safe gfe???????/
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GFE - definition
This debate pops up every now and then... unfortunately there are many different views on what exactly a "gfe" is. I go by my version... based on the girls I have dated in the past. A GFE to me, must allow DFK and BBBJ... I mean really... would you go out with a girl that would not kiss??? As for the BBBJ, I have never had a girlfriend that performed CBJ, it was always BBBJ. I've had one or two that wouldn't BJ at all.... they didn't last long.
Anyone who is described as a "safe" GFE, should probably be approached with caution - IMHO.
My two cents...
This debate pops up every now and then... unfortunately there are many different views on what exactly a "gfe" is. I go by my version... based on the girls I have dated in the past. A GFE to me, must allow DFK and BBBJ... I mean really... would you go out with a girl that would not kiss??? As for the BBBJ, I have never had a girlfriend that performed CBJ, it was always BBBJ. I've had one or two that wouldn't BJ at all.... they didn't last long.
Anyone who is described as a "safe" GFE, should probably be approached with caution - IMHO.
My two cents...
Well, agencies have to market their girls somehow, and at the same time not overpromise or mislead. I think most TERBites know that the term "safe GFE" generally means, although it is probably as well understood and accepted as the term "GFE" is (meaning not really at all). If I had to make a generalization, users of the GFE term have typically meant it to describe either the types of services offered, or the attitude and demeanor of the sp. In that vein, I take "safe GFE" to mean, she's a very nice girl and a lot of fun, but she plays it safe. If, in fact, there could ever be universal agreement on something like this, then I would have no problem with the term, and in fact, I think many hobbyists would find this information valuable.
Thank you Svend.
Someone who finally gets it. In this section they are all about the BBBJ and in the incall section we are discussing the dangers of a BBBJ. What a day!
HH
Someone who finally gets it. In this section they are all about the BBBJ and in the incall section we are discussing the dangers of a BBBJ. What a day!
HH
menu please
I’m really starting to see the frustration that lies in the community around these acronyms. I am going to start just listing the "menu" acronyms on the terb site when announcing a new girl. I have seen another agency do this and I’m sure they have the right idea and that other agencies should take their lead as well. This way it leaves no guesswork up to the client or embarrassing situations for the girl.
btw....Im going to Montreal this week and Im bringing you back something!!, hehehehe.
I’m really starting to see the frustration that lies in the community around these acronyms. I am going to start just listing the "menu" acronyms on the terb site when announcing a new girl. I have seen another agency do this and I’m sure they have the right idea and that other agencies should take their lead as well. This way it leaves no guesswork up to the client or embarrassing situations for the girl.
btw....Im going to Montreal this week and Im bringing you back something!!, hehehehe.
This thread touches upon some very basic issues as they pertain to hobbyists, sps, and this board. Of course, it would be nice if hobbyists could have as much reliable information as possible when choosing an sp. Referring to reviews, reading the online descriptions, talking to the phone person... all great. But the fact of life in this hobby is that you just never know. It's not like we're buying cars here and there are hard and fast specifications. If you are too cautious, you might miss out on a really great sp. If you are too cavalier, you might wind up with some bad experiences and out a few hundred dollars on top of it.
In general, I would say that participating on this board has given me a more favorable risk/reward profile when it comes to choosing sp's. But I have seen my fair share of forgettable sp's who came well reviewed, as well as my fair share of really great sp's who came with no reviews at all. The point of all this rambing is a point I have made before on this board... this is not a hobby for sissies. If you want sure things, then this hobby might not be for you. If you like a little adventure, where the worst thing that can happen is you will get laid, and you aren't going to whine like a little baby if not every sp turns out to be your dream girl, then this can be a great hobby.
In general, I would say that participating on this board has given me a more favorable risk/reward profile when it comes to choosing sp's. But I have seen my fair share of forgettable sp's who came well reviewed, as well as my fair share of really great sp's who came with no reviews at all. The point of all this rambing is a point I have made before on this board... this is not a hobby for sissies. If you want sure things, then this hobby might not be for you. If you like a little adventure, where the worst thing that can happen is you will get laid, and you aren't going to whine like a little baby if not every sp turns out to be your dream girl, then this can be a great hobby.
whilst appreciating your honesty,your listing for coco,inspired my current bemusement....the point that is being discussed is ...if safe girlfriend means anything at all to you or i,other than all covered,and safe,why not say safe sp.with no gf status....as the term gf beggers other servicesMartiniGirls said:
to be really honest ,i personally wouldnt pivot a definition of a gfe service on a bbbj,at all,especially a safe gfe,which i believe to have much broader meanings and expectations,than covered or not....i belive the term arises from a reaction,and isnt very helpfull is describing anything other than what it doesnt do...HappyHookers said:
The point of the term "Safe GFE" in my understanding is meant to describe a SP who provides all the aspects of a girl friend expereince but with everything being safe as in covered. What part of that is troubling or misleading to you? I mean if "GFE" by definition to you is DFK and BBBJ, then attitude doesn't play into the equation either. At least from my understanding SAFE GFE SP's have the attitude of a girlfriends, the kissing, cuddling, petting, playing aspect. You have no reassurance that a regular GFE is going to give you any of that but you know you get a BBBJ. Is that the point you are trying to make. At least you know you get a BBBJ.?
Now if the agency is misleading by saying a women is a SAFE GFE and they are very mechanical then write a review stating that. I don't understand the point of a thread like this basically seemingly to condemn anyone who claims to be a Safe GFE as it "it does nothing for you"
HH
Now if the agency is misleading by saying a women is a SAFE GFE and they are very mechanical then write a review stating that. I don't understand the point of a thread like this basically seemingly to condemn anyone who claims to be a Safe GFE as it "it does nothing for you"
HH
Actually "Safe GFE" is more definitive than "GFE".
I read this thread and I think we should now be able to include "IJMMGFE" which is clearly "I just met my girlfriend experience" which 78.89% of the time means you are going to have to use protection. Then there is the "LTGFE" which means "Long term girlfriend experience" where you can expect BBBJ. The extension to that is "RLTGFE" which is "Really LTGFE" which implies you have a few "IJMMGFE" lying around. And finally "TWIWDGFE" which means "The Wish I was Dead GFE".
I read this thread and I think we should now be able to include "IJMMGFE" which is clearly "I just met my girlfriend experience" which 78.89% of the time means you are going to have to use protection. Then there is the "LTGFE" which means "Long term girlfriend experience" where you can expect BBBJ. The extension to that is "RLTGFE" which is "Really LTGFE" which implies you have a few "IJMMGFE" lying around. And finally "TWIWDGFE" which means "The Wish I was Dead GFE".
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I hear your point, and I agree with it. Having terms that are unclear and vary from person to person can be as bad as having no information at all. But again, my overarching point is, you're never going to be completely sure what an sp is like until she is in your room or house or whatever. The term "safe gfe" might suck, but the point is, no description is going to be 100% accurate, 100% of the time.willie said:
