The One Spa

Seeking arrangements

GeeBee

Connoisseur of life's pleasures
Sep 15, 2019
486
691
93
If that works, good. I just thought it would involve a lot of time to get the model, set up a shoot and convert her into a SB.

Not sure if Canadian SA differs from USA SA but here I've had success with SA. You have to talk to many girls before you get the one or two that work for you. But here most of the successful arrangements were girls who wanted to meet up for drinks/dinner and then have fun for an agreed upon price. They always say they're looking for a connection. But I believe that means a connection from my wallet to theirs and of course some gentlemanly manners and politeness goes far. Some US girls do want something long term or even some weekly allowance, but I always tell them that is something we work up to, not start out with.

How are some of the Canadian SA experiences. Are they ok with something casual, and monetary?
I've had success with Canadian SA, much the same as your experience. It takes some effort and time, but worth the $ IMO. It's a drop in the bucket compared to what you'll end up spending if you connect with a few girls.

Biggest key to success is being a gentleman in your communications and being patient. "hey Babe wanna hook up" isn't going to get you anywhere. And go for the girls who aren't quit the model types. I've had the best success, and the best sex tbh, with girls who might be a little plain Jane and don't get a thousand messages from every horny guy looking for an SB.
 

shack

Nitpicker Extraordinaire
Oct 2, 2001
53,950
11,814
113
Toronto
Biggest key to success is being a gentleman in your communications and being patient. "hey Babe wanna hook up" isn't going to get you anywhere. And go for the girls who aren't quit the model types. I've had the best success, and the best sex tbh, with girls who might be a little plain Jane and don't get a thousand messages from every horny guy looking for an SB.
This.
 

superman12

Active Member
Mar 28, 2013
889
1,713
93
I've had success with Canadian SA, much the same as your experience. It takes some effort and time, but worth the $ IMO. It's a drop in the bucket compared to what you'll end up spending if you connect with a few girls.

Biggest key to success is being a gentleman in your communications and being patient. "hey Babe wanna hook up" isn't going to get you anywhere. And go for the girls who aren't quit the model types. I've had the best success, and the best sex tbh, with girls who might be a little plain Jane and don't get a thousand messages from every horny guy looking for an SB.
Agree. I have no idea why some men think there going to be able to get with a girl thats probably much younger then them acting like a douchebag. Being a gentlemen goes a really long way in both the sp and sb world. I dont see any problems in telling a girl that you find attractive that shes beautiful and backing it up with a nice dinner or a few gifts to spoil her. I can guarantee that women will be more inclined to sleep with you if you treat them right rather then coming off as a jackass. But i guess alot of men just think with there little head rather then there big head.
 

Leimonis

Well-known member
Feb 28, 2020
10,374
10,371
113
Not sure if Canadian SA differs from USA SA
I feel that there is a huge difference. Americans don't have legalized prostitution so their "daddies" use SA for that, and there is a ton of SBs who do the same. The vibe is very different. For example, when I mentioned on an sugar lifestyle subreddit that I pay SBs after sex, I was viciously attacked for it.
 
Last edited:

Badhabits

Active member
Dec 1, 2018
127
126
43
SLF is just a bunch of frustrated leftovers that no one wants on the sites so they complain there. Then there's the regular white knights that circle jerk as usual, you'll notice they never criticize the girls that shouldn't be sugaring and just give pointers on how to improve their profiles.
 

kroller

New member
May 13, 2022
5
1
3
I'm not new to SA but new to SA in Canada.

I think SA, SB, etc. need a separate section in TERB. The fact that this post has gone 11 pages over several years is telling.

Essentially SDs need space to provide reviews on current SBs. Moreso, it helps us identify the scammers so we don't waste our time. Generally speaking I avoid any SB with a single picture in their profile. I have run into so many scam artists who want me to send them funds ASAP or prior to M&G. For the real SB, some are down for FS and some are not, therefore it would help to know what one's menu is. Finally what is the allowance your SB expects. This is common practice in other forums in the US.

For anyone wondering why you should share the gem you have found for yourself, words of caution, it is just an arrangement not a relationship.

Finally, I find a very significant number of SBs in Toronto are open to show up at your place for a rendezvous versus a M&G at a cafe. Tells you how much they value their time and are more likely escorts.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: superman12

Leimonis

Well-known member
Feb 28, 2020
10,374
10,371
113
Finally, I find a very significant number of SBs in Toronto are open to show up at your place for a rendezvous versus a M&G at a cafe. Tells you how much they value their time and are more likely escorts.
I also noticed that. Seemed to me to be an indication of general stupidity.
 

Ryan4life

Well-known member
Feb 11, 2011
684
621
93
Stopped by the LCBO at bayview village yesterday, as I was walking in I spotted this gorgeous blond girl at the entrance, probably 24, 5'6 wearing skin tight jeans and a crop top, the next thing I know this nerdy looking Indian guy grabs her hand and off they went walking hand in hand, she even looked happy to be with him. I was like holly shit did this dude just capture the holly grail of sugar babies?
 
  • Like
Reactions: Greytop19

black booty lover

Well-known member
Oct 21, 2007
9,794
1,744
113
I find it hard to believe there's no other platforms to try this other then going through the nonsense of SA. I used to post on CL, and my email would get all kinds of bites. I don't think the issue is that there's no supply of semi or non pros, it's more a matter of a new generation and where to find them. Almost like going on tinder but coming out and saying "I'm willing to pay".
 

superman12

Active Member
Mar 28, 2013
889
1,713
93
I'm not new to SA but new to SA in Canada.

