Seeking arrangements

[shack]

I recently met an absolutely beautiful 18 year old Asian for a meet and greet.

She's looking for $200/wk with sex for an approx 4 hour date.

 

[guyfromtdot]

I cant believe I didn't try this out earlier, but special thanks to ScrubFan for his post in the other thread. I may never see SP's again lol

I am in a fairly similar circumstances to him in terms of age and money I'm wiling to spend on my dick. Got some feedback from him on how i should structure the profile, and how i should approach the arrangments, and off i went.

[Side note, I'm fairly active and good looking (not in a cocky/ delusional way), i used to be pretty active on tinder, and had great results, but ive had a 2 year break from it, and saw SP's more frequently.. less drama, useless texting, and headaches.] Now, i know someones reading this like "ya, big guy, why dont you just go get girls in real life then" ... well, I'm not a huge extrovert, and im not a fan of clubbing or bars, so limited opportunities to meet women outside of work and the gym.

After 3 days on SA I have had plenty of success. Most sps are surprised when they see me for the first time, but the reaction to my presence on SA is even more shocking, leading me to believe not many young guys have tried this app out.

Anyways, in the last 3 days I have had following offers, all within the ages lf 19- 24, and i would say all are quite attractive (not DDG by my standards), but better than most escorts the guys on here tend to give high ratings to.

First lady I came to an agreement with, and we are still speaking wanted $75/day initially, however she ended up agreeing to 150-200 per visit, which i told her would probably only see her twice per month.

Another wanted an allowance of at least $100 / week for university, snd she is down to chill, dinner, drinks and as she said, " .. I smoke kush too so we could always smoke a blunt and do whatever you’re looking to do".

The last, who I actually have really great conversations with doesn't want money, we both have similar interests, so she's down to just go to the beach, chill, go on hikes etc.. not caught up in the hype of downtown drinking, clubbing, etc. She said she made it last year, has had an arrangement in the past, but would feel wrong taking money from me, however there is attraction on both levels. Supposed to meet next week.

One wants me to train her in the gym, but she's all the way in loo, but if she's attractive enough i might make a trip once or twice a week.. price hasn't be discussed.

Few $500 ppm girls, but i don't think i will participate in that, unless I find an absolute smoke show that makes me forget how to think logically.

Ive gotten a few messages from 10s, but my net worth doesn't allow me to provide the lifestyle they want, so once I make that clear they go about their business. Once you ignore those ones there are a lot of good options for any guys in their mid 20s who happen to read this.

I do well on tinder, however this app, for a young guy with a little disposable money is like tinder on steroids. Tinder is oversaturated, and a lot of girls on there really just there for conversation/ distraction. What i accomplished in 2 days on SA would probably take 4 weeks on tinder. Chicks on there have already decided they are willing to meet for some money, so when it's potentially with a younger guy they connect with it's a win/win. They know you want sex, not a relationship aswell, whereas with tinder theres a lot of beating around the bush, and useless repetitive conversations.
It also seems like the milage on SA, for what I'll be spending will be far greater than agency sp's (and not in terms of raw sex, rather the removal of time constraints, and the enjoyment of the sex from both parties)


Obviously im not going to see all of these girls, I am coincidentally most attracted to the girl that doesn't want money, and I may try the $100/ week arrangement aswell, as that girl seems like my vibe and is also good looking.

In terms of negatives - far too many favourites from Venezuela/ brazil/ USA. Scrubs did warn me about this.

my biggest regret is not getting this app before, but when universities are fully reopen I'm sure it'll be be swarming... What a time to be alive.


Will probably post another story once my 1 month experiment on here ends, but so far so good.

check your inbox, would love some tips on how to set up my profile for best results. have used it in the past and got good results but there was just a lot of fluff to go through as well. would love some tips

 

[Dakotabrasco]

anyone else with an iphone not finding the app? What’s the next best step? Just register/use through a browser?

 

[Danny46709394]

I recently met an absolutely beautiful 18 year old Asian for a meet and greet.

She's looking for $200/wk with sex for an approx 4 hour date.

