Russia (long post)

MuffinMuncher

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I debated about whether anyone would care to hear this, but it was such a significant event in my life that I thought I would share it for the few who might be interested.

I took my second trip to Russia in June 2004, flying into Moscow for a couple days, then continuing on to St Petersburg. I went alone, armed with 10 words of Russian, a pocket guide, a list of things to see, a shorter list of people to contact, a longer list of things to avoid and a naive curiosity to see more of "the evil empire".

Moscow is much like New York City. Big, bustling, traffic, pedestrians, restaurants, cafes, shopping and neon. Although there is as much history and culture as you care to find, once you see Red Square and the Kremlin, you can say you saw Moscow. I remember walking the streets after dinner that first night and feeling completely safe in spite of the fact that I couldnt read most signs or understand any conversations.

I went into one of the more infamous clubs off Tverskaya, populated by westerners and the working girls who make a living off them. Girls would clot in small groups on one side of the bar, the guys lined up on the other nursing a beer and pretending not to be interested. Occasionally a couple girls would weave through the gauntlet, hoping for eye contact or an invitation for a drink. They seemed to recognize the weak and vulnerable.

I was chatting with a businessman from Switzerland who was on assignment for 6 months. Seems this was his second home so he pointed out "who to do" and "who to avoid" amongst the girls, and gave me the usual tips on how to avoid trouble. Seems the thrill of meeting an American has long since worn off for these girls, most of them speak some English, and they much prefer euros to dollars. Going rate was E300 for the night, E250 if you knew how to bargain.

I took a train up to St Petersburg the next afternoon. Russian railway stations are a challenge. No signs in English, no one speaks English, so unless you have assistance, you end up playing a game of charades for a bewildered crowd. I was always pretty good at it fortunately.

Russian trains are actually very good forms of tranportation. Meticulously on time, clean, safe, comfortable and CHEAP even for a 4-person compartment. The day ride took 6 hours, and it gave you a chance to pass through small towns to see the real Russia. Yes, its backward and impoverished outside of the tourist areas, but you get a glimpse of a piece of history largely unchanged for the last 50 years.

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MuffinMuncher

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St Petersburg is the antithesis of Moscow. Much more cosmopolitan, it feels more like a European city. Bright colors, girls in the latest fashions and Italian leather, very upbeat in contrast to the drab, solemn greys and browns of Moscow.

I rented a flat for a week off Nevsky Prospect, the main street of the city. St Petersburg is like Venice, woven with canals, the city is defined by its bridges. English is much more prevalent, you can always catch a few words in a crowd. I knew some friends from last year's trip, which made it all very familiar despite a 12 month absence.

Incidentally, to show how Americans are ruining the world, there are now 10 McDonalds in St Petersburg, and since last year they now have a KFC, Pizza Hut, Subway and a TGI Fridays.

St Petersburg is as cultural as Moscow is political. The Hermitage Museum is home to the second greatest collection of art to the Louvre, and the museums and palaces are too numerous to count. I have spent a total of 2 weeks here, and I STILL have a list of places to visit!

One sad fact of Russian life is the dicotomy between the young and the elderly. The old people of Russia got trapped in the fall of Communism, losing their pensions and life savings. They line the entrances to subways looking for handouts, or rely on the kindness of friends/family to survive. Its really quite heartbreaking to see once you know the history.

The contrast is the younger generation of Russians who have benefited from the influx of foreign capital and western influences. You cant get a phone installed in your flat in Russia, but everyone has a mobile (cell). Girls will proudly wear the same designer outfit 3 days in a row rather than be seen in something handmade or less stylish. They love to practice English, and if you are able to strike up a conversation, they will gladly show off their city and play tour guide.

The nightlife is quite amazing. Every night is a party somewhere. Clubs stay open until 6 AM, and its not unusual to see crowds stream out the doors at closing time and go straight to the subway to head to work. Many of the bars have "stage shows" of go-go dancers, and slowly there are more english-themed pubs popping up. Toward the end of the month, every girl is a part-time SP..... its how they make ends meet, pay rent, and buy clothes.

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MuffinMuncher

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I had traded e-mail with a girl in a smaller city outside of Moscow prior to my trip. In my schedule I built in time to travel there and back, and it turned out to be the most rewarding part of my trip.

I took a commuter Russian airline (pause and consider the mental picture) to Yaroslavl. Fast, efficient, 8 passengers on an old WW2 era plane.... there is an odd custom whereby the passengers burst into applause when the plane lands at its destination. It made me wonder why this tradition started.

Yaroslavl is as different from St Petersburg as St Petersburg is from Moscow. Maybe 500,000 people, its not a small city, yet it only has one plane land and one plane depart each week (I was on it). There is NO English anywhere, and only a few tourists who pass through on teh way to somewhere else.

And yes, they have 2 McDonalds..... packed from open to close.

