That's not really what you originally posted, but as above needless to say I agree.I was just trying to say that guys that push boundaries beyond what the lady is comfortable with should be dealt with harshly, which should include jail time if warranted. The vast majority of us never push a lady beyond her boundaries, but there are some out there. I'm not saying that you are one of those guys Aardvark just so you know.
Those things are already criminal offenses, although cops and courts have no experience dealing with them in the context of paid sex. Once the ladies can call cops without fear of being busted for running a brothel, the experience should come fast enough.I was just trying to say that guys that push boundaries beyond what the lady is comfortable with should be dealt with harshly, which should include jail time if warranted. The vast majority of us never push a lady beyond her boundaries, but there are some out there. I'm not saying that you are one of those guys Aardvark just so you know.
There's always going to be a stigma attached to this industry for the clients and the providers. Neither legalization or decriminalization will change that. So there's always going to be the problem of clients or ladies being hesitant to call the cops. Sad to say, but that stigma will always be around, so there won't be any single strategy (harsh punishment, enforcement, legalization, etc.) to solve this issue. It's going to take a massive mindset change in all people, which will never happen.Those things are already criminal offenses, although cops and courts have no experience dealing with them in the context of paid sex. Once the ladies can call cops without fear of being busted for running a brothel, the experience should come fast enough.
But please, can we grow up and get past the stupidity that harsh punishments are useful in controlling behaviour. If they were no one would, kill, steal or rape. Only backward idiots try to bring up kids that way. What works is enforcement, and you actually have to do that—and pay for it—there's no fear of harsh penalties when the guy knows the cops are too busy, the courts are too cr4owded, and the Crown will let him cop a plea.
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Absolutely correct, my friend.. . . there won't be any single strategy (harsh punishment, enforcement, legalization, etc.) to solve this issue. It's going to take a massive mindset change in all people . . .
Yes we still have a long way to go. But never say never.There's always going to be a stigma attached to this industry for the clients and the providers. Neither legalization or decriminalization will change that. . . . a massive mindset change in all people, which will never happen.
As long as there are SP's that feel victimized, religious people touting 'morals' and NIMBY'ists, there will always be those that want to get rid of brothels and prostitution. And there will be equal numbers of SP's that feel empowered by their choice of career that will call for the opposite. So, I think the legal grey area that we have in Canada is about as good it gets.Yes we still have a long way to go. But never say never.
A hundred years ago, women were not considered "persons" in the eyes of the law and therefore were not allowed to vote in Canadian elections.
Up until emancipation a century and a half ago, an entire race was considered "property" in the United States.
And up to 1969, homosexuality was considered a crime in Canada, until repealed by legislation introduced by Pierre Trudeau, whose words at that time apply equally today to issue of paid sex between two consenting adults:
"There is no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation."
People continue to make false assumptions about how the world would be should these criminal offenses in question disappear.Those things are already criminal offenses, although cops and courts have no experience dealing with them in the context of paid sex. Once the ladies can call cops without fear of being busted for running a brothel, the experience should come fast enough.
We can see in other countries where paid sex has been legal for a long time (in Europe, Asia and Latin america), that there is still some stigma around prostitution. Doubtful it will be any different here in Canada.There's always going to be a stigma attached to this industry for the clients and the providers. Neither legalization or decriminalization will change that.
I have found this to be true in my travels an example is the Netherlands, it is very hard to find an actual Dutch girl doing it, meanwhile the majority of the women working in the Red Light in Amsterdam would be East Euro, much easier to hide from your family and friends back in Bulgaria telling them you got a job there doing whatever. Another example is Turkey, completely legal prostitution but extremely difficult to find in tourist cities like Istanbul.We can see in other countries where paid sex has been legal for a long time (in Europe, Asia and Latin america), that there is still some stigma around prostitution. Doubtful it will be any different here in Canada.
I can't speak to your experience, but not long ago the majority of the "working women" in Amsterdam were from South America (Argentina, etc). Same comments apply.I have found this to be true in my travels an example is the Netherlands, it is very hard to find an actual Dutch girl doing it, meanwhile the majority of the women working in the Red Light in Amsterdam would be East Euro, much easier to hide from your family and friends back in Bulgaria telling them you got a job there doing whatever. Another example is Turkey, completely legal prostitution but extremely difficult to find in tourist cities like Istanbul.
Listening to some of the ladies pushing this case, it sounds like they think they will be able to operate legally in their own condo apartment. Can’t see that happening at all as zoning would not allow it. Also, if prostitution is legalized, the legal brothels would be aggressive in reporting the girls to bylaw and shutting them down.The facts demonstrate that if brothels were legalized, they would be strictly regulated and obtaining a "brothel license" would be more difficult than obtaining a license to operate a strip club, or a body-rub parlour - both of which are severly restricted.
The idea that all SPs would somehow be allowed to obtain a business license to operate a brothel is simply not based in any model of reality presented by any municipality.
Most lease agreements specifically outlaw businesses to go after prostitutes.Can’t see that happening at all as zoning would not allow it.
Either the individual would be operating within the laws and regulations, or not. And if she's not, then she has no more incentive to call police over an incident than she does now - and any dissatisfied client would be more likely to report her to the licensing authorities.Most lease agreements specifically outlaw businesses to go after prostitutes.
However, zoning by-laws, by and large, will allow small one-employee sole-proprietorship businesses of types that don't bother neighbours.
This might be in the category of: keep it discrete.