Well I'm almost convinced, LOL. The poll results speaks for itself.. now I wonder what would be a fair donation? hmm, any thoughts?
Should I offer "greek" services?
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I would say likely in the $50 - 75 range, I have seen this as a normal range for an additional charge. to me that seems fairly reasonable for an extra service like this and it would mean that not everyone would be jumping to do it
That price range is what I've seen before as well.
Just a suspicion here, but my guess is that many of the yes votes won't turn into yes customers. Much easier to vote yes than do the deed!
Just a suspicion here, but my guess is that many of the yes votes won't turn into yes customers. Much easier to vote yes than do the deed!
jamesronnie said:
Well personally I have been asked about anal with almost every client, so I know that most of these yes votes are my favorite Ottawa and K-town guys who have been waiting a long time for this.
I'm sure that there must be a couple of voters that won't actually engage, but hey6 I cannot have 114 greek sessions, I would no longer be ,ahem, um "tight"...
Hmm maybe it's cause I've got a big round booty that most men love, (most, not all, but most). Or maybe men are just curious and wanna give it a try.
Whatever the reason..your wish is my comand.
However to be fair, I'll will begin offering "greek" on September 1st. I have picked this date, because I'm fairly booked up between now and then and obviously did not take greek service into account when I was booking this weeks appointments...Well here goes nothing.....
Geez..I finally decide to offer the "greek..and nothing no comment, no nothing....sniff~sniff, LOL
Yeah!!! ... Yipee!!!! Long live the soon-to-be crowned Queen of the Islands!!! LOL!!!
The Most Beautiful SP vote could have swung your way to your favour had you started to offer Greek sooner ... something we will never know. LOL!!!!
When are you coming to O-town again???
The Most Beautiful SP vote could have swung your way to your favour had you started to offer Greek sooner ... something we will never know. LOL!!!!
When are you coming to O-town again???
rachelle of kingston said:
Don't let it sadden you
So - good luck and again to those guys that are smart enough to take you up on the offer - props to you.
Rachelle, nice to see you have made up your mind and good luck to your clients that get to tap that delicious tushy of yours. But, sweetie, really - it's not such a big deal in the SP world, many girls that do not advertise greek offer it as part of their sessions with their regulars and with those guys that they would like to become their regulars - it is the best way to provide this service as it keeps away the sad sacks that you will regret ever having turned on your tummy for.rachelle of kingston said:
So - good luck and again to those guys that are smart enough to take you up on the offer - props to you.
drrogers said:
I do realize that greek is not a big deal no most SP's..HOWEVER, to me it is a huge deal..I mean we are talking about my ass, which is tight and I plan to keep it that way, LOL!
I'm also very choosey about who I see normally, so I'll be even more picky when it comes to greek clients. My comfort is more important then a few hundred dollars..so I will not offer greek to every, Tom, Dick, and/or Harry, instead to people I know from the boards etc. I do not accept every client now, and don't intend to start now,
So Doc Rogers are there any kegal exercises for the ass?
Kegel exercises work for everything down there. (And should be done by EVERYBODY who wants to remain sexually active and responsive throughout their lives -- not to mention everybody who'd like to retain bladder and bowel control!)
But what I don't understand is why charge extra for it? In doing so, aren't you really selling sex instead of your time? This is probably at the root of the problems with guys wanting to discuss explicits, putting smarter SPs on the spot to compromise themselves. This seems like a nickel-&-dime approach to me.
Maybe you should just let what happens happen with the guys you meet -- "between two consenting adults" as the saying goes -- instead of trying to charge for every little thing.
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But what I don't understand is why charge extra for it? In doing so, aren't you really selling sex instead of your time? This is probably at the root of the problems with guys wanting to discuss explicits, putting smarter SPs on the spot to compromise themselves. This seems like a nickel-&-dime approach to me.
Maybe you should just let what happens happen with the guys you meet -- "between two consenting adults" as the saying goes -- instead of trying to charge for every little thing.
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C, I do see your point from a legal standpoint. I do know the laws for the business in Canada inside and out... However I will find a way around it so I'm not breaking the law... I just cannot let greek happen "naturally"..like I stated earlier, I need ample notice to prepare to make sure there are no humiliating situations.
I have taken your input seriously and do respect your opinon and will take it into consideration, so thanx for your thoughts!
I have taken your input seriously and do respect your opinon and will take it into consideration, so thanx for your thoughts!
Find a way around it??
Just remember, no matter how well prepared you are, anal sex is a dirty job. Shit happens.
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Just remember, no matter how well prepared you are, anal sex is a dirty job. Shit happens.
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I'm thinking of selling an extra 30 minutes block of time to those who are looking for greek..that way they are paying for my time.JoyfulC said:
I'll also be very carefull how I word this when speaking with strangers ie:new clients.
A friend of mine here in Ottawa got busted after she told a caller that she didn't offer sexual services in response to his request to buy a blowjob. She told him she didn't do that, BUT she made the appointment anyway, even after he made it clear that's what he wanted.
