No getting around it, its sex work. But it suits girls who want to control their experience as much as possible.
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in every which way. They pick their clients for starters.
That being said, I also would agree that if a girl doesn't care who to fcuk she may as well sign up with an agency and avoid the work related to booking/sifting through SDs etc
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Nope. Not true at all. I have met with a number of SBs over the years. The vast majority want to meet just one guy and have an ongoing arrangement with him.
Aye, the hunt for the great white whale....
LOL but true. Most ladies would rather have 1 client paying $1000 vs 5 paying $200 each...
Is it something you want your daughter to do? No
Is it something you want someone else’s daughter to do with you? Hell yes
Is it hypocritical? I dunno
A comment on the original point of the post. I’m not in Toronto so my results may me a bit different.
I’d been using the “SB“ site with no luck at all, its based on a credits system, buy them and spend them to contact girls. It’s full of scams and bots getting you to use up the credits.
Finally gave up and tried SA, and I‘m having way more success. 9 days in and I’ve met one girl, we’ve agreed on terms and we’ll hookup next week to see if we both enjoy the sex and company. Having a drink with another tomorrow just to keep my options open if #1 falls through, and have 3 others that I’m chatting with just in case
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I‘ve never considered myself handsome or special. Just a normal guy, who knows not to be an asshole on any kind of site. I think SB is a scam, but success on SA seems to be about persistence and treating the girls with respect. Be careful, and think with the big head and success is possible.
I’d been using the “SB“ site with no luck at all, its based on a credits system, buy them and spend them to contact girls. It’s full of scams and bots getting you to use up the credits.
Finally gave up and tried SA, and I‘m having way more success. 9 days in and I’ve met one girl, we’ve agreed on terms and we’ll hookup next week to see if we both enjoy the sex and company. Having a drink with another tomorrow just to keep my options open if #1 falls through, and have 3 others that I’m chatting with just in case
. I‘ve never considered myself handsome or special. Just a normal guy, who knows not to be an asshole on any kind of site. I think SB is a scam, but success on SA seems to be about persistence and treating the girls with respect. Be careful, and think with the big head and success is possible.
Yes, SA is an OK site. I have been on and off over the years (had an arrangement for more than 2 years so I was off for a while). Lately, I have been finding that there is a dearth of new members - I live in a college town outside of the GTA. I am not sure if covid fears are making young women reluctant to sign up. I have recently expanded my search to the GTA because there is nothing in my town. I have three SBs on the go right now. I will have to narrow that down at some point due to budgetary concerns. LOL.A comment on the original point of the post. I’m not in Toronto so my results may me a bit different.
I’d been using the “SB“ site with no luck at all, its based on a credits system, buy them and spend them to contact girls. It’s full of scams and bots getting you to use up the credits.
Finally gave up and tried SA, and I‘m having way more success. 9 days in and I’ve met one girl, we’ve agreed on terms and we’ll hookup next week to see if we both enjoy the sex and company. Having a drink with another tomorrow just to keep my options open if #1 falls through, and have 3 others that I’m chatting with just in case
I‘ve never considered myself handsome or special. Just a normal guy, who knows not to be an asshole on any kind of site. I think SB is a scam, but success on SA seems to be about persistence and treating the girls with respect. Be careful, and think with the big head and success is possible.
SA does require a lot of patience and persistence. It's hard to jump on the site and find someone right away. In my most recent efforts, I have been on the site for about 2 months. So if you are not willing to put the time in, stick with SPs.
Hoping to reactivate this interesting thread for 2022. Is SA still the best site for us in the gta?
Yes and no
Yes = I find the site a little more work and more expensive over all but I I find I enjoy my sessions on SA more. Your average cost per hour is good if you like long dates
No = If you are looking for cheap and quick options
I am seeing one girl off of Secret Benefits and never paid for a membership. When I get an email from SB I always do a pic search to see results. Often just from the results you get a sense of real or not. This girl was 100% real as it linked to her LinkedIn page. I added her on LinkedIn and started chatting. We now see each other 1-2 times per month. Each time is the same I but her a few outfits, one that's her choice and one that I want to see her in. We then go back to the hotel for her to change into my outfit of choice and go for dinner/drinks before returning for a nightcap. Only cash spent is a small tip I leave her each time.
I would say SA is the best if your just starting out in the sugar world. There are a lot of time wasters or sp's on there so it is hard to weed out the true legitimate sb's on there. Once you get your feet wet and connect with a few sb's you will be surprised of how eager some girls may be to refer some of their friends too you.
Interesting approach and I've heard of similar situations. I know of an individual that reaches out to model agencies and "hires" the model for a photoshoot then propositions the idea of sugaring. Most do just go on the sites and go from there but that's one way of avoiding a membership although kind of odd to reach out from Linkedin but it worked out regardless.
Interesting technique, but seems like a lot of trouble and money just to test if a young lady is open to the idea of "sugaring". SA is around $100 a month so i think that would be more fruitful and cheaper option. Once you a get a list of potential candidates you can follow up with them.
When you can whale on this industry and want to see girls you have your eye on then its a drop in the bucket. Apparently it was a reality TV actress. To be honest if the monthly subscription is a deterrent then those guys shouldn't be seeing SBs anyway, but there are cheaper and faster ways regardless.
If that works, good. I just thought it would involve a lot of time to get the model, set up a shoot and convert her into a SB.
Not sure if Canadian SA differs from USA SA but here I've had success with SA. You have to talk to many girls before you get the one or two that work for you. But here most of the successful arrangements were girls who wanted to meet up for drinks/dinner and then have fun for an agreed upon price. They always say they're looking for a connection. But I believe that means a connection from my wallet to theirs and of course some gentlemanly manners and politeness goes far. Some US girls do want something long term or even some weekly allowance, but I always tell them that is something we work up to, not start out with.
How are some of the Canadian SA experiences. Are they ok with something casual, and monetary?
It does. For reference it wasn't me personally. My experience in going that route is approaching girls about business collaborations online and if the conversation gets a bit more casual you can approach them about sugaring.
Lots of users complaining about lack of success but they're probably on the site for a month to get in as much as they can but the sugaring process does take a bit longer as girls aren't glued to the site and have their own lives to go about but most approach it like SPs wanting a quick fix. In the end I find it far more worthwhile cause where else are you going to find younger girls to hookup with. Connection can be forced in those cases, you just have to make them comfortable enough to move forward to the bedroom and unless you're incredibly socially awkward it should be quite easy to transition things. It does take a softer approach in most cases but I think most approach it as if the girl is obligated to service you like a SP.
I do totally fine with it and so does the community I interact with, we normally stick with casual hookups instead of going full blown SD doing monthly allowances and gifts.
