Highly recommend taking a female friend or fuck buddy. It makes meeting another woman or couple so much simpler. Each time I have done so I have either ended up with my dick in another woman’s mouth or pussy, watching my lady with another lady, or fucking my friend with another couple either watching us or fucking beside us. One time in hot tub I had my friend and another lady stroking me (careful as not supposed to play in the water if it means cumming). But her boyfriend or husband came back and freaked out on her. That one was a mood killer! But certainly have not seen orgy scene nor have I ever seen a single guy hooking up with another couple or lady. Been propositioned for swaps outside of Oasis also but always they were older and much more out of shape.
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Too expensive, a sausage fest, few hot single women, lots of fat or old or ugly ones , and even those will treat you like a creep, unless you are young, tall, in perfect shape and caucasian
for those $80 bucks entrance fee, I would get a beer and 3 dances at a local strip club.
So I won't bother, however there is an exception; from time to time there is porn filming at the place, or special guests, if I want to meet that talent, then I won't mind going
also, if you decide to take a SP companion, I would advice you either go a day that only allow couples or early afternoon, otherwise your escort friend will attract quite a lot of attention from the zomb, er, sorry, I meant single guys
I would also avoid queer day events; nothing wrong with gays, but I prefer to see them clothed
for those $80 bucks entrance fee, I would get a beer and 3 dances at a local strip club.
So I won't bother, however there is an exception; from time to time there is porn filming at the place, or special guests, if I want to meet that talent, then I won't mind going
also, if you decide to take a SP companion, I would advice you either go a day that only allow couples or early afternoon, otherwise your escort friend will attract quite a lot of attention from the zomb, er, sorry, I meant single guys
I would also avoid queer day events; nothing wrong with gays, but I prefer to see them clothed
thank you. I thought I was the only one that was going to tell the truth that race matters there
How much time did you spend there, and what did it cost him, including door fee and drinks? Let's be honest...
One time I paid a stripper girl $800, plus I bought her an outfit and a jewelled butt plug. We started with quickly at her place, dinner on the way downtown, then Oasis.
It was a special event night, so $95 entry fee but I had a 1/2 price coupon. Plus $15 for valet parking. $10 tip for valet.
Drinks are expensive. I drank Diet Coke and she had some fancy drink and a shot, each round. Spent about 80 on drinks.
That was the night with the pole dance, turned into lap dance, bbbj, then cfs, she fucked me hard while the DJ played ‘fuck me like an amimal’. Her butt plug popped out when she came.
Then a swim and a smoke; we met and made out with another couple. Closed the place at 3:00 am.Back to her place and I stayed over, had be be up and gone in a couple hours. She got me up but we were both to beat for morning sex.
You give the people in charge your email and let them know which females you want to date and if they are also interested the female will contact you
you spend a few minutes talking then onto the next one
No doubt the attractive ones get most interest
it is a numbers game
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Highly recommend not doing this.
Its not just that the chances of hooking up are low. Its that the chances of hooking up are SO low you are IMO more likely to get some from a stranger at a random bar downtown. And I'm serious. I would either save your money and get an SP, or go to a random bar and be social (which would also be less awkward/uncomfortable than going to oasis alone). If you go to oasis, you will not only get no action, but you will feel shitty about yourself by the end of the night.
Its not just that the chances of hooking up are low. Its that the chances of hooking up are SO low you are IMO more likely to get some from a stranger at a random bar downtown. And I'm serious. I would either save your money and get an SP, or go to a random bar and be social (which would also be less awkward/uncomfortable than going to oasis alone). If you go to oasis, you will not only get no action, but you will feel shitty about yourself by the end of the night.
It's a numbers game. If you're an attractive guy then you my have female choose you.
I've been to Oasis maybe 10 times on my own over the last four years and only got lucky with a middle-aged woman on my first visit. Just save your money for a session with an SP, bring one with you or head to Germany and visit an FKK club.
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I am not interested in going for the reasons stated but I am curious, define "creepy". Is there no way for a single guy to get out of the creepy mould you cast all single guys in by default?
