By perfect woman, I mean your image of the perfect woman, but you can only have sex with her and nobody else. You can also do her anytime you want, and she'll never say no to anything. Or do you prefer to have sex with many different attractive women to avoid the boredom? Assume you are not married (if that makes a difference for you).
Sex with one woman vs. sex with many women
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I am basically a monogamous person at heart so I picked the first option but your results will be skewed because of where you are posting the pole.
Now if you went to a singles/marriage site you'd get different results but when you post a pole on this topic on a site that is dedicated to men having sex with many different women, well, the results will be pretty obvious.
Now if you went to a singles/marriage site you'd get different results but when you post a pole on this topic on a site that is dedicated to men having sex with many different women, well, the results will be pretty obvious.
many women!
I would like to offer a woman's perspective. Our bodies, genetically, are not designed to respond sexually to just one person. Even if you are happy and in love with 'the perfect woman' after a while your penis will just stop responding the way your heart does, and you wont be able to get it or keep it hard for her. It's not that *you* are bored with her, but your body is bored with her pherimones.
When men go to a strip club and are around that sexual energy, and get washed in other women's pherimones (even if you don't go and have sex with other women, just being around them, flirting, etc) they go home and are able to get a raging hardon for their wife again. It's because when you return to your wife, her pherimones will be 'new' to you again.
Don't get me wrong, I DO NOT condone cheating, but I do encourage non-monogamy, and being open and honest with your partner/wife. She needs variety too
I would like to offer a woman's perspective. Our bodies, genetically, are not designed to respond sexually to just one person. Even if you are happy and in love with 'the perfect woman' after a while your penis will just stop responding the way your heart does, and you wont be able to get it or keep it hard for her. It's not that *you* are bored with her, but your body is bored with her pherimones.
When men go to a strip club and are around that sexual energy, and get washed in other women's pherimones (even if you don't go and have sex with other women, just being around them, flirting, etc) they go home and are able to get a raging hardon for their wife again. It's because when you return to your wife, her pherimones will be 'new' to you again.
Don't get me wrong, I DO NOT condone cheating, but I do encourage non-monogamy, and being open and honest with your partner/wife. She needs variety too
Dani said:Dani, obviously his Pole is not Hungary.tboy said:I am basically a monogamous person at heart so I picked the first option but your results will be skewed because of where you are posting the pole.
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And where would one find your POLE these days?
As for Sexy V's posting, I have to disagree. While I haven't been married to someone and been with them for 20+ yrs I have had 3 5 yr relationships and to be honest, didn't ever get bored of any of them. I wanted them physically as much on the last day as I did on the first.
BTW: how DO you make a pheromone? Take away his pyramid (lol sorry, couldn't resist that one).
BTTW: if you read this thread, and don't vote, would that be considered Pole vaulting? Or is that what happens when you jump an eastern european escort?
BTTW: As for my spelling mistake, just goes to show you the Chief of the Spelling Police can even make a booboo every once in a while....
BTW: how DO you make a pheromone? Take away his pyramid (lol sorry, couldn't resist that one).
BTTW: if you read this thread, and don't vote, would that be considered Pole vaulting? Or is that what happens when you jump an eastern european escort?
BTTW: As for my spelling mistake, just goes to show you the Chief of the Spelling Police can even make a booboo every once in a while....
Greekster, where the hell have you been, and how is the quest for your GF's bum doing?Greekster said:
I have had some "perfect" GFs in my time. Over time they became tiresome. I guess I have a short attention span. If im with a blonde, I want asian, if Im with an asian I want a european, yes i am that shallow. The older I get the less patience I have with certian traits and behavoir patterns. But I still love banging hot babes. Im doomed.
When I had what exactly what I wanted, I didn't look or think about anything else. I'm pretty sure if I could get something reasonably close to one of my ideals, it would me almost the same way (although it would be a nice bonus I the SO was open to explore deviating together at some point down the line.)
Realistically, I'm not going to get any of my preferred types ever agian in real life, so the question is a completely theoretical one at this point.
But I'm basically and ideal-obsessed person with a heirarchical view of things - when there is a clear cut Number One in my mind, I focus almost entirely on Her - the best is the best and everything else is a demotion, in my mind.
Realistically, I'm not going to get any of my preferred types ever agian in real life, so the question is a completely theoretical one at this point.
But I'm basically and ideal-obsessed person with a heirarchical view of things - when there is a clear cut Number One in my mind, I focus almost entirely on Her - the best is the best and everything else is a demotion, in my mind.
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eyeofthedragon said:
I agree, a emotionally monogamous relation with the perfect boi/girl, and physically poly with many hehe