I think SA, SB, etc. need a separate section in TERB. The fact that this post has gone 11 pages over several years is telling.

Essentially SDs need space to provide reviews on current SBs. Moreso, it helps us identify the scammers so we don't waste our time. Generally speaking I avoid any SB with a single picture in their profile. I have run into so many scam artists who want me to send them funds ASAP or prior to M&G. For the real SB, some are down for FS and some are not, therefore it would help to know what one's menu is. Finally what is the allowance your SB expects. This is common practice in other forums in the US.

For anyone wondering why you should share the gem you have found for yourself, words of caution, it is just an arrangement not a relationship.

Finally, I find a very significant number of SBs in Toronto are open to show up at your place for a rendezvous versus a M&G at a cafe. Tells you how much they value their time and are more likely escorts.
I think a section on terb for reviewing sb's would be a good idea but i dont know how many legit sb's who are not escorts would actually want there info shared online on a forum like this? From my experience with real sb's i have seen most often there just starting out in college or university trying to make ends meet and try sugaring out for a little while. A lot of them surprinsingly come from conservative backgrounds and families who have no clue that there an sb dating guys who are usually much older then them for money so discretion is very important to them. The escorts who disguise themselves as sb's probably wont care if there reviewed online and info shared because there just looking for their next client.
 

Greytop19

Well-known member
Jul 29, 2019
951
1,120
93
Stopped by the LCBO at bayview village yesterday, as I was walking in I spotted this gorgeous blond girl at the entrance, probably 24, 5'6 wearing skin tight jeans and a crop top, the next thing I know this nerdy looking Indian guy grabs her hand and off they went walking hand in hand, she even looked happy to be with him. I was like holly shit did this dude just capture the holly grail of sugar babies?
Strange crap happens in life and this is not an isolated incident.
I am sure this gorgeous blond gets eaten few times a day and is treated like a queen by the Indian guy.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: johnd5050

MuffDiver

No patience
Oct 12, 2001
1,034
671
113
St. Catharines
I think a section on terb for reviewing sb's would be a good idea but i dont know how many legit sb's who are not escorts would actually want there info shared online on a forum like this? From my experience with real sb's i have seen most often there just starting out in college or university trying to make ends meet and try sugaring out for a little while. A lot of them surprinsingly come from conservative backgrounds and families who have no clue that there an sb dating guys who are usually much older then them for money so discretion is very important to them. The escorts who disguise themselves as sb's probably wont care if there reviewed online and info shared because there just looking for their next client.
Not so much as a review section per se, but we definitely need a place to out the scammers. Escorts typically see many different men, where a SB may not and also may not be available to just any guy who asks. There is more often than not a mutual attraction and chemistry for her to proceed.
 
  • Like
Reactions: superman12

lomotil

Well-known member
Mar 14, 2004
6,751
1,597
113
Oblivion
Stopped by the LCBO at bayview village yesterday, as I was walking in I spotted this gorgeous blond girl at the entrance, probably 24, 5'6 wearing skin tight jeans and a crop top, the next thing I know this nerdy looking Indian guy grabs her hand and off they went walking hand in hand, she even looked happy to be with him. I was like holly shit did this dude just capture the holly grail of sugar babies?
How do you know that she is a sugar baby?
I know of a geeky and very generous Sri Lankan guy who has a lady friend similar in description to what you described. Both are healthcare professionals from affluent families . She is a cockteaser but not a sugar baby.
 
Last edited:
  • Like
Reactions: Greytop19

Leimonis

Well-known member
Feb 28, 2020
10,374
10,371
113

Leimonis

Well-known member
Feb 28, 2020
10,374
10,371
113

Ryan4life

Well-known member
Feb 11, 2011
684
621
93
How do you know that she is a sugar baby?
I know of a geeky and very generous Sri Lankan guy who has a lady friend similar in description to what you described. Both are healthcare professionals from affluent families . She is a cockteaser but not a sugar baby.

Anything is possible, but it's very rare to see a white girl date an Indian guy, let alone a girl of this attractive caliber. Add to the fact the guy was nerdy/scrawny looking makes it even more rare.
 

IMBob

Senior Member
Aug 24, 2001
735
178
43
Brampton
Sugar sites- From my experience the best is Seeking . Prices keep rising , but more temporary sales. Currently 25% off. On the east coast, I have had some success on Secret Benefits, SugarDaddyMeet and WhatsYourPrice ( affiliated with Seeking) . SugarDaddie - I wouldn't recommend if you have to pay . SB and SD , both pay $25 / month .... ? Somehow I got a comp membership . I've never paid. I find the occasional SB there. I hide a contact email in the subject line. Most ladies are not paying members and can't read or respond to a full message . Complete waste of time in the past 5 years or more is Ashley Madison and adult friend finder. SugarDaddyforMe - I wouldn't trust with a real Credit Card. That site was looking really dated. Refreshed recently . Any websites that I've missed , that you have had some success ?
 
Last edited:

johnd5050

Well-known member
Jul 6, 2012
2,728
3,454
113
Anything is possible, but it's very rare to see a white girl date an Indian guy, let alone a girl of this attractive caliber. Add to the fact the guy was nerdy/scrawny looking makes it even more rare.
No, its not rare to see inter racial couples in Canada, USA or the UK. They not only date but get married and have a happy life.
Some are doctors, lawyers, etc.
 
  • Like
Reactions: superman12
Ashley Madison
Toronto Escorts