There was one woman there that I suspect was an SP. I say this because she and her guy didn't look right together. She was a very slim Asian woman with long nipples. He was late 30's early 40's but had a HUGE gut on him. Easily a 60 pound boiler, maybe more. When he was putting the blocks to her, she just lay there, arms at her sides and didn't get into him in the least. One guy came over and tried to tag team her, but she pushed him away. Something just didn't "fit" with the two of them. I could be wrong though (like with the young group who had their own orgie.)
So I went to a Swingers Club for the first time
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As I said, with me, I'm with a woman who is very horny. I met her on Lavalife. I have a theory about women on LL and that is that they are more driven to meet men than other women, hence odds are good that they are more sexual. The women I have met off of LL (the ones who I succeeded with) have all been more sexual and more horny than most. With my current friend, she is extremely sexual (I think we've had sex virtually every time we go out), though she had never tried the Swingers thing either. I slowly brought it up with her, never forcing the issue and finally got the OK. We were both nervous as hell, but in the end, we enjoyed ourselves and I'm looking forward to going back and so is she.Lustology said:
Ironicallly, as we were getting dressed at the end of the night, there was another woman in the dressing room and she was joking about how when people at work asked her how her weekend was she would remark, "it was GREAT" and then the other person would invariably ask, "so what did you do" to which she would stumble, "Ummm, I went out for dinner" with a little smirk on her face. I laughed, because it's true. You can't or won't make this sort of thing public knowledge.
It was without a doubt, one of the wilder sexual experiences of my life.
I know what you mean. We've seen a very young, gorgeous, tall, slim girl with a few choice tats and this balding, wrinkly old guy with a keg of a belly. Further we can see she wasn't into it when he was doing her. She just appeared bored. We would have intervened, except my friend didn't want to deal with the guy. We would have been fine with just her.james t kirk said:
That's not my style I would never do that.gramage said:
C'mon man use your imagination.
(If that fails pm me and I'll spell it out for you)I would say chances are she was an escort and the guy was her client. My ex-wife and I used to go to several of those clubs and the amount of "couples" that are actually SP and client is higher than you would think. The true swingers share, the sp couples usually don't because the girl's already more attractive than he could get by switching. In fact the very first Toronto SP I ever met was a regular at Wicked with a different client every time we saw her. She's now retired, but at the time she was very open with my ex wife regarding what she really did, and she pointed out all the other escorts, we were very surprised. They all knew each other and said hi, and the owners of Wicked knew which ones were escorts and not (according to her)rama putri said:
As a wrinkled old guy with an attractive wife, who go to Wicked, and generally only play with each other, I resent all the "she must be paid" assumptions. There are more women than you might think who are attracted to successful men, as opposed to handsome men. People assume that when a hot girl is with a successful guy, she is a "gold-digger". But some women are actually attracted by success.
For example, plenty of girls would happily fuck ugly celebrities: Ron Jeremy, Howard Stern, etc. But guys would not fuck Hillary Clinton. When we meet a couple at a swinger place, if the guy has a regular job, my wife may or may not be interested in him. But if he has a successful business with lots of people and power, she is attracted to him. It's not that she is trying to trade up, she just wants to fuck him because he is successful. To me, that is hard to understand, but that is how she feels. And she is not the only one.
So when you see an attractive women with a regular guy at Wicked, maybe it is Mrs CD and I, and she is not getting paid. Bored and faking perhaps, but not getting paid.
For example, plenty of girls would happily fuck ugly celebrities: Ron Jeremy, Howard Stern, etc. But guys would not fuck Hillary Clinton. When we meet a couple at a swinger place, if the guy has a regular job, my wife may or may not be interested in him. But if he has a successful business with lots of people and power, she is attracted to him. It's not that she is trying to trade up, she just wants to fuck him because he is successful. To me, that is hard to understand, but that is how she feels. And she is not the only one.
So when you see an attractive women with a regular guy at Wicked, maybe it is Mrs CD and I, and she is not getting paid. Bored and faking perhaps, but not getting paid.
For the most part, the couples I saw "looked" like genuine couples, with the one exception.
Even if she was really with him (because he was successful), she certainly wasn't into him. At least if you're going to go with an SP, go with one who likes you.
By and by however, if you did go with an SP, I don't know how much that is going to cost you. My friend and I got there around 9:30, hung around the front room for a couple of hours, then the back room till 3:00 a.m. I would presume that an SP would want to get paid for at least the time in the backroom. Though maybe some sort of compromise deal could be reached. If you're Daddy War-bucks that may not be a problem, but most hobbiests, it would. Better to find yourself a nice horny girl to go with for free.
I don't know if there are websites for single swingers looking for a partner or not.
If you put an ad on LL in the intimate section looking for such a woman you might meet with success but only after much work as there are waaayyyyy more guys on the intimate side of LL than women.
Even if she was really with him (because he was successful), she certainly wasn't into him. At least if you're going to go with an SP, go with one who likes you.
By and by however, if you did go with an SP, I don't know how much that is going to cost you. My friend and I got there around 9:30, hung around the front room for a couple of hours, then the back room till 3:00 a.m. I would presume that an SP would want to get paid for at least the time in the backroom. Though maybe some sort of compromise deal could be reached. If you're Daddy War-bucks that may not be a problem, but most hobbiests, it would. Better to find yourself a nice horny girl to go with for free.
I don't know if there are websites for single swingers looking for a partner or not.
If you put an ad on LL in the intimate section looking for such a woman you might meet with success but only after much work as there are waaayyyyy more guys on the intimate side of LL than women.
Exactly.C Dick said:
The woman I went with was not the first woman I've ever heard express a curiousity about such things.
I used to dj at one for over a year and a half with my ex girlfriend. It was off premises and had a very wide demographic. Young, old, fat, skinny, mostly white, a few blacks and asians.
I'm glad I had the opportunity to go there and get paid because it got to be very very boring. The same people, the same games over and over. I don't think I will bother going back to one again. It sounds fun at first, but the longer we went, the less we wanted to be there....even with pay.
We would do puzzles and she would go to the movies or sleep in the car a lot of times.
Enjoy it while it's still fun is what I say.
I'm glad I had the opportunity to go there and get paid because it got to be very very boring. The same people, the same games over and over. I don't think I will bother going back to one again. It sounds fun at first, but the longer we went, the less we wanted to be there....even with pay.
We would do puzzles and she would go to the movies or sleep in the car a lot of times.
Enjoy it while it's still fun is what I say.
