Rough With Da Stuff

[Saskatchewan]

So today I am with an SP, and she is giving me a BJ, and its a bit tight. In other words, it kind of hurts a little. Its not a Jessica Steal pure enjoyment BJ where the suck factor is high. This is more of a porno BJ with lots of head jockying. Anyway, it kind of hurts a bit. So I ask the SP if she can put a condom on while she gives me a BJ, thinking this will address the issue.

Anyway, she agrees and doesn't say anything, but I think she was insulted by the request.

Do most SP's get insulted when asked to use a condom on a BBBJ?

For what its worth, the condom didn't help, so the main event started a bit early. I guess its more of a problem with younger SPs, that they haven't managed the art of the BBBJ too well.

 

[Jolee]

I have never been asked mid way to put one on but have before it started
Im not insulted, its his risk he is taking and he chooses not too......just like its my risk not to use them

Everyone has the right to choose and decide what they are and are not comfortable with in this hobby and in life



Kisses and licks
Jolee

 

[Plain_Jane]

Sorry about the technique issues - certainly it may be odd to be asked mid stream to at a raincoat but respect is a 2 way street and so your request needed to be honoured.

Sucking doesn't come naturally to everyone, offer up some suggestions and gentle encouragement when you experience something that isn't giving you the experience you're seeking. That said some of us truly love it and it is more natural - even we can benefit from our partners giving us a gentle nudge now and then to ensure optimal pleasure.

xo Jane

 

[SS Sharla]

It's your time. She should be comfortable doing anything that doesn't cross her boundries. I can see how it may be confusing for her though. If she was thinking of the typical uses for a condom, it wouldn't make a whole lot of sense half way through.

I agree with Jane that it is always best to just gently communicate what you enjoy. Some men love crazy hard blow jobs. Some don't. Just suggest nicely that you have always enjoyed a slow, sensual blow job and she should understand. Or I always enjoy when a guy puts his hands on my head and sets the pace gently.

 

[mark221777]

who's this SP, sounds like a lot of fun, i'd like a rough BBBJ today

 

[da vinci]

don't know who mb is referring to but it brings back the lingering reminder zoey would impart for the rest of the day.