I was checking the adds and saw that SexySpinner had posted availability today about 40 minutes earlier an thought that since i had to go to the area i would try again. I have tried a couple of times over the years but never found an opportunity to see her even though i had read good things. Asked her for a 1/2 hour at 3:30 as that gave me lots of time. she responded just over an hour later at about 2:20 saying can i do 3 and we made the date for 3 got the instructions and was off. now i know a number of people in the area sh was in so needed to be careful not to be spotted by certain ones but the area was secluded from the main road and i pulled in as instructed just before 3 sending her the text that i was there waited about 5 minutes standing beside my bike and got the need less that 5 minutes msg so i decided that the neighbors did not need to stare at me any longer and walked around a bit at 20 after 3 i gave up sent her a text that i was disappointed but hanging around outside for that long while all the neighbors started at me was not in my best interest as well as i do not wait that long for anyone. Part of my figuring was that if she could not do 3:30 when i asked then 3:20 was not going to be good so i left, i Got no response at all back from her at all with a reason for blowing me off. Ladies complain about guys not showing all the time and i agree with them if you make an appointment keep it. I have been in this hobby for 25 years or more and i have had some no shows over the years usually i get an excuse. I am sure that she is a lovely person and from some reviews i have read she is a quality service provider but today she sucks or doesn't depending on your point of view.
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I hear you man. She is a great girl, and when she has her shit together and feeling all well and serious about it she can be very reliable. However being someone that has seen her and man is she ever worth the wait and really just LOVES sex. She can seem a bit scatter brained. She seems to like to party and sometimes can be just over tired or not quite with it, but I don't think it's in any way malicious. Unfortunately it's one of those coin flips, you either catch her in a good moment or she wanders away from her phone and just does her own thing and gets to it later. It's more casual for her than business. Which I can see the con and pro side to.
yea i know people love her service level but it is our time as well ! Time to get there and back and the time you wait and that is an hour or more of your life that you loose and do not get compensated for so if the lady does not take your time seriously i won't allow that time to be lost again. Have been stood up on occasion and generally will not even try again one exception was a lady that contacted me hours later and let me know that the issue was out of her control and she would make it up to me (and she did ). I can't figure out how "less than 5 minutes hon" can turn into not hearing back when your at their doorstep. Since you are directed to a specific spot i would think she can see you there so maybe she just did not like my appearance and decided not to see me but if that is the case tell me at lease i know the reason now your guess is as good as mine.
After reading the comments above, I will be stroking SS off the list for a repeat ( saw her in the spring at hotel ). I have wasted so much time and gas this summer with no shows in the Durham area, that I won't try anybody if there is that history there.
If a SP posts on BP, I would expect they are ready for work that day and organized with their bookings. There must be a way to keep track of these booking texts. If all fails on the "SMART" phone, I suggest one take a piece of paper and pencil, draw a grid of their time slots and write in the numbers so they know who is coming when. It can't be that hard to keep track of 10 to 20 time slots in a day.
Thanks lads for sharing your issues, it will potentially save me a long drive to Durham for nothing.
If a SP posts on BP, I would expect they are ready for work that day and organized with their bookings. There must be a way to keep track of these booking texts. If all fails on the "SMART" phone, I suggest one take a piece of paper and pencil, draw a grid of their time slots and write in the numbers so they know who is coming when. It can't be that hard to keep track of 10 to 20 time slots in a day.
Thanks lads for sharing your issues, it will potentially save me a long drive to Durham for nothing.
Sorry Daddy-o that you had a mishap. I've managed to see SexySpinner a number of time since I "discovered" her for myself some time back when she started to resurface this past spring. Well worth the odd mishap in my opinion but I do understand the frustration.
I won't try to defend her as I don't know what actually happened but I can say this. An SP once showed me the number of texts she gets in a hour and honestly, I don't understand how the girls can keep track . It's just a bunch of texts showing under phone numbers and there are so many, it can't be hard to lose someone.
That said, the one thing I have noticed and I'm as guilty as the next guy. So many rave reviews have been written on SexySpinner that I don't bother as I feel it will not add anything. I'm sure there's a number of others doing the same as I know I can't always get the time I want. So when a review like this shows up, only the one occurrence gets the attention and some may forget there must have been quite a few good encounters over the long term that don't get mentioned. I guess us guys that have had a good encounter should provide that history....so there's my two cents plus I owe SexySpinner a review or two. White knight...sure, I know.
I won't try to defend her as I don't know what actually happened but I can say this. An SP once showed me the number of texts she gets in a hour and honestly, I don't understand how the girls can keep track . It's just a bunch of texts showing under phone numbers and there are so many, it can't be hard to lose someone.
That said, the one thing I have noticed and I'm as guilty as the next guy. So many rave reviews have been written on SexySpinner that I don't bother as I feel it will not add anything. I'm sure there's a number of others doing the same as I know I can't always get the time I want. So when a review like this shows up, only the one occurrence gets the attention and some may forget there must have been quite a few good encounters over the long term that don't get mentioned. I guess us guys that have had a good encounter should provide that history....so there's my two cents plus I owe SexySpinner a review or two. White knight...sure, I know.