Is that the normal pricing? I never use SA before, but I was told the price is $500+/date + all the expenses.

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

anyone else with an iphone not finding the app? What’s the next best step? Just register/use through a browser?

Correct. The app was taken off Iphones a while (years) ago. The website works well on mobile devices now so you will be good to go if you decide to jump into the Sugar bowl.

 

[Leimonis]

Is that the normal pricing? I never use SA before, but I was told the price is $500+/date + all the expenses.

what you were told is quite accurate

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

Is that the normal pricing? I never use SA before, but I was told the price is $500+/date + all the expenses.

Normal? No. It's on the lower side of expectations for sure, hence shack has done well to find this potential SB.

$300-600ppm is what you can expect from majority of the SB's in the GTA currently or at least a safe budgetary planning amount for sure.

Last week a SB I met for dinner last year when things finally opened up for a while and then told me she found another SD to move ahead with (wished her well) reached out to touch base, hoping we could meet up again and discuss. She shared the previous gent was married and gave her $600ppm each time he could come over to her condo for 'a bit of fun' and was great...until he (50's) started talking about leaving his wife to 'be with her' (26) and she had to end it.

I thanked her for the chat and politely declined $600ppm as she also is looking for weekly (or more) visits as well. She surprised me and suggested $400ppm would work for her and once a week ideally. Noting she's quite beautiful and able to host (I currently don't live in town and would need to hotel each time I visited her if she didn't host) has me meeting her for dinner at least next week to catch up more and see where it goes.

 

[Danny46709394]

Normal? No. It's on the lower side of expectations for sure, hence shack has done well to find this potential SB.

$300-600ppm is what you can expect from majority of the SB's in the GTA currently or at least a safe budgetary planning amount for sure.

Last week a SB I met for dinner last year when things finally opened up for a while and then told me she found another SD to move ahead with (wished her well) reached out to touch base, hoping we could meet up again and discuss. She shared the previous gent was married and gave her $600ppm each time he could come over to her condo for 'a bit of fun' and was great...until he (50's) started talking about leaving his wife to 'be with her' (26) and she had to end it.

I thanked her for the chat and politely declined $600ppm as she also is looking for weekly (or more) visits as well. She surprised me and suggested $400ppm would work for her and once a week ideally. Noting she's quite beautiful and able to host (I currently don't live in town and would need to hotel each time I visited her if she didn't host) has me meeting her for dinner at least next week to catch up more and see where it goes.

Interesting. How do you find SA? Is it a lot work to find a potential SB? I would like to try it, but given the cost/benefits, it seems more reasonable to just hang out with friends and visit an SP

 

[Danny46709394]

what you were told is quite accurate

Ya, that's seems very pricy. I won't be able to afford this as a weekly thing

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

Ya, that's seems very pricy. I won't be able to afford this as a weekly thing

Very understandable and hence your monthly budget allows you to see escorts is likely the best choice for you and hence you are here on terb.

The choice gets cloudier when you have say a $2000/month budget to have fun with. Does one then see 5-8 SP sessions a month for 45-60 minutes at a time, or have a SB they see for 3-5 hours per date on a weekly basis. No wrong answer and I'm one of many who has certainly going from focusing on a SB for a while to coming back to seeing SP's again or a mixture of both.

 

[shack]

Is that the normal pricing? I never use SA before, but I was told the price is $500+/date + all the expenses.

There is no set price. It is whatever both parties agree upon.

 

[IMBob]

Compensation is all over the map . I've been messaging a lady in PEI , from my last full membership in April . I arrived here last week and have been texting her.
She doesn't like seafood . I offered ice cream to meet . Her last text was ,

"And tbh, I get paid to go on dates like from $200 to $1000 : ) just to see if we connect."

.... smh .... Next . Some Leolist escort ads $500/hr ! So I paid for another 1 month member$hip.

 

[oral.com]

Normal? No. It's on the lower side of expectations for sure, hence shack has done well to find this potential SB.

$300-600ppm is what you can expect from majority of the SB's in the GTA currently or at least a safe budgetary planning amount for sure.