He walked in, stuck out a couple bills, and then immediately retracted them when she reached for them. He uttered some code and a few more vice cops swarmed in the door. Next thing you know, they were laying out her underwear and toys on the bed and photographing that as "evidence" that she was a prostitute. (.... having sexy lingerie or toys is evidence of prositution???? but that's what they said)
They even charged her with obscenity charges because of videos she had in her possession that she bought in a local adult video store and which were not anything unusual.
In short, they slammed every charge on her they could possibly imagine. And why? I believe because they knew my friend was in no financial position to fight them. In fact, I believe that they were all too aware that she was in a particularly difficult situation due to a child who had been injured. In short, they waited and took advantage of her being in the worst possible circumstances. They've let countless other people get away scot free with the same offenses, but they saw a weakness in her and they pounced -- just like any ruthless predator would. Just like any misogynist would.
(Sorry if I seem a bit emotional here, but frankly, this situation really put me off the local vice ops. Up until then, I thought they were reasonably fair -- but subseqent to that, I don't trust them anymore than I'd trust a local pedophile.)
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He walked in, stuck out a couple bills, and then immediately retracted them when she reached for them. He uttered some code and a few more vice cops swarmed in the door. Next thing you know, they were laying out her underwear and toys on the bed and photographing that as "evidence" that she was a prostitute. (.... having sexy lingerie or toys is evidence of prositution???? but that's what they said)
They even charged her with obscenity charges because of videos she had in her possession that she bought in a local adult video store and which were not anything unusual.
In short, they slammed every charge on her they could possibly imagine. And why? I believe because they knew my friend was in no financial position to fight them. In fact, I believe that they were all too aware that she was in a particularly difficult situation due to a child who had been injured. In short, they waited and took advantage of her being in the worst possible circumstances. They've let countless other people get away scot free with the same offenses, but they saw a weakness in her and they pounced -- just like any ruthless predator would. Just like any misogynist would.
(Sorry if I seem a bit emotional here, but frankly, this situation really put me off the local vice ops. Up until then, I thought they were reasonably fair -- but subseqent to that, I don't trust them anymore than I'd trust a local pedophile.)
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Wow,that's a really horrible situation. If you don't mind me asking how long ago did this happen, and does this happen in Ottawa alot? I ask because as I'm sure you know I do visit alot. I'm curious do vice bother internet advertisers or newspaper advertisers more? Which is worse? I've always thought to stay out of the paper, but I may be wrong.
My idea for getting around charging outright for greek, was really just a thought and is far from perfect. I really do appreciate the heads up...
My idea for getting around charging outright for greek, was really just a thought and is far from perfect. I really do appreciate the heads up...
Generally, I don't think it has anything to do with where or how you advertise. I think almost all busts in Ottawa stem from neighbour complaints -- which, most of the time, is reasonable. I'm sure you wouldn't like to live next door to an out-of-control brothel anymore more than I would.
But that said, there's no accounting for the sanity of neighbours. In my friend's case, I think she had one of these crackpot neighbours who complained about every and anything, and just happened to get lucky with his complaint about her. She just happened to live next door to McNasty who was looking for a reason to complain and get some attention.
But that's why I think it's so important that we be beyond reproach in our communications. We have to defend ourselves not only against the neighbour who has a legit complaint but against the one who simply gets his/her jollies out of complaining.
By giving these guys some reason to think that they can expect to be explicit in their communications with us, we're leaving ourselves vulnerable. It might be a remote possibility, but when you're talking about a record that will follow you for the rest of your life, what exactly do you consider "remote"?
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But that said, there's no accounting for the sanity of neighbours. In my friend's case, I think she had one of these crackpot neighbours who complained about every and anything, and just happened to get lucky with his complaint about her. She just happened to live next door to McNasty who was looking for a reason to complain and get some attention.
But that's why I think it's so important that we be beyond reproach in our communications. We have to defend ourselves not only against the neighbour who has a legit complaint but against the one who simply gets his/her jollies out of complaining.
By giving these guys some reason to think that they can expect to be explicit in their communications with us, we're leaving ourselves vulnerable. It might be a remote possibility, but when you're talking about a record that will follow you for the rest of your life, what exactly do you consider "remote"?
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Well your point is well recieved . I've been in the business for 5 years, but I have only been an indie since Dec, so dealing with the legalities is so new to me. I am lucky that I have great neihbours who are not around for the hours that I recieve incalls..and evenif they were here I don't think I'd have a problem. However, I have dealt with crazy neighbours, and I am thankful to have decent people around me now.
I really do not plan on taking any large risks that could or would end up with me in cuffs, however you have educated me a little, and may have saved my hide!! So thanx Joyful C you are a great person...hope that all iswell in your world!
I really do not plan on taking any large risks that could or would end up with me in cuffs, however you have educated me a little, and may have saved my hide!! So thanx Joyful C you are a great person...hope that all iswell in your world!
yes, all is well in my world (with a prudent eye out) -- if you are in town sometime, you should come for lemonade. Mina (the cat) and I would be delighted to have you.
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