I understand that they can be busy but we exchanged several texts, made the appointment directed me to the location and where specifically to park then texted " i need less than 5 min hon " . so what happened in that 5 minutes that led her to never respond back with a final destination. My best guess she directs you to park where she can see you and if she does not like your look doesn't bother to get back to you. I thought after reading good reviews over the past years i would give her a try and maybe get another regular lady to visit but if it was not meant to be there are many other fish in the sea.
Although I would not even want to venture a guess as to what happened, I can assure you that, as I have seen SexySpinner a few times at her incall, she has absolutely no view of the her building's parking lot from her location. I somehow also doubt she would pass on a client because of looks...she has seen me a few times...LOL.
Hey guys!!
Sorry for the late reply, I was just advised this thread existed. I feel there is no excuse for having the number of booking mishaps I have had in the past couple weeks since returning to a full-time schedule. I have always been able to pride myself on great customer service in the past and it isn't something I am willing to compromise in the future...it took some getting used to the volume of calls I have been receiving - more than ever before and overwhelming is an understatement! I have had to take on another number and the past few days have been smooth sailing. Pre-existing clients are encouraged to get a hold of me for my preferred client line, as my listed number will only be a first point of contact.
I understand the planning that goes into most appointments, be it time off work or away from home, and I never get to thinking my times is more valuable than any of yours so I truly do feel bad and apologize. Anyone who has known me very well at all knows I strive to do whatever possible to resolve issues that may arise from time to time...so I welcome anyone who has had an unsatisfactory experience as of late to contact me directly via TERB pm, email, or text so we can arrange an encounter that will be much more true to my overall reputation.
Thanks to those who have put up with my hiccups and keep coming back, you guys are the reason I will never leave Durham
Sorry for the late reply, I was just advised this thread existed. I feel there is no excuse for having the number of booking mishaps I have had in the past couple weeks since returning to a full-time schedule. I have always been able to pride myself on great customer service in the past and it isn't something I am willing to compromise in the future...it took some getting used to the volume of calls I have been receiving - more than ever before and overwhelming is an understatement! I have had to take on another number and the past few days have been smooth sailing. Pre-existing clients are encouraged to get a hold of me for my preferred client line, as my listed number will only be a first point of contact.
I understand the planning that goes into most appointments, be it time off work or away from home, and I never get to thinking my times is more valuable than any of yours so I truly do feel bad and apologize. Anyone who has known me very well at all knows I strive to do whatever possible to resolve issues that may arise from time to time...so I welcome anyone who has had an unsatisfactory experience as of late to contact me directly via TERB pm, email, or text so we can arrange an encounter that will be much more true to my overall reputation.
Thanks to those who have put up with my hiccups and keep coming back, you guys are the reason I will never leave Durham
Similar situation for me today. Texted a bit last night and made an appointment for 10 AM this morning. I was asked to text before 9:00AM this morning to confirm we were still on. Check - Text sent confirming at 8:32AM. Arrived at about 9:55AM, but someone was in the designated parking spot, and sitting in the car fiddling with his phone. I assumed this may have been a 9:00AM appointment catching up on work following his appointment, so did not think much of it. He left about 10 minues later, but I stayed where I was. Anyway, I texted that I was there but was parked in Visitors due to the fact that the parking spot was occupied. Nothing. Texted a few more times stating "I was in the parking lot", "are you there", "hello?" etc - 5 times, and finally left around 10:35AM with no response. I asked her to text me when she can, and have also tried a couple of times tonight with no response, although based on bp she may not be working today...which would be sort of surprising since she booked an appointment with me for today last night.
Not a big deal for me, and frankly, I hope she is alright. I recognize I am certainly not a regular or anything yet, and also realize s--- happens. Just thought I should let folks know about my experience today.
I am hoping we can arrange something in future due to the positive reviews, perfect body type for me, and the fact that I no longer have my provider of the last 20 years or so, but we shall see.
Will keep everyone posted.
-ionu
Not a big deal for me, and frankly, I hope she is alright. I recognize I am certainly not a regular or anything yet, and also realize s--- happens. Just thought I should let folks know about my experience today.
I am hoping we can arrange something in future due to the positive reviews, perfect body type for me, and the fact that I no longer have my provider of the last 20 years or so, but we shall see.
Will keep everyone posted.
-ionu
sorry this happened. I just wonder because you don't mention it: you said you sent a text at 8:32am confirming but you never said that she replied? Did she? I typically don't go to the location before the lady confirms back. There's two parties in the arrangement and if you didn't get a reply in trying to confirm, that may be why you missed out. I'm not judging as this happened to me with another girl some time ago.
Well, not a big deal. BendaHose, to your question, no, I never received a response. I did hear from SexySpinner though the following day (today), who has extended a very generous offer in recompense. As a result we are scheduled for next week. Family always comes first and as I said above 's--- happens'.
I am not the least bit concerned about it and we shall go from here. Nothing ventured , nothing gained.
I am not the least bit concerned about it and we shall go from here. Nothing ventured , nothing gained.