Last week a SB I met for dinner last year when things finally opened up for a while and then told me she found another SD to move ahead with (wished her well) reached out to touch base, hoping we could meet up again and discuss. She shared the previous gent was married and gave her $600ppm each time he could come over to her condo for 'a bit of fun' and was great...until he (50's) started talking about leaving his wife to 'be with her' (26) and she had to end it.

I thanked her for the chat and politely declined $600ppm as she also is looking for weekly (or more) visits as well. She surprised me and suggested $400ppm would work for her and once a week ideally. Noting she's quite beautiful and able to host (I currently don't live in town and would need to hotel each time I visited her if she didn't host) has me meeting her for dinner at least next week to catch up more and see where it goes.

I often wonder if that’s the standard professional SB line since I’ve heard it so often (and it’s always 600).

 

[G.D. Gentleman]

I often wonder if that’s the standard professional SB line since I’ve heard it so often (and it’s always 600).

More and more SB's are finding Reddits and discussion platforms when they search/research becoming a sugar baby and reading that they can ask for $600ppm in Toronto. A couple 'first time SB's' I chatted with over the last 2 years indicated their research lead them to asking for the $400 and now the $600ppm.

 

[GiantJeanFerre]

I’ve only used pre-paid cards and never had an issue. Nice find! I have used both. SDM and SA. SDM dates were always better. SA has more girls, SDM fewer scammers. (My experience)

What is SDM? I googled and found SDMeet and SDMatch. One of those?

 

[kous]

Price can range from $300-$1000+ depending on the girl and what you want. you need to have rules in place for yourself and stick to them.

If you are just looking for sex be straight forward with them and it will save you lots of time. I Never negotiate with them. If they ask for more than $500 I let them know that is more than I am willing to offer and they will either come back with a lower request or the conversation ends there.

If you are looking for the cheaper option then an SP will defiantly be better for you.

The benefit for me is your not stuck to 30mins/45mins/hour and I find in my experience the girls I have met on SA have been more GFE than 90% of the SPs.

 

[kous]

Interesting. How do you find SA? Is it a lot work to find a potential SB? I would like to try it, but given the cost/benefits, it seems more reasonable to just hang out with friends and visit an SP

I find it pretty easy and I don't have a lot of free time. in an average monthly subscription I spend about an hour or so a day randomly checking in and messaging/responding to girls. by the end of the month I have about 10-15 girls lined up and meet 2-3.

I have met about 9-10 girls from SA and have not had 1 bad experience so far.

 

[oral.com]

What is SDM? I googled and found SDMeet and SDMatch. One of those?

SDM, Sugar Daddy Meet has become a toilet this year, filled with gangsta talking illiterate girls asking for far too much

 

[Tony2000]

Based on some of the comments here, I think it's important to clarify the difference between seeing an SP and having a sugar baby. If you are just looking for quick sex, then stick with an SP. It will be cheaper and less work to arrange.

On the other hand, I prefer having an SB. We usually meet for dinner and hotel fun. Sometimes we go on trips to Niagara or Vegas. It's definitely more of a GFE experience and I enjoy having dinner with a beautiful young woman. Cost per evening is 300 to 500.

 

[MissMaxxine]

I used to use Seeking Arrangement; there's an equal amount of time wasters that are both sugar babies and sugar daddies, finding a good one takes time, but there are some genuine connections to be made there if you're patient! I've had two very fulfilling sugar relationships from there. Not saying it wasn't headache trying to find those good ones though lol

Has anyone used this website? What was your experience? I signed up recently. It basically has all the women from my area who I would like to be dating, but I can't find them/access them otherwise. Are these sugar babies mostly scammers? I read somewhere that they tend to string you along and not provide sex. I remember reading threads about this in the past, but couldn't find them. The skeptic in me is worried this would turn into a glorified version of seeing an SP, where I pay 4X the money and have to use "game" to actually get to the sex part, which would be a waste of time obviously. Edit: I have noticed many women on SA who are also on dating sites like PlentyOfFish. What is also a little weird is, many of these women are not attractive at all. It seems like this is the new way to date online?