Save yourself the money
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You would rather spend hundreds of dollars than developing sexual social skills that will last with you the rest of your life?
Would I rather spend a couple hundred dollars to have great sex with a beautiful woman of my choosing when and where I want, as opposed to spending endless soul-sucking hours being rejected by women I treat like shit in the increasingly faint hope that one of them will be so drunk or lacking in self esteem that they'll fall for my "game" and have furtive, shitty sex with me that we will both regret? Of course not! Sign me up. What's it cost? Howzat? Nothing more than a HUGE amount of time, all my self-awareness, self-respect, and respect for any other living breathing human being? Oh, plus my drinks and probably hers? Wow! What's the catch?
Initially I made two comments but removed one.
The one I removed said, "Plus I'm too old for it to do me any good."
It's never too late my friend, as long as you try, have fun, have confidence, the whole world is yours.
Only chumps pay for a girls drinks, I haven't bought a single drink for a female for at least a year now. Unless shes willing to pay for yours, why should you? Are you saying that there are no women of great beauty outside the hobby industry? Of course there is, if anything even more beautiful and even more plentiful. I would rather be rejected and laughed at for 2 seconds as to having to ask myself "what if" later on. You're looking at either having months of regular sex with a girl you managed to seduce or never seeing her again. There's nothing better than looking back and realizing the progress you managed to make in your life in the field of seduction. It knows no boundaries, as should you. Always look to improve yourself, your social dynamics and of course have fun.
OH, I dunno. I figure you can get a similar sense of fulfillment from advancement in a career in politics, law, or petty crime. Nonetheless, you have intrigued me with this talk of not paying for her drinks. Learn to be an insufferable douchebag AND never pay for drinks? Wow! Please, sign me up for your newsletter.
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I refer to random females, respectively. Friends on the other hand are a different matter. They really do, that's the funny part.And you're proud of this? You're one classy dude, bet the girls love you!
You have to join the fan club, there is no monthly newsletter. I am an insufferable douchebag because I want to contribute my 2 cents into helping the hobby regulars into saving a few bucks? Have mercy lord.
No, you're an insufferable douchebag because you're a cheap pr*ck who wouldn't buy a lady a drink! Not a standup guy in my books!
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It's not about being cheap prick... It's about being a dumb tool who buys girls drinks just because she gave him 5 seconds of attention (most guys think if they buy the chick a drink that they will get laid because it shows they are "kind and generous" oh please lolo.....) and leaves after she got what she really wanted. I think It's okay to buy her a drink after she invested a good amount of time with you. Or better yet nailed you.
Again.. not saying that's you but most guys are tooled like that.
At least someone's got a brain. Buying her a drink will only show her "Oh look another average chump who would do anything for my undivided attention", and you end up being taken advantage of. A few words from a lady who is thirsty can do wonders on the mind of someone looking to get laid.
If the only reason you would buy a lady a drink was to get laid, you're a shallow immature pr*ck as well as a cheap one!
No. You are an insufferable douchebag because you have bought into this whole pick-up-artist system where through a combination of having no regard for yourself or for women (in general or individually), you hit on so many women that (you hope) sooner or later one will say "yes". The law of averages doesn't make you a sexy, savvy social mover and shaker. It makes you an asshole who treats all women like shit but does it so relentlessly that one poor idiot is bound to eventually give you what you want.
But hey, you're not an asshole, you're a real humanitarian who wants to share the secrets of your success! All those voices you hear saying you have all the emotional depth of frat house rug? Jealous, amirite? And the fact that even people who pay strangers to fuck them are shocked at the extent to which you and your ilk objectify and shit on women? Not at all a warning sign, is it.
Certainly could not have said as well as you! Glad some guys on here have class and respect!!
Well done sir!
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Just curious why do you buy a lady a drink? Just to talk about the weather or perhaps what her favorite hobbies are.
