated as per the agreed amount, don't anticipate tips; tips are always appreciated but never expected. Express appreciation if a tip is given, as silence may be misinterpreted as entitlement.
  
  
• Practice discretion when using the bathroom, close the door behind you.
  
  
• Eat whatever you want unless you’re about to perform greek.

 

[xix]

Funny thread,,,
I think people can't keep time or read time properly.

So lets say Joe arrives for 3-4pm. The next appointment should be 420pm (415) to 520pm (515).
Sure some clients may leave early for what ever reason. IF next client shows up at say 405 pm and you are ready and previous client has left I say let the next client in let him know if he is okay to start at 405 - 505pm. You simply ask. If he says no make him wait till 420 pm then.
Also the client shouldn't assume he is getting more time.

Some people like to stay and play/talk the fantasy which is okay, but as a client, client should be out by 50-55mins to let sp freshen up. Like come on who has a hard on for 60 mins and not take time into consideration to bath, clean up and do the same when finishing.

My RMT I book 60 mins but in reality it is 45 mins, he asks what's wrong by the time I undress then he does his thing and I dress up and I am out it is 60 mins. Then he changes the bed sheets which can take him 5 mins. So most times I am out by 50-55 mins. The same could be almost said for SP. More clean up if silly client.

 

[explorerzip]

LOL. May I suggest you book a sex doll instead?

Air going into a sex doll make some noise though

 

[explorerzip]

Funny thread,,,
I think people can't keep time or read time properly.

Funny how keeping time is still a problem in the 21st century. We have clocks on everything, most set themselves and adjust for time zones and daylight savings. Even our phones tell us when to leave for an appointment to arrive on time and give us real time traffic conditions. It's amazing that humanity managed for so long without all that technology.

 

[xix]

Funny how keeping time is still a problem in the 21st century. We have clocks on everything, most set themselves and adjust for time zones and daylight savings. Even our phones tell us when to leave for an appointment to arrive on time and give us real time traffic conditions. It's amazing that humanity managed for so long without all that technology.

True, the cell may tell us to go or the app. But in this age most people have to act on it. The cell can't make the person/human act on it. Some people just wait around for a guiding light to make them move.

 

[explorerzip]

True, the cell may tell us to go or the app. But in this age most people have to act on it. The cell can't make the person/human act on it. Some people just wait around for a guiding light to make them move.

Or leave with more than enough time despite what your clock says.

 

[moredale7]

Wow this entire response
This is what it looks like when two red flags meet.

 

[Darts]

"I'm reminded of the time one brain trust member got to the incall early and waited in the condo's vestibule drawing attention to himself."

Aren't hotel/condo vestibules busy places with people constantly walking in and out and/or just hanging out waiting for a non-SP friend. What was he doing to bring attention to himself?

 

[Jenesis]

"I'm reminded of the time one brain trust member got to the incall early and waited in the condo's vestibule drawing attention to himself."

Aren't hotel/condo vestibules busy places with people constantly walking in and out and/or just hanging out waiting for a non-SP friend. What was he doing to bring attention to himself?

Sometimes. And sometimes not.

Sometimes it attracts the attention of the concierge. It depends on the location.

The general rule is that you stay in your car or a near by shop until you get the message that the lady is ready.

 

[Darts]

Sometimes. And sometimes not.

Sometimes it attracts the attention of the concierge. It depends on the location.

The general rule is that you stay in your car or a near by shop until you get the message that the lady is ready.

It doesn't happen often but it has happened.

I walk inside with a group of people and discreetly/quietly sit in the lobby as far away from the concierge as possible. I call SP headquarter and let them know I am already in the lobby.

So, this is what SP headquarter says:
1) Go back out and making yourself as obvious as possible.
2) On the buzzer board announce your arrival to the SP in as loud a voice as possible.
3) Then walk back in to the lobby making yourself as obvious as possible. Be sure to give a wave to the concierge.
4) BTW: The SP sometime takes long time to answer your buzz. Meanwhile you are standing next to the buzzer board waiting. Then the concierge comes out and asks: "Do you need any help? You've standing here by the buzzer board for over half an hour."

 

[Vera.Reis]

It doesn't happen often but it has happened.

I walk inside with a group of people and discreetly/quietly sit in the lobby as far away from the concierge as possible. I call SP headquarter and let them know I am already in the lobby.

So, this is what SP headquarter says:
1) Go back out and making yourself as obvious as possible.
2) On the buzzer board announce your arrival to the SP in as loud a voice as possible.
3) Then walk back in to the lobby making yourself as obvious as possible. Be sure to give a wave to the concierge.
4) BTW: The SP sometime takes long time to answer your buzz. Meanwhile you are standing next to the buzzer board waiting. Then the concierge comes out and asks: "Do you need any help? You've standing here by the buzzer board for over half an hour."

This is a really weird hill to die on, it is absolutely common for concierge to ask people who they do not recognize and are standing around who they are. That is because in the vast majority of high rises those people are actually security not concierge, try asking one of them to set up your dry cleaning and see how that goes.

And many many MANY buildings you need to buzz in for the elevator to unlock, so yes, if you go in without being buzzed you'll need to go back out and buzz. You're drawing unnecessary attention to yourself and putting the providers work space at risk just because you didn't want to spend $1.50 to kill time at Tim Hortons with a donut.

 

[Darts]

It's not the donuts and nobody dies.

I just want SP headquarters to call the SP and let her know that I am already inside and on the way up. SP headquarters already gave me the room number and that is why I know which buzzer to press but I don't need to be buzzed in because I am already in.

Many buildings have elevators that do work without being buzzed in although I do remember in one building the SP came down to get me.

SP: You must be Brad Pitt.
Me: Yes and you must be Vera (in a quiet voice)

 

[Darts]

Personally, I prefer hotels where one can blend in with the crowd. Also, use the lobby washroom to put on my makeup.

In my experience, many independents book hotels. Since they are indies, I can call the SP directly (not some phone girl/guy) and let them know Brad Pitt is downstairs.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Personally, I prefer hotels where one can blend in with the crowd. Also, use the lobby washroom to put on my makeup.

In my experience, many independents book hotels. Since they are indies, I can call the SP directly (not some phone girl/guy) and let them know Brad Pitt is downstairs.

I'm an Indy, I do not book hotels unless I'm touring, and if you entered the building before I told you would be sent home for not following instructions designed for my safety and for discretion ;-)

 

[Vera.Reis]

you are not serious are you?

Oh I am, you were instructed to not even approach my building until I told, so if you were inside already you completely ignored my instructions and I can't trust you to listen in the bedroom either

 

[Vera.Reis]

you give instructions in the bedroom?

are you a dominatrix?

Yes, when I don't like something I say don't do it.

 

[Vera.Reis]

do you have to say that a lot?

No, because if I've had to say it twice for the same thing you're also being sent home and also only the decent clients from this site see me because these posts deter the maximum mileage seekers, exploiters and boundary pushers from seeing me win/win

 

[Paprika]

I'm an Indy, I do not book hotels unless I'm touring, and if you entered the building before I told you would be sent home for not following instructions designed for my safety and for discretion ;-)

Hmm there are a lot of potential scenarios. Two personal examples.

1. One time buzzer broke, I told the security a story of meeting someone in the building to purchase something from Kijiji, and was able to go up to see the lady.

2. There are several people trying to go in, instead of waiting like an idiot, I took a quick glance and noticed security wasn't there, so I followed everybody instead of waiting outside to buzz.

Your instructions may not work all the time. Be flexible and reasonable is the key.

If somebody drove 2 hours to see you, and you sent him home for not "following instructions", he might be so pissed that he would post your condo address, room number and buzz all over the internet, there goes your "security and discretion", all because you pissed off one client.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Hmm there are a lot of potential scenarios. Two personal examples.

1. One time buzzer broke, I told the security a story of meeting someone in the building to purchase something from Kijiji, and was able to go up to see the lady.

2. There are several people trying to go in, instead of waiting like an idiot, I took a quick glance and noticed security wasn't there, so I followed everybody instead of waiting outside to buzz.

Your instructions may not work all the time. Be flexible and reasonable is the key.

If somebody drove 2 hours to see you, and you sent him home for not "following instructions", he might be so pissed that he would post your condo address, room number and buzz all over the internet, there goes your "security and discretion", all because you pissed off one client.

My instruction is to not approach the building until I say so, none of this applies.

I'd rather lose my incall than be assaulted by someone who thinks it's okay to not follow instructions because he has now demonstrated he will do what he wants despite being told not to.

But also, I always have access to real world info, even if it's by filing a John doe charge and putting in a subpoena to your bank for your info based on the etransfer deposit or gift card purchase. If you want to out me I will out you right back

 

[Vera.Reis]

On the subject of "Reminders on how be a wonderful SP":

- do not go haywire on Terb/Social Media and freak all potential clients out
- do not be unreasonable with your demands
- do not constantly argue about EVERYTHING
- do not behave like a ticking bomb with a short fuse

I've gotten 3 bookings, and 2 supportive dms