I met my friend Nadya the next morning, and I was shocked to learn that she not only spoke perfect self-taught English (from video tapes and books borrowed from the English consulate), but she was the sole provider for her unemployed mother and critically ill grandmother.... all of whom shared a tiny 1 bedroom flat. She was also putting herself through University in hopes of becoming a lawyer or diplomat one day.

Yet she took the time to spend 2 full days with me, a stranger from the USA, simply because she wanted to share her city and her country with me. Here is a girl who had every reason to be depressed, defeated, resigned to merely surviving... but instead she was one of the most genuinely cheerful, optimistic and proud people I had ever met.

Before you ask, no... it was nothing more than a genuine friendship. In many ways, she made me redefine what I consider a role model. I cant imagine the inner strength and resiliancy it must take to endure the daily challenges she must face, yet she not only prevails but she conquers each of them with grace and a smile.

So when anyone asks me why in the world I would ever want to visit a forbidding country like Russia, I think back to the days when I had the same preconceived stereotypes of the country and its people.... and it makes me want to go back because at every turn lies a new and tremendously enriching experience that I will treasure for a lifetime.
 
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Goober Mcfly

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Cool. Just like watching Discovery Travel Channel.

*grabs remote, points it at monitor*
 

BoxHunter

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Geez Goober, stop watching the spidermonkies on the Discovery channel. I know it's like porn but doesn't it bother you that you're related to the "actors"?
 

Goober Mcfly

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I laugh when the monkeys fling poo at each other.

</tired, should go home soon>
 

The Fruity Hare

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Thanks MuffinMuncher. Too many people don't get to appreciate what the world has to offer because they are too scared to try. I have been in similar situations with the language barrier, but in the end it only seems to enhance the experience. I think more people should feel what it's like to be a stranger in a far off land, maybe they would have a little more tolerance and understanding for those around them.
 

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this is a great story, myself having been to Russia twice and spending a year there, although if you were interested in hobbying in Moscow I could have let you in on a few spots that in no way would have cost 300 Euros a night, I assume the club you were talking about is Night Flight? where its pretty much super model look alikes but the prices are steep because of the rich clientle that frequent that club.

Also I wouldnt totally dismiss Moscow as grey, brown and drab, sure it isnt as European as Petersburg but it has its flair, and the eye candy just up and down the streets on a typical summer day is astounding.
 

MuffinMuncher

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Scouser1, you make some good points, and for editorial reasons I condensed my thoughts down into generalities. Yes, the club was Night Flight, and yes I partook of a supermodel for the evening. Hey, for less than $300 we went clubbing with her friends until the sun came up AND I got lucky!

It is very empowering to learn that you can navigate a solo journey to a faraway land. Customs is another adventure I can tell you about sometime. I took an overnight train out of St Petersburg over to Latvia, stuck in a compartment with 2 drunk guys who werent to fond of Americans. And dont get me started on the Police (Militia)....
 

danmand

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Thanks for a thoughtful insight into the new Russia. It was most welcome.
 

happygrump

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Thanks, MM. Travelling alone - at least for me - has always been a way of making new friends, getting new insights into cultures and ideals, and during the challenging times it generates a higher level of confidence.

I have not had the pleasure of St Petersburg, though it's certainly on the list of places to see, when I have the time and the $$.

Have you ever thought of editing or re-writing your travelogue for a non-TERB audience and submitting it to a newspaper or magazine? Good luck!
 

scouser1

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ahhhh the local Moscow police, anyone who thinks TO cops are bad and corrupt should take a trip down there, our cops are saints compared to these guys who are openly corrupt, and if you are the darker shade of the rainbow like myself oh boy they will stop and check your documents definitely. I was there last summer and was gonna take the trip to Tallinn in Estonia but gave up after it took the visa company I used something like 10 days to register my visa, got dumped by my Russian gf, got sick, lost a passport at Pearson, blah blah blah :)
 

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excellent post muffy

I actually was planning to go to Moscow and St Petersburg this summer but I couldn't get enough time away so I went to Belize instead.

I find travelling by yourself is awesome, you learn more and are more friendly to people out of necessity. Couple of years ago, I got bored of my job so I quit and went travelling around the world for a year and a half straight by myself. I visited rich countries and very poor countries and came to the realization that we have it good compared to the rest of the world.....most of us don't realize it.
 

Mustang Jack

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Great travel article MM, I think it's the longest single post that I've read from start to finish on terb. Except maybe a twisted review by ref.
 

Shades

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Good stuff MM...and I love the response you are getting as well. It shows the multi-dimensionality of many of our interests. One thing may have brought us all to this board, but it alone is not enough to sustain all our interests.

Now if I may I would like to talk about my recent trip to Brampton without a guide or interpreter...I was nervous as I turned north of the 401, it was a rainy night......
 

MajorWood

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Great report MM, very interesting indeed. Sound like a rewarding and eye opening experience. Maybe someday...
 
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