Concerning taking a SP, I strongly doubt that is what the club wants. Paid SPs creates a bordello effect that goes against the spirit of the club. Couples go to make friends with other like minded couples.
The only night I've attended where single males are allowed is DTF (Down to F%&$).
As others have noted, it's really hit-and-miss, but mostly miss.
One time at DTF I hooked up with a young lady (at my age they're all young...) who was there with her boyfriend. They have an open relationship, so he was fine with her playing the field. We spent a good chunk of time in the Red Room. On another occasion I ended up playing "wingman" to a young lady who was there for the first time. She wanted a gangbang, and so there were seven of us (including me) having a grand old time in the Red Room. As it was a single man night, and she was very attractive, she did attract swarms of horn dogs and "towel adjusters" who tried to horn in on the action while not having been invited. Fortunately she had a wingman!
My take on the women who attend DTF is that a significant percentage of them aren't there to play, and of those who are there to play might not be, for the most part, that visually appealing.
My preference is to go with a female companion on a couples-only night. Better vibe, better social interactions.
I don't think the club cares about whether or not you are there with an escort, as long as any monetary transaction happens off the premises and that relationship is kept between the two consenting parties. In all my times there, I have brought nine escorts as guests, seven of those as first-time visitors, and many of those as repeat guests. Never had any problems.
As others have noted, it's really hit-and-miss, but mostly miss.
One time at DTF I hooked up with a young lady (at my age they're all young...) who was there with her boyfriend. They have an open relationship, so he was fine with her playing the field. We spent a good chunk of time in the Red Room. On another occasion I ended up playing "wingman" to a young lady who was there for the first time. She wanted a gangbang, and so there were seven of us (including me) having a grand old time in the Red Room. As it was a single man night, and she was very attractive, she did attract swarms of horn dogs and "towel adjusters" who tried to horn in on the action while not having been invited. Fortunately she had a wingman!
My take on the women who attend DTF is that a significant percentage of them aren't there to play, and of those who are there to play might not be, for the most part, that visually appealing.
My preference is to go with a female companion on a couples-only night. Better vibe, better social interactions.
I don't think the club cares about whether or not you are there with an escort, as long as any monetary transaction happens off the premises and that relationship is kept between the two consenting parties. In all my times there, I have brought nine escorts as guests, seven of those as first-time visitors, and many of those as repeat guests. Never had any problems.
Considering a future visit to Oasis with an SP so I guess the procedure is meet someplace beforehand (bar/cafe?) to pass on the donation and then head in. Probably cover her entry too. Have your prior visits been 2 hours or so?
There's a Timmies on the corner of Jarvis & Carlton, which makes for a convenient and casual rendezvous point. And yes, you are covering her entry and bar tab, as any gentleman would. If you want to start a bar tab, simply leave your credit card and photo ID with the bartender before you head upstairs to get changed. I have found that the easiest way.
I think the shortest visit I've ever had at Oasis was three hours. Especially if this is your date's first visit, you don't want to rush around. Savour your time in the heated pool and hot tub, etc. You'll still have plenty of time for play in between.
Enjoy!
Yes the pool and hot tub was great. Wonder how getting out of the pool is now that its cold up there! As I recall its open air. I was there in the summer as the guest of a couple. But would not go as a single.
You take a deep breath and move swiftly!
Actually, they do have a couple of heat lamps over the door & stairs to/from the pool. So that mitigates the temperature drop a bit.
I went myself on Boxing Day 2017 and it was definitely a sausage fest. That night was slightly different than others in that it was a "porn shoot night" (in actuality, it was just a camgirl doing a show for her MFC page) - on that night, single men were were allowed in the typically couples-only areas of the site.
There were crowds of guys just jerking off to the camgirl (I did not partake). It would be better putting the entry fee, cost of drinks and other miscellaneous costs towards seeing an SP instead.
There were crowds of guys just jerking off to the camgirl (I did not partake). It would be better putting the entry fee, cost of drinks and other miscellaneous costs towards seeing an SP instead.
