Seeking arrangements
- Thread starter desert monk
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My previous SB was exclusive and I gave her 400 per evening. We would meet two or three times a month - so maximum of 1,200 per month.
Usually we would have dinner and bedroom fun. So maybe three hours.
I am 55-plus so one round is all I can do .... unless it's an overnighter.
Same question if you are doing weekly or monrhly options. Likely bigger $$ if not ppm, so upfront risk is higher for SD. Longer between payments, risk could be higher for Sb.
Is their a middle ground so both parties are somewhat protected?
Is their a middle ground so both parties are somewhat protected?
Even with my SB whom I saw for 2 years, we always did ppm. I would highly urge everyone to avoid monthly allowance as there is a high risk that she will ghost. Unless she is willing to get the allowance at the END of the month .... lol
yes, and even worse if they are happy to come to your place right away
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Akila Besos
Not all service Industry girls are bad... I dont feel its right to avoid a group completely
Sure in any industry you can find bad apples who dabble with drugs and whatnot
Sure in any industry you can find bad apples who dabble with drugs and whatnot
The red flag was for SA girls in the service industry. You are right to say that not all service industry girls are heavy party girls.
30 mins for 400-500??? I hope that was when you decided to finish lol. Im using my buddys snap as a place to talk. Honestly i feel like ive had better chemistry with sps so far but would like a date experience mixed in with it where you have to run out the door which is why im trying the sb route.
I really like the discussion likes this one because it gives us lots of very good and useful information for everyone. I found the old thread of similar information written mostly a little over a year ago: https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/seeking-arrangement-my-advice.664659/
However, in that old thread, there was a girl named DawnLee frequently derailed the thread to something else LOL. I am surprised that she is no longer interested in this current discussion.
However, in that old thread, there was a girl named DawnLee frequently derailed the thread to something else LOL. I am surprised that she is no longer interested in this current discussion.
Hey, a bit late to the party, and haven't read all the posts, but here's my $0.02:
Been in a SA relationship for a few months now. It's my second one - the first was decent but the ppm was pretty high in my mind. The tradeoff was she was young, hot, and the sex was amazing.
The second one has honestly been mind-blowing. We click in most regards, which makes the SB concept more appealing for me than going to an SP.
We are ppm but it's pretty fluid, if we meet more than once a week then it's usually a smaller amount for the second meeting. While it is still transactional, she's never even asked for the money - one time I almost left without leaving it, and I had the feeling she probably wouldn't have said anything.
The only downside is that is feels like it might be trending towards a relationship, which would spell disaster, but so far she's on board with the fact that I'm not leaving my situation.
I had to go through a bunch of conversations on SA before finding each of these, but it wasn't overly taxing for me... for most it was pretty clear right away that it wasn't going to work. What I like about it is that it's upfront in terms of what both sides are looking for, so it's easy to get straight to things like expectations and desires.
Based on what I spend vs what I get in return I'm totally satisfied with the SA relationship. Of course that won't be everybody's experience, but here's hoping it works for you!
Been in a SA relationship for a few months now. It's my second one - the first was decent but the ppm was pretty high in my mind. The tradeoff was she was young, hot, and the sex was amazing.
The second one has honestly been mind-blowing. We click in most regards, which makes the SB concept more appealing for me than going to an SP.
We are ppm but it's pretty fluid, if we meet more than once a week then it's usually a smaller amount for the second meeting. While it is still transactional, she's never even asked for the money - one time I almost left without leaving it, and I had the feeling she probably wouldn't have said anything.
The only downside is that is feels like it might be trending towards a relationship, which would spell disaster, but so far she's on board with the fact that I'm not leaving my situation.
I had to go through a bunch of conversations on SA before finding each of these, but it wasn't overly taxing for me... for most it was pretty clear right away that it wasn't going to work. What I like about it is that it's upfront in terms of what both sides are looking for, so it's easy to get straight to things like expectations and desires.
Based on what I spend vs what I get in return I'm totally satisfied with the SA relationship. Of course that won't be everybody's experience, but here's hoping it works for you!
I have had 4 such arrangements, but from a different website. Never discussed money before hand, or asked for a deposit. Met all 4 for a coffee to see if there was any chemistry. (have met more then 4, but no chemistry with the others so it cost me a coffee or a few drinks depending on the person). It's basically like going on a date, but there is money involved. Age ranges were 32-23. Like a first date you feel each other out, see if there is some chemistry, and both afraid to ask about $. I've always stuck is PPM. It's ranged from 300-100. Obviouusly the hotter the more $. Now for me the higher the $ signs the lest the chemistry. Like any relationship YMMV. You have some SB, that are only about $ and those who are struggling and new $. SO, like any dating website, you'll find your jewels, and the opposite. Every relationship is different, just like normal dating. My advice is, never pay upfront, but never short change the lady. My 2 cents.
